Family & Relationships - 9 July 2007

15days of internet friendship and the guy proposes the girl to marry him and what he said abt him,is perfectly right.He cannot stay for a hour,without talking with the girl and cries a lot if the girl doesn't respond and gives multiple messages..guy is settled in life ..is this love or infatuation

2007-07-09 06:43:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

any help?

2007-07-09 06:38:02 · 11 answers · asked by HereIam 1 in Marriage & Divorce

guys can answer too

2007-07-09 06:35:13 · 11 answers · asked by Nameless<3 3 in Singles & Dating

that you hate the person for being such an idiot and you hate yourself for loving them?

diga me.
Gracias.

2007-07-09 06:34:26 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am mad because ever since my husband has gotten this game console he has done nothing except been on IT!!! He wont keep ajob or even look for one anymore, He wont help clean or cook when he is hungary he asks me all the time for stuff, and if I dont get it for him he doesnt eat and complains his head hurts cus of it. He doesnt do the greatest job watchin the kids..they are in to everything by the time I get home. Anyways my question is Is this an addiction? What can I do about it? Does anyone else have this problem. If I mention that he is on it too much and try to get him off and to spend time with me and the kids he makes up excuses not to go or he just gets mad...I am at my wits end and really thinking bout divorce..but why over such a stupid thing..if he were working and playing it .I wouldnt care. HELP!!!!

2007-07-09 06:34:20 · 9 answers · asked by QTforlife 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend asked me this(about his personal life- a girl he was getting close to), my opinion is no. It is hard enough having a one on one relationship with someone, without having a third ( the child that is not yours- so you have to deal with this person on a different level than your own child ) or even a fourth ( a biological father who is ever present) involved.

It also would affect any spontanaiety in the relationship ( you can't just go somewhere on a whim, which to me seems romantic), and if you do settle with this woman, if taxes your resources (kids cost alot of money...it's hard to raise your own, let alone somebody elses kids)

Does it also show an irresponsibilty on that persons part, if the child was out of wedlock?

Would your answer be different if the woman (or man) had been married when they had the child, and their partner had died ( car accident, Iraq, or other tragedy...mine would).

I am throwing this one out to start a dialogue.

2007-07-09 06:33:00 · 11 answers · asked by baron d 2 in Singles & Dating

I AM SO MAD AT HER!!!! I would have never let anyone in this whole entire universe read that! not even my best friend. That stuff in there was so personal. There r some really bad things in there.....Do u think i should tell my mom how much that hurt me? She doesnt kno that i kno. and then u kno what??? SHE TOLD MY AUNT AND NOW MY MOMS SIDE OF THE FAMILY KNOS WHATS IN THERE. i just dont want her to talk to me about the things in there.

2007-07-09 06:32:13 · 9 answers · asked by Nikkie 1 in Family

ok ladies, i have a question for you. lets say you were to get an e-mail from a guy that you've never talked to before, however have seen pictures of on facebook and can get some information about him, and he asks you to get together. would you be willing to go on a date with that guy if it was something small like going out for coffee during the day and something that didn't last very long, like maybe an hour or so? Would you be willing to see if he is someone who might interest you?

2007-07-09 06:31:20 · 2 answers · asked by frankfurter27 1 in Singles & Dating

I just want to know what type of girl do guys like:
A. skinny
B. average
C. chubby
D. fat

what do you like the girl to look like?
and what type of personality do you like?

2007-07-09 06:30:33 · 18 answers · asked by kelcihrn 2 in Singles & Dating

I haven't asked anyone yet, but I would like to this year. But I want to know why girls say no and things I can do to get a Yes answer.

2007-07-09 06:29:29 · 17 answers · asked by moviemaker1990 1 in Friends

My husband and I have been married for 4 years. We have been having some major ups and downs lately, and we are working things out. Anyway, a male friend of mine, whom I have known since grade school, has started calling me quite a bit in the last couple of months. I did confided in him what has been going on with my husband, ONLY because I wanted to get a male perspective as to some of my husbands actions. But he knows things are much better now, with me and my husband. My friend called me last Friday and as we were hanging up he told me " I love...uh...Later." Yeah, I'll talk to you Later." I nearly fainted. This friend of mine is someone I was crazy about, until I met my husband 5 years ago. During our teenage yrs. my friend knew I liked him, but he was never interested in me, yet he would get all upset if I dated someone or didn't pay attention to him. Although we have remained friends over the years, do I just ignore what he started to say or do I just stop a 23 year friendship?

2007-07-09 06:28:42 · 13 answers · asked by Amy L 4 in Marriage & Divorce

So I have been dating a man going thru a divorce. We are very good friends with benefits. We made that decision early on in the relationship, because he was so emotionally unavailable at the time. It has been three months of this type of dating, and now I am finding myself caring for him more than i anticipated.
Also, his divorce hearing got postponed two more motnhs, which sent him into a slight depression. And he has been distant ever since. Not returning calls, texts, etc... But when I talk to him eventually, he is super sweet. And last week we had this super intense convo... he said he loved me. I understand what he is going thru is tough and I want to be there for him in every capacity. But I don't want to add any new stresses of my emotions. BUT... I really like this guy, and he is super sweet and I finally found a NICE GUY.
So... he has not called this week. Should I tell him how I feel or just stop calling and walk away?
My heart is hurting...

2007-07-09 06:27:26 · 12 answers · asked by Mitch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is Turkish, 42 and have ben married 20 years have 1 daughter 17. I am 54, of Italian parentage but have lived in UK for 40 years. I caught him cheating 18 months ago and he now says that he was too young to get married that he is a free spirit and that he wants to do whatever. He has got an apartment where he used to stay 3 days a week, but now stays there less. He says he wants to leave the house we live in to our daughter and that I can stay here till I die as long as I don't get another man. (half of it is in my name anyway). What he is saying is that he will look after me in every sense (inc. sex)only if he is allowed to come and go as he pleases. I am still an attractive woman but I work alone and don't know many people to mix with as he kept all friends at arms length. I am asking myself whether I can trust this arrangement as I have no guarantees that he would change his mind later on. I can't decide what to do my daughter is doing exams don't want to unsettle her.

2007-07-09 06:26:18 · 26 answers · asked by Angela O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband cheated on me with 2 different women, and I am very hurt, it has been about a week since I found out, I wanted to leave him at first but didnt and still dont have the strength to do it. We talked about it last night and all and we tryed to figure out what we are going to do, and he thinks we should try to stay together, but to me it just doesnt feel right. sometimes I will be perfectly fine and then other times I look at him and cant stand the pain that he has caused me. What should I do? Should I give him this 2nd chance? Does he deserve it? I dont know what to do or how to stop hurting over this, I want to work it out, but dont know if it is worth trying?!?

2007-07-09 06:24:33 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was seeing this guy for about two months. The first month was great until the second month he became distant and extremely busy. He claims he isn't seeing someone and actually very busy with his work. He really does miss me alot, that's what he said...He doesn't call me at all even he said he will but then he didn't. I was so upset with him and angry at him because I didn't do anything wrong. I removed his phone number because I was worried I might call him too often than he.. And then now i haven't heard from him in a week. I had enough and decided to remove him from myspace.. I am wondering how does he feel now that I finally removed him??

2007-07-09 06:24:08 · 3 answers · asked by nobody 1 in Singles & Dating

I have seen a thousand questions asking girls this, but I want to know from the guys, Out of the following, which do you prefer for a girl to be?

a. Skinny
b. Average
c. Built/Muscular
d. A lil Chubby
e. Fat

Just wondering!! Thanks for your answers!

2007-07-09 06:23:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you take a girl to dinner and a movie with your parents does that mean things are seroius

2007-07-09 06:19:31 · 12 answers · asked by Italianaprincess 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 22 and about to graduate from college in december. I have had many job offers in a variety of locations, but I really have my heart set on one in Boston. I have a girlfriend of 3 years who would not like the city life one bit. Now something else complicates this situation, we have been going through some hard times (arguing, disagreements, etc,) now I'm not sure she is the "one". And now I am realizing we really dont have much in common (music, movies, etc). But mostly what I am wondering is should I sacrifice a career in the city for a career out in the sticks with a girl who I think I love?

I am still very attached to her and there are things which I still love about her. We have gone through alot such as, her returning from college in pennsylvania just cause she missed being with me. We have had our ups and downs but nevertheless I would like to see if there are other girls who I can connect with better

2007-07-09 06:16:07 · 20 answers · asked by Jimmy21 2 in Singles & Dating

Preferably not married, straight, has a job, and respectful. I've just about given up. Men don't seem to want women who are self sufficient beautiful and smart.

2007-07-09 06:13:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a beautiful vintage tiara to wear for my wedding next month. It has six tiny silver loops that you can use to attach the tiara to your hair by pushing a hairpin through. But however many pins,it will not stay put!! My hair stylist is running out of ideas and I am getting nervous!! It's quite heavy and has no comb or teeth to hold it in place. I really want to use this tiara for sentimental reasons. Can anyone help please?!

2007-07-09 06:13:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ive been with my husband for 6 yrs married for 3....we decided to take a "break"....he is 23 i am 21...he still wants to party and go out and well i do as well but i rather spend my time with my family...oh we have a 3yr old...so i'm soooooo sad and depressed i cant eat, i cant sleep....i throw up withought eating i feel like i'm making my self sick.....in 2 days i lost 5 pounds....i know that i will be okay during this seperation but its sooooo hard...i cant be at home alone becuase i just cry and depress myself........i have thoought about suicide but i have to be strong for my son....wat can i do 2 get over this?

2007-07-09 06:13:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hes my friend but he has said look at previous question something ok and that he really liked our friendship and was glad Im his friend but he knew I had feeling more deeply than that and didnt want that so what now he said he liked someone else but valued our friendship I just realized I'm no where near over him like I thought I was!! WHAT TO DO?

2007-07-09 06:12:31 · 7 answers · asked by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 in Singles & Dating

In my Sociology class we were talkin about races and stuff and my professor said that Caucasian people have a distinct advantage in every aspect of their life in the United States. She is a Caucasian herself and she said "Especially in the dating world and the nightlife...they are the superior ones"

I couldn't exactly comprehend what she meant

Most of my classmates seemed to agree (about 23 outta 30 of us thru a show of hands by her statement)

IS that somewhat true? How??

2007-07-09 06:12:26 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 and I have two weeks left of boredom Help!

2007-07-09 06:11:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had been dating this girl for 3 and a half months and after meeting her parents she breaks up with me.....she says its her own decision but i believe her parents influenced her into doing it because i dont think they liked me.........she told me she wanted to be friends and i told her that i would call her when im ready..........now ive been thinking and i dont think i wanna be her friend.........i wanna move on and forget about her......i havent called or spoken to her in a week......shes on my msn and i know shes waiting for me........should i tell her wat i feel or should i continue not talking to her.....wat should i do????? i also wrote a poem about how i feel....should i just let her read and maybe she'll get the point???

2007-07-09 06:10:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 06:07:46 · 30 answers · asked by frangipani 2 in Singles & Dating

ok here is the story ....i like this person soooooooooo much but i have this kind of pride which is killing me ...
can any one teach me subtle gestures in speech which indicate that i deeply care about the person am talking to ...?

2007-07-09 06:05:55 · 5 answers · asked by going-to-light 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 06:04:10 · 8 answers · asked by swaglehead 1 in Singles & Dating

My Friend of 7 years,asked my help to pick out an outfit for her partner's broth's wedding.. I have 3children & single mum,also full time student at university, have had resits & exams,after few cancelations,we set date for this morning.
As she lives 45 mins by bus, I laeve buy 2pm to pick up my kids frm school..time was arranged for 10am...(confirmed night before) I phoned her 9am she was still in bed, Igot little upset and said she needs to take more responsibilty as I hav lots on,& she knew she had to be with me by 10am..I said well meet at 10.30@ mall,she agreed, I further text her & 2 say giv urself till 11am didnt want her to get stressed.. she phones me 9.30 in a screaming fit and accusses me of a bad friend and am behavin like its chore for me and that friends dont put restrictions, also says: she says, wanted it to be a leisurely day out coffee shop,etc, she was hysterically cryin and threw phone, heard her say,cancel day, her b/frnd was comin wid us also.

2007-07-09 06:01:58 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My cousin is trying to get a divorce but it's been years since she has seen her ex...and has no idea where he is now...does anyone know how she would go about it?

2007-07-09 06:00:57 · 25 answers · asked by Sheyla 1 in Marriage & Divorce