Preferably not married, straight, has a job, and respectful. I've just about given up. Men don't seem to want women who are self sufficient beautiful and smart.
2007-07-09 06:13:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry meant to say not married at all. Not preferabbly to the one who called me a whore.
2007-07-09 06:22:27 · update #1
They are somewhere out there, it just takes a long time to find them. And that was so rude that guy who called you a whore, you are not a whore I am sure you are beautiful, dont settle for anything less then you deserve.
Good Luck!
2007-07-09 06:28:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have a difficult time finding a good man if you imply that there aren't any.
I look at online personals, and about half of them have this very question at the top. I never read those peronals. It's a demeaning statement towards men. There are 3 billion men in the world and there as many different types of men.
I suspect you are looking for a man where the "bad" men are and you're upset that you don't find a "good" one there.
Don't give up, just look somewhere else.
2007-07-09 06:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by ∞ sky3000 ∞ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, we're out there, you just have to keep looking. My wife has the same qualities as you, that's why I married her. She grabbed me in college while we were still young. They men you are searching for are out there, asking the same exact questions of the women. Seeking a married one only lead to troubles. Hooking up with someone in a bar is rare. Possibly make some new friends and network through them through social functions or work functions.
Chances are you see these men every day, only to never persue them, thinking they are attached. Sometimes a lame blunt ice-breaker like "so you married or seeing anyone?" works. In the first 10 seconds, you can tell by the reaction and response. You may strike gold one of these days.
2007-07-09 06:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It beats the bejeezus out of me how ANY woman can talk and feel as though they are correct about all men. I mean how do they know? Have they met every man on the planet? Or even seen every man on the planet? Men do absolutely nothing more than women do at times as this site proves it. Now as far as your question. Just about every woman (and man) has their own wants and desires from the opposite sex. Now if they find one that doesn't quite fit the mold that they themselves have created, then all men or women are unfit. Good people ARE out there. It all depends on your own idea of a good person. Let me assure you that there are plenty of men out there looking for a "self sufficient beautiful and smart woman". It's just that you seem not to be looking in the correct places. Or maybe your timing is off. Put yourself out there to be found. I mean, not whorish or threatening, just available to the right crowd. I'm sure that you will find what you are looking for. Good things come to those who wait. I'm sure that you know to stay away from the married ones, but also remember to stay away from the ones "in the process" of getting divorced as this is a strain in and of itself that you can do without. You don't mention your age in your post, however might I suggest a reputable dating site? Just stay away from the sex related areas as I'm sure that this isn't up your alley. Just place in what EXACTLY your looking for and don't deviate from it. It's easy enough to run background checks on line if in doubt as to what you are hearing from someone. Good luck in your hunt.
2007-07-09 07:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes either that you are just looking in the wrong places. I blame it on the women out there making it hard for us. There are women out there who just do things to keep everyone down. This is a quote from my poem:
"If every woman was a Queen men would have to be Kings.... They'd have not choice"
I find that we don't need to try to stop men from saying that we are h**s and b****es we need to stop being that. Then they would have to step up. Regardless, you are doing nothing wrong it's just pitiful how most women out there make it hard for us!
2007-07-09 06:21:05 · answer #5 · answered by sugahsweetened 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There always going be good men in the world. But some men give other men bad visions. so us women don't give them a chance and we end up being alone.
2007-07-09 06:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by Finally Got It 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
American women who think of themselves as you do are feminists. and what does feminist woman want with a man anyway.
I would rather a woman who was strong but not dependant on displaying that strength 24/7.
A woman who is sensual not sexual.
You know... a woman, not a feminist.
2007-07-09 06:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they find them threatening and they don't like their ego's dented. I am straight, single, have morals and hold down a job in the financial sector. However, I am a chicken, a rooster to be precise. Would that bother you?
2007-07-09 06:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by Seed Plower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with you on this one! I found a "good man" but he definitly has his faults...messy, loves the internet, and loves attention from others...There are some "good" men out there but just be open to the fact that not all men or atleast those few "good" men, aren't perfect! good luck!
2007-07-09 06:17:48 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes there is a few good men left in the world i just happen to be one of those good men. Just be patient and one will find you
2007-07-09 06:17:02 · answer #10 · answered by wolverine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋