what do i do???

Question

i had been dating this girl for 3 and a half months and after meeting her parents she breaks up with me.....she says its her own decision but i believe her parents influenced her into doing it because i dont think they liked me.........she told me she wanted to be friends and i told her that i would call her when im ready..........now ive been thinking and i dont think i wanna be her friend.........i wanna move on and forget about her......i havent called or spoken to her in a week......shes on my msn and i know shes waiting for me........should i tell her wat i feel or should i continue not talking to her.....wat should i do????? i also wrote a poem about how i feel....should i just let her read and maybe she'll get the point???

Answer 1

Frist off you can't end relationships with words, if you don't believe me then don't talk to her again and keep a list for the next year of everytime you've thought of her, bet that page fills up quick! Ether way realize that maybe it was the parents and you right for being upset, but in the end we have no choice, anger takes a lot out of us, and love give us so much.... purpose! So don't let it go so quickly when the only thing she did wrong was maybe love herself or her parents to much. Also realize the whole friend lover crap is just that crap. You can't move back in a relationship it only cause's frustration, but realize moving forward doesn't mean wife, marraige, kiddos, those are products of the relationship. Moving foward is more about what happens inside of each of you and less about what the johnsons see. Your starting out, but you guys already of classic relationship intimacy problems and proubly did the whole cut off talking to your friends for each other, and spent most of the time in a romantic flow. Missing the fact you need a friendship at the core of that relatinship. And I can see by what went with the parents and how she treated you afterwards, you were classic strangers in love...... friends can become lovers, but don't expect to turn a lover into a friend, good luck with life and all your endavors!