Family & Relationships - 9 July 2007

I'm madly in love with this guy who also likes another girl. He says he likes both of us and is pretty confused. What should I do?
I love him and I'm hurt. Should I keep going and fight for the guy I love, or should I just walk away...?

2007-07-09 08:44:55 · 22 answers · asked by Lilly 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 18 and I have never really felt love since my parents died when I was just a little kid, but even then I felt nothing when they died. But I see it all the time and I can tell u that it is not good. It changes people completely, not in a good way. I have seen it turn some pretty tough guys into *****'s. But that wont happen to me I am a warrior for life. I will never fall in love and wonder why any one would want to. I have been good for almost all of my 18 years alone and that will continue tell I die. Why do people want this i dont get it, some of my friends have turned into big pussys cuz they found love and now I dont even know them anymore.
I need my soldiers back this is some bullshit. Love is like a bad disease an epidemic

HOW DO I GET MY SOLDIERS BACK or r they gone and need to find new ones cuz I aint with this bull

2007-07-09 08:44:48 · 1 answers · asked by Me,Myself, and I 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

they're always bossing me around and i feel like i have no control. i cant go and talk to my friends on the computer until ive done EVERYTHING. theyre control freak parents. they even put a password on the laptop, they have parental control on it so i cant go on past nine. I'M 14!! my mums a complete mental case, for filming (because im an extra in a tv series) they said one day i needed this jacket so i brought it and didnt have to use it, noone on set even saw it or even knew i had it. today i cant find it, but my mum's being completely unreasonable and is MAKING me find it, its a cheap jacket from a charity shop, i never (ever) wear it and i really dont need it! thats just one example. my mum, dad, and grandad are more bothered with hearing the telly than hearing about my day. my dad cba doing anything, my grandads a complainer and my mums got a headache all the time and is always complaining and nagging. how do i tell them to lay off me, i cant take any more, i get really wound up

2007-07-09 08:44:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-09 08:43:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There's this boy I like, I think he likes me but we don't really talk much although we have lots of chances. How do I start a conversation and get to know him better? I know I seem a bit obsessed with boys lol

2007-07-09 08:41:49 · 8 answers · asked by Goldenfield 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok im going on a plane to FL with my best friend and my sister researched that there will be showers and scattered thunderstorms! i have been on planes thousands of times but im still freaked out i hate them. plzzz help!!!

2007-07-09 08:41:15 · 18 answers · asked by carol<3 2 in Friends

MY BABY'S FATHER AND I WERE TOGETHER FOR 2 1/2 YEARS WE WANTED A BABY AND WE TRIED OUR BEST BUT IT NEVER WORKED. WELL THE DAY WE STOPPED TRYING IT HAPPENED. I FOUND OUT 6 WEEKS LATER WELL EVERYTHING WAS GOING GOOD OR SO I THOUGHT TURNS OUT HE STARTED CHEATING ON ME HE LEFT ME 3 MONTHS PREGNANT AND AT THE POINT TO WHERE I ALMOST LOST THE BABY NOW THAT ME AND THE BABY ARE GOOD AND I'M BACK ON MY FEET HE WANTS ME BACK. I STILL LOVE HIM BUT THATS BECAUSE HE GAVE ME THE ANGEL OF MY LIFE BUT I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT ONCE A PLAYA ALWAYS A PLAYA SO SHOULD I TAKE HIM BACK

2007-07-09 08:39:23 · 17 answers · asked by playgirl69 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Worse yet this is pretty much what always happens on my birthday, father's day, anniversary, etc. This little problem happens with my wife, friends, co-workers, you name it. Yet I never forget these days for these same people. I think I would just like to tell all of them to KMA.

2007-07-09 08:36:17 · 37 answers · asked by shane 1 in Friends

My husband and I were serious issues within our marriage and general homellife. I moved out and took the kids with me. He has since begun counseling and seems to be trying to make the effort. In the meantime, I am living with my mom and being here introduces a whole stack of new issues. My husband wants me to come back home, and I want to go back. I want to be back in my own home, and I want my kids to be in their regular surroundings again. The problem is that my family will give me a ton of grief about it. Since the seaparation, they do not like my husband and are against me going back. I dont want them to think that I dont appriciate them putting us up and helping me out, but I really feel like I should go back home. I told my husband we can have separate rooms and work it out slowly, but I just want to bring us back for our general comfort. I know that they will still love me and all if I go back, I just worry that the relationship will be strained. What to do??

2007-07-09 08:35:55 · 17 answers · asked by My two cents 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-09 08:35:46 · 14 answers · asked by ronald m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he is cute funny and is sweat

2007-07-09 08:33:13 · 10 answers · asked by sarahrenee13 1 in Singles & Dating

the question is not if we should have a vegetarian menu.the question is should we inform the guests that the menu will be all vegetarian?also how the heck do you decorate a plastic chair?


please help!!!

2007-07-09 08:32:38 · 31 answers · asked by beautyalarm 2 in Weddings

Hello, i recently got married and moved from my home country to be with my husband. Since i got here, i've found porn in his pc (cam stuff), condoms, well, a couple more sex-related things like that, and yesterday he accidentally put a tape in the vcr and it was porn. I'm a naive person and i feel weird about those things, but he says that all that stuff was from his friends who used to crash in his apartment (i'd rather believe that than believe it was his stuff), and now hes acting like he's mad at me and offended because he says i'm blaming him. I dont know what to do, i dont know how to act, i wasnt mad at him, i just told him that i dont know what reaction to have to all those things, i told him whats past is past but he's still mad at me. I told him he's not supposed to turn the tables on me like that. What should i do? How would expect your wife/gf to react?

2007-07-09 08:32:13 · 16 answers · asked by spidina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

.. that you have to deal with, but do not want to? Boyfriend's 3-year old son's Mom and her wacked out family. AKA The Ex and family). I won't bore you with detalis. I am having trouble living a life of chaos.

2007-07-09 08:31:56 · 5 answers · asked by FridaY 3 in Family

My fiance works for a video game developer and basically debugs games all day. On Friday nights he gets together to drink with his fellow gamer dorks usually at a reataurant/bar. Then they go back to one of the guys homes to play more video games. I want him to come home at a decent hour but he says he doesn't want to drive home drunk so sometimes he'll pass out there and come home early the next morning. He will send a text message to say he's too drunk to drive but I still feel really upset that he doesn't come home earlier. We have a 3 yr old together by the way. Am I being stupid and giving him too much freedom or is this just normal healthy guy stuff? Thanks! :)

2007-07-09 08:29:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what qualities or behavior constitue this???

because i am almsot 22 and have never ever been approached by a chick...


sure i could do the approaching...but i jsut assume they're all taken or dont want to be bothered...

2007-07-09 08:29:30 · 2 answers · asked by justin 2 in Singles & Dating

I am getting a divorce after a marriage that lasted a little over 6 yrs and for 2.5 yrs out of the 6 were spent seperated.That does no including the many more times we were on/off before formally(legally) seperating.Anyway after this last seperation one of the patrons of my husbands expensive resturant that serves (lithuanian,ukrainian,and russian cuisine)asked me out on a date we have been seeing each other a year now.This man always complimented me whenever he saw me at the resturant even slipped me a box of chocolates with a rose a few times and no i never cheated on my husband.My new man(the patron) is 10 yrs older than me russian business man from moscow works in jewlery particularly dimonds and as it turns out supplied the jewerly used at my wedding?He actually attended my wedding!?though i dont remeber him being there since we had some many guests but is this not really creepy?

2007-07-09 08:29:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

yea i do play with LUANA and we do have fun i still love her and yea.sometimes would it be okey if we have so time alone or not you pick?there is also 2 little babies she plays with and they are sweet to and she sometimes won't let me babysit her and her little sister and she tells me to let go off her and she is 1 year old and she will not let me take good care of her and when i am babysitting too?plz help

2007-07-09 08:25:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i always see several gorgeous ladies at the gym, i'd like to strike up a convo but i don't know how to start, maybe compliment them on their glutes? It seems like a lot of them want to keep the talking to a minimum with me. Plus they are surrounded by several guys who are probably checking them out. These are normal girls not muscle bound fitness freaks.

2007-07-09 08:23:36 · 8 answers · asked by HomerFlinstone 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, i am totally confused right now.. i've had boyfriends in the past and we never actually broke up or anything.. we just stopped calling and spending time together. i always move on ans start dating someone else! my current bf was good, took me places, gave me gifts, but as the relationship went on he showed his bad temper and even put his hands on my neck during a disagreement. he still calls me, but we don't hang out as much. then there;s my ex who came by to see me on sat. we hang out for the whole night but nothin hpnd. then there's a guy at work who likes me a lot and told me to break up with my bf, then another ex thinks he and i are going to patch things up, then there's two who don't wanna be committed but want the intimacy. i am so confused.. they are all putting pressure on me. what am i doing wrong and why so many guys at once, lol.. hellllllllllllllp ps: and a few others have stopped talking to me cuz i didn't want them! why me? serious answers for a serious matter thanks

2007-07-09 08:23:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 20 and i feel ready for marriage, ive been with my b/f for 3 years and i know im ready for marriage. so why do people say were to young? what makes them so sure.

2007-07-09 08:20:33 · 35 answers · asked by lovely 3 in Weddings

We are to be married in less then 3 weeks, we were sitting at the table last night going through some songs that are to be played for the dances. I choose the one that I'll be dancing with my dad and he chose the one that we'll be dancing too, then I suggested a song for him and his mom. Then he just stated out of the blue that he won't be dancing with her for a special dance. At first I thought he was joking, but a moment later I knew he wasn't. We have been havin some problems with her lately, to be honest she is driving us nuts. But I told him that he should still do this dance with her, in 2 years when everything is calm he would look back and wished he had of done it. She has hurt him really bad lately, well both of us but more so him. We have tried talking to her about it, but she doesn't see what she is doing, I know this is why he doesn't want to dance, and I might feel the same way if it were the other way around, but still. I need some advice on how to change his mind

2007-07-09 08:19:55 · 11 answers · asked by Erin 2 in Weddings

I dont want a person to come home. Being a close friend of my sister's husband he keeps on coming and find some pretext to call. I dont want him at my palce or call me as then he insulst other people in room. I told him one firmly not to call unless its emergency he stopped for a while then start sending mails. Now he has started calling again and coming again. What could be the best way to give him message firmly and politely?

2007-07-09 08:16:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Last night I was sitting at a bar with some friends and one of my guy friends was alittle upset because one of my female friends always goes for jerks AKA bad boys. These are the men who cheat, lie, dont want a commiment and treat you like a slut. He just did understand why we fall for the bad boys
(HE's A GOOD GUY)...I popped off and said "Sometimes it is easier because you don't expect much and your feeling dont get hurt. With GOOD guys you expect the world and it hurts when they show you anything less." Do you think I was right?

2007-07-09 08:14:50 · 5 answers · asked by aprilntex 3 in Singles & Dating

There are very few nice guys out there. Guys that will treat their gal like the princess she is. Guys that will shower her with love and affection. Guys that can write poetry, sing songs of love, and still score the touchdown to win the game.

There are few of us out here. Do women really want that though? Or do they care more, in general, about looks, or how about money? Ideally, they would want it all, but what's more important?

So, is it all about looks, money, or pure kindness? Seems like a slam dunk question, but never ends up that way.

2007-07-09 08:14:31 · 9 answers · asked by davew/ad 3 in Singles & Dating

There are very few nice guys out there. Guys that will treat their gal like the princess she is. Guys that will shower her with love and affection. Guys that can write poetry, sing songs of love, and still score the touchdown to win the game.

There are few of us out here. Do women really want that though? Or do they care more, in general, about looks, or how about money? Ideally, they would want it all, but what's more important?

So, is it all about looks, money, or pure kindness? Seems like a slam dunk question, but never ends up that way.

2007-07-09 08:13:17 · 30 answers · asked by davew/ad 3 in Singles & Dating

What looks hotter on a guy... a white polo shirt, or a yellow polo shirt? With jeans or shorts?

2007-07-09 08:12:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-09 08:12:20 · 9 answers · asked by Ashers 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-09 08:11:15 · 29 answers · asked by Abrade 3 in Friends

Hey girls, 26 M here. Ok the thing is I feel I am short. I am 5' 7" and it gets me down when trying to seek out girls. I get my fair share, but it still knocks the confidence down a ton. And thoughts on this situation I am in??? is 5' 7" that short to begon with?? Ok thanks!!!

2007-07-09 08:11:02 · 20 answers · asked by Tim R 1 in Singles & Dating