There are very few nice guys out there. Guys that will treat their gal like the princess she is. Guys that will shower her with love and affection. Guys that can write poetry, sing songs of love, and still score the touchdown to win the game.
There are few of us out here. Do women really want that though? Or do they care more, in general, about looks, or how about money? Ideally, they would want it all, but what's more important?
So, is it all about looks, money, or pure kindness? Seems like a slam dunk question, but never ends up that way.
2007-07-09 08:14:31 · 9 answers · asked by davew/ad 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh bay bay leme tell u.
SOme women like "bad boys", some girls lke "wealthy giuys" some girls like "Hot Boys", some girls like Smart Guys"
Some girls like me have dated them all, smart sweet, controling, broke, wealthy, ugly, hot. Literally all.... I don't think the problem is good/bad women or men. I think it's compatability. It is hard to find some one u get along with have things in commen, then not to mention physical attraction, trust, and then falling in love.
WOw, I know it's not easy, I'ma keeper and I havent founda dang good one yet LOL!!!
Hope ur right girl comes along. If not u can come down to Louisiana and I can show u how a real man needs to be treated LOL...
Brittney
2007-07-09 12:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by Brittney B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
Nice guys don't always finish last. The problem is also that the jerks always come off as nice guys in the beginning. Nobody wants to think that the person they have been spending all this time with has been deceiving them either. It takes a while sometimes, but in the end I believe in karma and if you are a good person and you treat people well - you will get what you deserve... as will the guys that treat girls like scum.... even the player gets played.
2007-07-09 09:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by Challah back Girl... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you shower a girl with affection, write them poetry and sing to them, they lose all respect for you, because masculine men don't do any of those things. They have female gay male friends that they can talk to about poetry and stuff. Women want men that act like men. Also, whenever you treat a woman like a princess, the power goes to her head, and she starts to see you as a lowly subject.
What you need to do is stop all the silliness, stop singing and project the image that the only poems you know are dirty limericks. Stop treating women like princesses, because most are not worthy of that title, and you need to have the balls to tell them that to their face. Do that, and you won't be able to fend the women off.
2007-07-09 09:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by eviltruitt 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, I think every girl is different. There are plenty of girls out there that just care about money. There are plenty of girls that just care about looks. But there are girls out there that care about the affection, and kindness and the sweeter things that few men will do for them.
For me personally, I need to feel attracted to them physically. If there is no physical attraction, I don't see how a relationship would last. With this physical attraction, there needs to be emotional attraction. I do like a guy that can do sweet things, or think about me for a change. But I also need to find him physically attractive.
What I find physically attractive is not necessarily the guy with the best looks. Every girl out there has their own taste in men. Some women like skinny men, others like chubby men, some like blonde men, others like dark haired men. It all varies.
I truly believe that there is a person in the world for everyone, it's just a matter of finding that person.
Why do nice guys finish last? They fall for the wrong girls.
2007-07-09 08:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I want a guy who treats me nice and loves me, everything you said in the first paragraph. i dont mind a man with money, but truthfully, if a man took me to a game and then to some bugers, i'd be a happy camper. i mean, i'd drather go to a game then go to a fancy dancy restruant.
2007-07-09 08:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by Jules or Juliet 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They don't. That is garbage. Kindness breeds kindness. Evil breeds evil. You don't want a girl that wants to be treated badly because it means she is a mess.
2007-07-09 08:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by dafilthymofo 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
They dont finish last. They end up finishing first in the long run kid. Stay who you are
2007-07-09 08:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by Tim R 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe it is because you are acting too much like a girl.
2007-07-09 08:23:51 · answer #8 · answered by Randy G 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
woman love money but most of all they love to complain about their guy, so the more you do for them the less they can complain so they will dump you
2007-07-09 08:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋