Family & Relationships - 9 July 2007

any tips, pointers or body language or feelings that say its love and not just lust?

2007-07-09 09:54:33 · 11 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Singles & Dating

What would make you think a girl is a crazy b*tch??? How would she act to make you think that. Guys, do you like quiet, soft spoken girls better, or ones who are loud and obnoxious. What are qualities that you REALLY like in girls????

2007-07-09 09:53:39 · 10 answers · asked by sallyh 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm at the point in my life where I'm thinking it's time to get married. I've had many girlfriends, a few I would have considered... but it just wasn't right.

In the last year I have date a LOT of women, but surprisingly haven't found 1 that was even serious girlfriend material let alone wife material.

So I'd like to know from all the HAPPILY married people out there, where did you meet your spouse?

Please also let me know any other details :-)

- How long you were together before you got married.

- How long ago that was (very important, times change).

- How long you have been married (I guess that fits with the last one).

- What ever else you'd like to share... I'm all ears.

Thanks.

2007-07-09 09:52:08 · 40 answers · asked by looking for 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I left my husband 6 months ago but came back because he made me a bunch of promises, which he broke with in a month. We started marriage counceling at that time but he quit after about 5 sessions. For the past 2 months I've gone by myself. He hasn't expressed any interest in returning. He does not talk to me about anything and the only answers I ever get are "I don't know" and "I don't care". When he F's up, which is on a pretty regular basis and I get upset, he just asks me "How do you think I feel". Should I feel guilty for leaving him? I'm so confused!

2007-07-09 09:51:13 · 6 answers · asked by Blue Love Aura 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Just a thought...

2007-07-09 09:50:15 · 1 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a great friend. Ive been his friend for about three years or so now and I have lately found out some drastic things he has been doing. He has once put a knife in his arm and occasionally cuts down his arm but tells no one why. We are best friends and it hurts me to know he is doing this.

HOW CAN I HELP?!
I am there for him, I want to talk to him about it but I need the relliance of my other friend who keeps bailing on me to talk about it. I feel as though Im the only one taking this seriously and I want to know how to help him but I doubt talking to my other friends will help.

Thanks so much.

2007-07-09 09:48:35 · 12 answers · asked by summer_boy 1 in Friends

There's this guy (totally hot), sweet, goal-oriented, very focused on business, but I would love, just love to have 1 night of passionate love-making with him. Is that horrible?

2007-07-09 09:44:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are signs that a guy is interested in you, likes you?

2007-07-09 09:43:35 · 2 answers · asked by valentyn_girl 2 in Singles & Dating

My bff Julia is a very nice girl but my dad doesnt seem to like her! He thinks she a smart aly and likes to boss me around but non of that is true! julia is the nicest friend you will ever meet! how can i get my dad to like her again

2007-07-09 09:42:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, this is kinda long so bear with me.

So I have this one friend (who's a girl) and we've been friends for like a year or two. I never really saw her as a girlfriend, but the past few months, everytime I see her I start liking her more. So one day I decided to tell her that I like (bad mistake) and she told me that she didn't see me that way and only has a friend. At first i was kinda mad and for like a month I kinda dissed her when she wanted to hang out. But i got over it and we would hang out again. But now i still can't convince myself to just "be friends" and I only want to date her now, but i know she wouldn't be feelin it. And the mood between us has been a tiny bit different since i told her how i felt. But she always wants to hang out and i feel like its a waste of time if i can feel the "friend" relationship fading and all i really want to do is go out w/ her. So should i keep trying w/ her and maybe she'll come around or should i just stop with all this nonsense.

2007-07-09 09:41:17 · 13 answers · asked by TheHeftyLefty 2 in Singles & Dating

This Friday the movers are coming to move my things back to my house. I had to get an apartment last July, because my son, and his stepmother hate each other. At the time he was 17, and I felt since his real mother doesn't want anything to do with him it was up to me to get him through school. He skipped most of the year, and failed every subject, now since he skipped work and went to the shore for a week he just got fired. Also he got a DUI, and as of July 25th has no license. The service won't take him, he wouldn't go anyway. I've had it, and want my life back, but as rotten as he's been to me I'm having a hard time comprehending putting him on the street. He just said to me, when the movers come he'll have his bags packed, and will be sitting on them awaiting my orders as to where to go, and what to do. His friends are all bums, whose parents put up with thier garbage, but I'm sick of it. What happens to 18 year olds who are put out? Where will he stay. Fired and a drop out.

2007-07-09 09:34:57 · 45 answers · asked by Paul G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

btw im 13 and my friends and i heard a movie say size matters does it??? clearly all 13 yr olds are or should be virgins so i dont know the answer.

2007-07-09 09:31:34 · 18 answers · asked by :-) SMILE!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend (father of my 7 month old son) says after our apt. lease is up Oct. 31, 2007 he thinks it's better that he moves back home. He says he's not happy at home and he's tired of fussing all the time. I asked him what does this mean for us and he said that we need to live seperate to see if this is what we want (i guess see if we want to still be together.) I don't know how we're supposed to do that if we don't see what else is out there. That seems like we need to see other people to see if we want to still be with each other. I think he's cheating again anyway but I don't know. I found some girl texting him asking why she haven't talked to him in a week and I don't know what to do. I am so scared to ask if he's messing with her bc i really don't want to know the answer. I don't want to be a single parent and I don't want him to be w/anyone else and I don't want to be with another man. Please tell me what to do about this. I am going crazy... :(

2007-07-09 09:29:23 · 3 answers · asked by lovemuffin 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine ask me to go to sumone's wedding as her date. I'm not interested in her or anything, I'm just there as a friend-date.

I want to meet other single ladies there but with this settup, it send out the wrong message to others. I can't leave my friend and walk around to ask for phone #s because I'll look like an ******!

2007-07-09 09:22:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been engaged for over a year now and he has promised me on several occasions that he was going to tell his parents we are getting married. He finally told them that we are considering getting married, but not that we have already set a date and have started the planning process. He says I am pressuring him and that he doesn't see why it is so important that his parents know we are getting married. He is very close to his parents (Whom I still haven't met after 3 years of dating). I feel as if he is ashamed of me. I have 2 children from a previous marriage. He has been in their life since they were 3 and 1 yrs old. They call him Daddy and everything. His parents don't even know about him adopting my children. He doesn't have any other children and has never been married before. I don't want to start paying to much money towards this wedding or investing to much time in the planning process (He wanted the big wedding I didn't), if he isn't planning to marry me.

2007-07-09 09:20:05 · 25 answers · asked by Thursday, 12/31/2009 is our day! 2 in Weddings

I periodically google my children and their spouses. I find out lots of stuff about them that I don't know that way. They say it's an invasion of privacy. How do you all feel?

2007-07-09 09:17:54 · 14 answers · asked by ransomschoice 2 in Family

My boyfriend and I have been together for quite a while now and I am coming to a time in my life where I feel I am about ready to get married. I know he loves me and wants to be with me, thats not what I am worried about. The thing that bothers me is that he makes comments about how he wants to be together for like 3-4 more years before we tie the knot! By then I will be pushing 30 and he will be past the big 3-0!

I know it is all with the best intentions. He wants to be stable, ready and sure. But to be completely honest I don't want to wait that long. I will because I love him, I'm not going anywhere and I am not going to force him but how can I speed up the process without nagging him?!?!? PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!!

2007-07-09 09:16:40 · 15 answers · asked by Honey Baby 1 in Singles & Dating

A. Feeling like you must stay together because you are married, regardless of personal will and preference
or
B. Feeling like you can leave any time you want (even though you are married) but you stay out of choice.

2007-07-09 09:14:02 · 9 answers · asked by danashelchan 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I really care about my girlfriend, and it may even become love eventually, but she isn't very pretty. I think she knows I don't think she's pretty, but I know she's beautiful in every other way. I mean, she isn't perfect, but she seems perfect for me. How do I convince her that I can still care for her no matter how she looks?

2007-07-09 09:11:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a guy, who has a gf tells a girl that he can’t hang out with her alone because he doesn’t trust himself around her…what does this mean? If a guy, who has a gf tells a girl that he truly feels like he loves his gf but has always felt like he’s loved someone else (i.e. the girls he’s talking to)…what does this mean? Lets say this guy and this girl don’t talk for a while…but when they start to again, it’s as if they just picked up the conversation from where they left off….what does this mean?

This guy has only ever had serious relationships...he hasn't been known to have a relationship last less than 6-7 months. He's known this girl (not the gf) for 7 years...and 6 of these years they've been after each other. Nothing has happened between them except some friendly hugs (friendly meaning on a friend-to-friend basis).

Also...when the guy and the girl (not the gf) talk to each other, they always go back to why they are not together.

2007-07-09 09:11:05 · 8 answers · asked by Flip-Flop Crazy Girl 4 in Friends

I have been seeing this girl for about six weeks and the girl has just told me that she is pregnant. However we had only been seeing each other for two weeks when she announces out of the blue that she is pregnant. It is possible to know that you are pregnant that quickly, as I thought that a girl had to miss a period in order to suspect that she is pregnant. How could she know that quickly? I intend to stand by her and the child if it is mine, but what i think has happend is that is has got pregnat, and is worried that she is goint to be a single parent and has latched on to the first man she could, at least thats what everyone I know tells me.

I dont lover her, but i want to do the right thing by her, but am I letting this confuse me into caring for a baby I dont think is mine? How can i find out if it is mine if she wont go to the doctors for a scan and is very evasive?

Or am I just being paraniod about the whole thing? Is it possbile to "know" you are pregnat sosoon

2007-07-09 09:10:50 · 30 answers · asked by brookieboy88 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 09:10:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy that me and my friend hang around with sometimes started acting like a real jerk, and ditching us and making up excuses to not hang out with us...so we decided to get revenge. We called him and i had my friend say that I secretly liked the guy. Then we're gonna wait for him to say if he lies her back or not and dump him.

2007-07-09 09:09:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-07-09 09:08:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-09 09:08:39 · 12 answers · asked by Oliver Sta. Maria 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents have been on the verge of a divorce for months now. My mom has already seen a lawyer and has filled out divorce papers but she hasnt filed them. She is waiting for things to get bad again.

The other night i asked my mom if she loved my dad and she said 'of course'. this answer didnt satisfy me so i asked if she was 'in love' with him and she said 'its complicated' I told her that i didnt want them staying together just because of me.

today she called from work and asked me of i wanted to leave or not and i told her 'i guess'. she said that we would talk about it later. I dont really know what to say to her.

i want to leave, its hard seeing my parents fight all the time. I dont know how i am to tell her this though. But i guess the real reason i am posting this is for your views and for your support.

Thank you and God bless

2007-07-09 09:08:18 · 5 answers · asked by Rissa! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

MY HUSBAND TOLD ME THIS MORING THAT HE DOSE NOT WANT TO DO THIS ANY MORE BY THAT HE WANT OUT OF THE MARRIGE . I AM EXPECTING TWINS I AM SO HEART BROKIN WHERE DID I GO WRONG I HAVE HIM EVERY THING NEVER TOLD HIM NO TO ANY THING HE WANTED TO DO I EVEN FORGAVE HIM FOR CHEATING ON ME WITH MY BEST FRIEND . WILL I EVER GET OVER THIS AND BE HAPPY AGAIN . HE'S MOVING WITH MY EX BEST FRIEND. I AM THE *** RIGHT TO HAVE FORGIVEN HIM WHY ARE MEN PIGS.

2007-07-09 09:08:07 · 21 answers · asked by mary 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend just broke up with me and he moved out of the apartment while i was at work. I don't understand what happened, because he has always been the type that wants to talk about our problems. But out of no where he just dumps me? without hesitation?

2007-07-09 09:07:54 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah D 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been reading on the web that it is a better and more effective way than going to clubs. I am just worried that most of these types of classes have way more men than women and the women would just want to dance among themselves and be hostile towards the men (like in clubs). Does anyone have any experience with this?

2007-07-09 09:06:16 · 3 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Singles & Dating

Both my parents are deceased. I want to honor them some way at my wedding with songs. I want to dance with my fiance' to Heartland "I Loved Her First" in memory of my dad, for the father/daughter dance. And I want to play "Tears in the Floor of Heaven" in memory of my mom. Does anyone have any other songs that would be appropriate to play either during the wedding or at the reception in memory of my parents, since I am the only daughter in the family.

2007-07-09 09:05:54 · 9 answers · asked by charlie 2 in Weddings