I left my husband 6 months ago but came back because he made me a bunch of promises, which he broke with in a month. We started marriage counceling at that time but he quit after about 5 sessions. For the past 2 months I've gone by myself. He hasn't expressed any interest in returning. He does not talk to me about anything and the only answers I ever get are "I don't know" and "I don't care". When he F's up, which is on a pretty regular basis and I get upset, he just asks me "How do you think I feel". Should I feel guilty for leaving him? I'm so confused!
2007-07-09 09:51:13 · 6 answers · asked by Blue Love Aura 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I forgot to add that he has been hiding in his bedroom and has very little to nothing to do with me or the kids.
2007-07-09 09:55:26 · update #1
Its takes two to get married, and it takes two to keep the marriage going. Sounds as though he isn't interested in doing his part...pack his sh!t up and kick him out.
2007-07-09 09:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
LOOK YOU ARE BETTER THAN THIS IF HE WANTS TO ACT LIKE A CHILD I DON'T THINK YOU WANT TO BE MARRIED TO ONE DUMP HIM LIKE A HOT POTATO AND GET CHILD SUPPORT HE WILL REGRET IT BE HE THINKS YOUR GOING TO BE AROUND FOREVER AND HE CAN TREAT YOU LIKE A DOORMAT NO I DON'T THINK SO TELL HIM YOUR TIRED OF BEING HIS DOORMAT AND LEAVE OR HAVE HIM LEAVE YOU HAVE THE KIDS AND DON'T GO BACK UNLESS HE STRAIGHTENS UP BUT THE THIRD TIME IS A CHARM MOVE ON AND FIND A NEW PERSON ENJOY LIVE WHEN YOU LEAVE YOU MAKE IT HARD TO GET YOU BACK BUT I WOULD REALLY THINK ABOUT IT IS HE WORTH IT ?????????YOU NEED A MAN NOT A KID......................................................IT TAKES 2 TO MAKE IT WORK IF HE'S NOT WILLING TO TRY JUST WHAT DO YOU HAVE GET RID OF THE PROBLEM..............................
2007-07-09 17:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The marriage was over when he quit going to counseling. Don't feel guilty.
2007-07-09 17:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you need to be hit in the head with it? He's done with you and the marriage. Move along already.
2007-07-09 16:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by javelin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
time to leave
you tried and exhausted your resources
a marriage isn't a marriage with only one person giving.
2007-07-09 17:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Hurts Get Over It 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him? bcuz he aint gonna quit i gotta man thats ann *** if i could leave him i would but its almost impossible so get out while u can
2007-07-09 16:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by kessin72 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋