Family & Relationships - 9 July 2007

OK I WAS JUST WONDERING DO GUYS LIKE IT BETTER WHEN A GIRL PRETENDS TO NOT LIKE THEM SO THEY HAVE TO WORK HARD FOR HER OR A GIRL THAT WHEN THEY ASK FOR A DATE IMMEDIATELY SAYS YES

2007-07-09 09:05:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK I was friends with him first, then met the wife and we all get along. Now I just found out that he hit her, I know that when a man hits a woman, he will repeat that and she told me it hasn't been the first time. I don't know how comfortable he'll feel with me knowing. I believe she did the right the thing by calling the cops cause she was in danger. I want to help him get help, how do I go about that? She is hurting inside but women are not punshing bags. My heart is breaking for them both. They just got married but have been together for a few years already. Any way to help them or should I stay out of it?

2007-07-09 09:05:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK So my boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 1/2 months. We have slow danced REALLY CLOSE and hugged a lot. I am ready to kiss, and I am pretty sure he is ready too. The fair is next week, and I think I wanna ask him to go with me. I am pretty sure I am going to kiss him then. Give me step by step of where we should be, what I should say, how long the kiss should be, what I should do after, ect. I wanna make it REALLY special and REALLY romantic. (BTW, we are in 7th grade, BUT DON'T TELL ME WE ARE TOO YOUNG AND ALSO DON'T TELL ME TO WAIT FOR THE RIGHT TIME FOR THE KISS NOT TO PLAN IT BECAUSE I JUST WANNA DO IT, OK?) Thanks and 10 points to the answer that walks me through step by step thoroughly and has tons of details!

2007-07-09 09:03:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know this guy who was really attracted to me a few months ago and now he almost never looks at me like that.sometimes, he makes eye contact, but not that often.and he never looks at my body anymore. i also know that he really liked me as a person, not only physically. so what gives? only a few weeks ago, he gave me the flirty stare...so really what gives. oh and he gave me a random gift a few days ago...but he still never looks at me! we're studying for the bar exam, so he burned me a cd full of outlines of legal subjects and random study aids. we're very practical people, so it actually meant a lot to me, especially because i didn't ask for it. i got a dog a few weeks ago, and he's been like a guru about helping me take care of it.he told me to call him whenever about the puppy and he wanted to come over and have a visit.then i gave it up for adoption and he helped me pick out an adoptee.lately he's been emailing me fun youtube vids and calling me a lot to ask bar questions randomly

2007-07-09 09:03:06 · 5 answers · asked by moosekid 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm in charge of throwing the bacholorett party. with my ideas the price for us five girls can range from 70-100 dollars. some of these girls do not have good jobs, or are very young. how much would you expect to pay to help with the party. i'm already going to pay for decorations and invetaions by myself, so i was wanting the girls to pay for hotel and dinner...we will all split everything..

2007-07-09 09:02:22 · 12 answers · asked by lovely 3 in Weddings

How offen should you get it cut ?
And how short ?

2007-07-09 08:58:44 · 4 answers · asked by Me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-09 08:58:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 08:58:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, my girlfriend constantly want me to change everything I do, from the way I dress to the way I eat, what I eat, and What movies I watch, or don't watch (the adult kind)
why does she want to have such a control over things in my life. Why can't she relax?

2007-07-09 08:58:16 · 15 answers · asked by thesoulcaged 2 in Singles & Dating

My question, which I haven't seen posted quite yet is this -

These guys, the ones they catch on "To Catch a Predator", are constantly saying that they've never done anything like this before.....Now, I'm thinking that most of them HAD to have done it before, and got away with it, and simply do not want to admit it.

On to the question - What in the heck do these little girls see in these old, hairy, nasty, dirty dudes to have them come over in the first place? Now, some of these guys are decent looking men - but STILL, they're OLDER than dirt! Why do they do it??

2007-07-09 08:57:57 · 15 answers · asked by Rod Farva 2 in Singles & Dating

please see my previously asked questions before answering
story is there
i have basically decided i do not want to be with my husband any longer. i have determined that i dont want to drag it out, i have already gone through the "wait-n-see" phase.
I think he will be relieved to hear it, but i just cannot get the words to come out of my mouth. we have been together since 1994 -he has been jobless for over 5 years, i still care about him, but if i do this, he will literally have nothing, no roof over his head, no means of transportation, just his clothes really.
i want dont want be married to him, but i dont want to see him go homeless either.
i kicked around the idea of giving him time to get fast food job or something for quick money so he can get himself an apartment, but i am really not sure how to go about doing this
any words of wisdom? any suggestions on what to say, or the logistics of getting him out? i know this is worded harshly, but i dont know any other way to put

2007-07-09 08:56:36 · 9 answers · asked by Shake-Zula 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My family history is so ugly. My great-great-grandmother was Cherokee and she may have been a slave. My great-grandmother was abandoned by her 1st husband, and her 2nd husband was abusive to her and the 12 children she had. My grandmother had been molested by this man, and her 4 brothers were beaten and all 8 girls were raped by this demon. My grandmother got pregnant by a married man and had my mother at 16. By the time I was born in 1980, my 15-yo mother almost gave birth to me in the toilet. Luckily, the doctors restrained her so I could be born. A few months after I was born, my mother developed a $100 a day crack habit. She abused me and hit me when I was an infant. For the next four years, I was shuffled around from Mom to Dad and my two grandmothers. When I finally went to live with Mom's mother, it was hell. My grandmother had married an alchololic and abusive man. I was filled with so much hate then, I knew I needed help, so I got therapy. Why does this still hurt me at 27?

2007-07-09 08:56:00 · 9 answers · asked by Peaches 2 in Family

I'm 13 and all of my friends always have a crush on a boy and end up going out with him. I have only had two boyfriends, and they both were just using me. How do I get boys to like me? Should I act more girly girl, because I'm one of the biggest tom boys ever? 10 points to anyone that helps me the most!!!

2007-07-09 08:55:38 · 35 answers · asked by tabby (: 2 in Singles & Dating

This is a two-parter. First, I don't really like the traditional 'wedding band'. What do you think of anniversary bands in lieu of reg. ones? This is the kind I like
http://www.littmanjewelers.com/Products/EngagementWedding-FMJ/EW_ShopByCategory-FMJ/EW_SBC_Ladies-FMJ/EW_SBC_L_AnniversaryRings-FMJ/EW_SBC_L_AR_WhiteGold-FMJ/EW_SBC_L_AR_WG_Princess-FMJ/715904.aspx
Part 2-My fiance is also a bit 'untraditional'. Which is fine, I want him to like his band, he has to wear it, so it's absolutely his choice, and I'm not going to tell him no. I know they won't be worn 'together' but wanted to get opinions on his, since it looks very different from mine.
http://www.littmanjewelers.com/Products/EngagementWedding-FMJ/EW_ShopByCategory-FMJ/EW_SBC_Mens-FMJ/EW_SBC_M_WeddingRings-FMJ/EW_SBC_M_WR_Titanium-FMJ/EW_SBC_M_WR_Ti_WithoutDiamonds-FMJ/601815.aspx
This is the one he picked, he seems to have his heart set on two tone titanium, what do you think of our choices together?

2007-07-09 08:54:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i really like this guy and he use to like me but when he asked me out i turned him down cuz i barley knew him then but later on i started to like him and we became really good friends!!!!! but i how do i figure out if he still likes me?? and how do i get him to notice i like him??? HELP PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-09 08:53:50 · 4 answers · asked by companykid101 2 in Singles & Dating

I cheated on my husband in December with my ex. Then he caught me talking to another dude will two other and me and my bf well we have three kids together. I swear I have changed aIl lot and I go to church to help but my bf keeps giving crap and makes me feel worthless and unhappy. he accuses me everyday and runs his mouth about things and it is getting me tried. i mean he is giving me another chance but what do i do. Do i put up with it because I did so much wrong?

2007-07-09 08:53:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, what is wrong with me?
I am in my late 30's...and I am 28 weeks pregnant and I can't get enough of my old man!
I don't know how much more I can take!
Or Rabbit Man either, I am jumping his bones 2-3 times a day!
So, can anyone help me?
I am making the old man So tired that he falls to sleep driving!

Bye!

2007-07-09 08:52:57 · 10 answers · asked by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-09 08:52:17 · 27 answers · asked by Geronimo5 3 in Marriage & Divorce

one of my best friends is gettin married....i have known this guy for around 5 years and we are pretty good friends...im participating in the wedding...im dreading it! i feel extremely uncomfortable being around alot of people....it makes me physically sick...i hate all the girls that are going to be in the wedding on the brides side and i know i will hate participating in this event..i would love nothing more than to not b in this wedding...please give me advice im so worried about it!

2007-07-09 08:52:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

The only close enough friend i have is my fiance's ex girlfriend.. or i have my little sister who is going to be 14.. I dont know what to do! please if you have any ideas send them..

2007-07-09 08:52:03 · 11 answers · asked by blondenbeautiful515 1 in Weddings

I cheated on my husband in December with my ex. Then he caught me talking to another dude will two other we have three kids together. I swear I have changed aI got o church for God to help but m7y bf keeps giving crap and makes me feel worthless and unhappy. he accuses me everyday and runs his moutha bout things and it is getting me tried. i mean he is giving me another chance but what do i do. Do i put up with it because I did so much wrong?

2007-07-09 08:51:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to list some things and Then I want your imput.

Husband won't stop looking at porn.

I have many faults but constently working on them or stoping things like quit smoking for him.

He Don't do anything at the house with out asking millions of times.

I am very depressed and not happy. I have put up with it to long and I don't know if I should work with him still or leave.

Only problem he is in counsling...and were in the process of moving to our first home together. He did good for months and looked at the porn again and just says he has no self control.

I just feel like I made the biggest most worst decision getting married to him and for putting up with this for so long.

Yes It is my fault I knew of this before I married him...I am already severly depressed, I just want some guidance on where to go from here Please don't say anything mean. I can't take it.

I am lost and have no one to talk to he is the only one I have.

2007-07-09 08:51:33 · 11 answers · asked by ina_ivy_love 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok ther is a cute girl at my school and she dosent know i like (dont know if she does) and i cant tell i like her cause im realy nervous whenever im around how can i tell her (note im 11)

2007-07-09 08:50:26 · 23 answers · asked by Seeker 1 in Friends

it turns out that we got into an argument and i ended up leaving the house. i didn't want to go back home because i knew it would be ugly so i checked into a motel and guess what. she decides to go look for me and of course she finds my car parked at a motel. i can understand why she thinks that i cheated on her, but i didn't. i explained it to her a million times but no progress.

2007-07-09 08:50:22 · 27 answers · asked by **** 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been with my boyfriend for 6 years.. i want to do something special for him.. no occasion at all.. just wanna freshen up our relationship.. im traveling now.. and he is home...
any ideas?? oh.. im still a vrigin.. so no sex-related ideas plz!
thank u

2007-07-09 08:49:21 · 14 answers · asked by brains 3 in Singles & Dating

What don't u do? I don't want to mess this up

2007-07-09 08:48:33 · 1 answers · asked by Melanie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 08:47:44 · 16 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my friend both gpt promise rings from our bf's and hers turned her finger green but mine hasnt...what does that mean...that hers is fake???

2007-07-09 08:46:03 · 11 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Singles & Dating

Personnally I think yahoo is the biggest collection or freaks, nut cases, and fools on the net. ANYONE who takes the "advice" given from the teenie bobbers and mentally ill internet addicts that troll this board is just plain foolish!

Peace out and remember, whne it comes to advice, yahoo is NOT the answer!

2007-07-09 08:45:51 · 30 answers · asked by Just_the_facts 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been talking to my best friend for the past 4 days about how i will always love him, and if i had a chance of being back with him i think i would take it. Then last night i have a dream he is trying to date me again and flirt with me.

2007-07-09 08:45:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating