ok ther is a cute girl at my school and she dosent know i like (dont know if she does) and i cant tell i like her cause im realy nervous whenever im around how can i tell her (note im 11)
2007-07-09 08:50:26 · 23 answers · asked by Seeker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should write her a note or a letter and hand it to her. Its simple - gets the point accross and saves you the embarassment of telling her yourself. Thats what I used to do when I was your age... hah
2007-07-09 08:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey Mr. Cool! It's time for you to try and come out of your shell. Find out what is her favorite color, food, flower, music, and get it for her. Now after that is the hard part. When you get it or them, instead of just walking up to her and giving it to her, find out where she lives where she hangs out or even see her at school, if you can wait that long. If not, then just get it to her by one of your friends that may be a girl, your sister, or even your Mom. But make sure that your name is on the gift, with a small note telling her that you're a shy guy, and that she's the reason why, but that you would like to share a soda or ice cream cone with her and talk about all the things she likes and see if there are things that you both may like and then the conversation will flow like water down a hill...I bet you will not have a problem talking to her when she sees that you both like the same things...Good Luck!!!
2007-07-17 12:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by Dub-G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless you hun!
I wouldnt recommand a note or anything like that, she wouldnt really appreciate it at all! She would appreciate you more and give you more respect it you talked to her!
Don't take friends with you, try and talk to her alone just the two of you. Tell her how you feel and ask her how she feels about you. If she likes you go for it! If not then you cant force her and im afraid you'll need to move on. (doesnt mean you cant still be friends)
(Note: You could try a flower aswell!)
Good Luck!!!
Kat
2007-07-09 16:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi! well i have also that kind of experience, but i am the one who is admire. Well, for me as a girl, it is not relly good that you first tell the girl of what you feels. Because this may make spaces between you. All you have to do is to show her that you like her, little by little. These acts only show that she is important to you. Then when you think it is the right time, tell her that you love her. You may not know that she will answer the same words.
2007-07-16 21:37:16 · answer #4 · answered by spit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be that way when I was in school but everything started passing me by. The first thing I would do is stand next to her with a buddy of your and act like you are talking to him about your gf and see if she responds Just be sure to talk loud enough that she can hear you
2007-07-17 15:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by royg5508 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you sweet! I say, pass her a note that just says "I think I like you but I can't be too sure because when I'm around you, it feels like a blur. I know that your pretty, I know you are sweet, do you think maybe sometime, our faces could meet? And then just sign it something anonymous and tell her where she can leave her response. (A locker or something) Good Luck!
2007-07-09 15:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brandon I like the idea of giving her a flower. Just walk up to her smile and offer her the flower. Tell her its for her because she is the prettiest girl in school.
You will have every girl in school wanting to be your girlfriend.
Oh and if you ever get to pick teams for sports and she is in the group of people to choose from, pick her first.
2007-07-09 16:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by Melly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just smile at her a lot, but not in a creepy way and ask her if she'd like to come over to your house sometime to watch a movie or go get ice cream...it is the summer, so do something outside, like ice cream, go to the park or whatever 11 year old kids like to do!
make it a group thing, though, so it's not stressful on either of you!
but, be sure you're the one that invites her.
"hi, um, a bunch of us are going for ice cream after school, do you wanna come along?"
simple!!
just take a deep breath and ask!
take care:)
2007-07-09 15:58:06 · answer #8 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 11! dont worry about telling her that you have such a long time to worry about telling a cute girl you like her! for now just hang out with your friends have fun in sports and do fun stuff!!! for pete`s sake your only 11 dont worry!
2007-07-09 15:54:15 · answer #9 · answered by :-) SMILE!!! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So dont tell her show her at your age just paying attention to her and what she likes and doesnt like is good enough, Then theres always the my freinds tell one of her friends thing, I miss being young......
2007-07-17 15:17:17 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋