Family & Relationships - 9 July 2007

i used to cut myself and im working on stopping and now my bff found out and shes thinking about telling my parents. but my parents kicked my sister out about a year before she went to college idk wut she did but im afriad my parents might do this to me too. wut should i do or tell my friend??? and im doing pretty well on stopping cutting and i dont want my parents to know about it. its in the past and i wanna keep it that way. wut should i do???

2007-07-09 10:58:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i was at the skating ring w/ my boyfriend and my boyfriends friend sayed i had a nice rack

2007-07-09 10:57:31 · 21 answers · asked by junehout 2 in Singles & Dating

he cheated last year and we got married in february, i havent been able to forgive him and it's been many times where i feel like leaving him and going back to my parents, but when i tell him this he starts crying begging me that he is a changed man and that he is never going to cheat on me again. I loved him before he did that, but after that things have been different and i feel like i don't love him anymore, i want to try to love him again and i know i can do it but im afraid he will do it again. Everytime i tell him im going to leave he says he will go and get drunk and i know that he gets extremely depressed to the point where im afraid that he might commit suicide.

I don't know what to do sometimes i think im just with him because i worry too much for him, but what about me??? who worries about my feelings?? what should i do?
should i try to work it out or just leave, deaf and blind not caring what he does after.

ps im 3 months pregnant.

2007-07-09 10:55:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love my guy, but I just have these "warning" signs and I'm wanting to give my guy the benefit of the doubt, but the warning signs just keep poping up. Little things that are said, seen, or done that just are "out of place" if you know what I mean. All I want to do is "check". But I don't want a relationship where I have to "check". Talking to him won't do any good, I feel I'll just be told "its in my head". Does anyone else have this problem?

2007-07-09 10:55:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

beside theknot.com who else has a good website for wedding invitation, favors also bridesmaid and groomsman gifts any help would be grateful

2007-07-09 10:52:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

As a thank you to our parents for all their support in our lives leading up to our wedding, we wrote them each a letter thanking them, and telling them what qualities of theirs we most hope to have in our marriage.

How would I wrap and present these to them at the rehearsal dinner when we hand out the other wedding party gifts? I plan on printing them on nice paper (they were typed on the computer) but I don't know where to go from there.

I don't really like the idea of a picture frame, but I don't want to fold the paper just in case they do want to frame/display it. I think it's too cheesy to do a double frame with the letter on one side and the other side blank for a wedding photo of us. Any other ideas?

[Note: when we graduated from college, we got them big frames with a bunch of openings and did photo collages of us through our lives, so another picture frame less than a year later seems unoriginal.]

2007-07-09 10:52:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've never really been an aggressive person.But now I feel really low & cry all the time. I find it really difficult to understand what my partner is saying to me & get angry with him & take everything to heart. I'm convinced he doesn't want me or the baby & have it in my head he's going to leave us. I'm finding myself really unattractive & as though I'm not good enough. I feel really guilty because when he tells me something, I percieve it all wrong & start shouting & screaming in his face..& if he doesn't say what I want to hear (he has a habit of winding me up when I go like this) I start throwing things & I cry - I've even hit him a couple of time. I feel awful & don't know what to do. I know he doesnt deserve this & I have NO RIGHT what-so-ever to behave like this, but I just freak out without warning & have no control over it. I try to relax for his sake & the babies but i just cant. i feel like im going insane, like i need to see someone. This isnt me.Ive never hit anyone before

2007-07-09 10:51:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I and my partner decided to have a break from each other since yesterday because we have been having problems with our relationship.since last month we have been constantly arguing because of issues such as respect and trust.i have been going out with him for two years but know the fights have been worse and i recently slapped him durin a heated argument of which he slapped me back.so we hav decided to take a break from each other..and conclude wen 1 is ready to talk simply call the other.how shud i handle this break and how and when is best to get bak together??should we negotiate on some issues (like i feel he treats me differently around his friends(with no respect))or should i just move on with my life without him?

2007-07-09 10:48:45 · 9 answers · asked by kapatikana 1 in Singles & Dating

if male spouse is deseased can surviving spouse prevent deseased spouses parents from visiting their grandchildren

2007-07-09 10:48:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I hate my job, but I never leave it or even try to get another job. What is wrong with me?!

2007-07-09 10:48:10 · 6 answers · asked by C Deezy McCain 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Especially if she dates a black man. Do whites or white men get offended by this? Talk about it.

2007-07-09 10:46:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay im pregnant and me and husband are seperated for certain issues. one being that i dont trust him. i have caught him talking and txting to other women on 5 occasions and each time he has lyed about it even though i have proof. since then i have been very self concious about myself and our relationship. i got upset the othe night cause he went out and did not tell me where he was at, he was with a cousin but his cousin isnt the best person to be with considering her reputation. i also went out with a friend of mine. he got mad because i went out and i got mad cause he lyed. last night when we were talking he said somethings that got me thinking about the night he went out and i asked him about it. he said that if i didnt stop accusing him of things he was just gonna leave me for good and the furniture i left he was going to sell or destroy. i know i have over reacted in the past but what am i suppose to do now? pretend he never did anything and act like a stupid wife?

2007-07-09 10:44:17 · 10 answers · asked by Becky 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys, why do you think that if a girl thinks she looks average, she is lying?

2007-07-09 10:43:28 · 7 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

My two sisters got into a big fight. The older one is 20 while the other one is 15. The 15 year old asked the 20 year old to help her with the laundry because she doesn't know how. The 20 year old got really pissy but was willing to help her. While they were in the laundry room, me and my other little sister heard the 20 year old degrade and insult the 15 year old by calling her names such as "stupid, dumbass, I hate you, you're soo dumb." While Me and my other little sister were outside of the laundry room, we told the 15 year old that we would help her because we felt sorry for her. Right when the 20 year old heard our offer, she slapped/punched the 15 year old in the face. Then they got into a big physical fight. I tried to break the fight up but it was too vicious. As a result, the 20 year old left with several minor scratches on her face, two BIG scratches on her neck/chest area, a bite mark that was open-wounded. While the 15 year old got away with nothing.

2007-07-09 10:36:32 · 4 answers · asked by fabulous101 2 in Friends

me and this really kute guy used to date a couple weeks but we broke up. the thing is that we broke up over da internet and my friend was the one that was talking to him and i just read the last message that he wrote which was like don't talkt o me no more we are over.. i have no idea what my friend said to him buz she delted the messages... and just the other day my friend hacke dinto his myspace and he thinks i did it so now he won't talk to me... I WANT HIM BACK.... i just can't get him out of my head... i dream about him all da time ... he says that he dont like me no more but i know that he does becuase of the way he looks at me... what should i do, i really want him back.. sum1 plz help me ????

2007-07-09 10:35:22 · 10 answers · asked by Devi T 1 in Singles & Dating

Been seeing this great girl for a few weeks and hit it off right from the start. Problem is im falling fast for her and i wanna know if she sees a lasting relationship with us because sometimes its hard to tell. Is she just having fun or does she want to get serious. So would it be a bad thing or turn off if i asked?

2007-07-09 10:34:52 · 11 answers · asked by chris s 1 in Singles & Dating

I am just wondering if this is true or not.
I heard that women use both sides of their brain at one time. But men only use 1 side of their brain off and on.
Is this true? The person who told me read it in a magazine.
What do you think?
I mean I know that sometimes women seem like they don't use their brains. But men don't use theirs all the time either!

2007-07-09 10:34:11 · 6 answers · asked by Jessica A 2 in Singles & Dating

I am young and not ready to have sex. Is it really that important that a guy dates a woman willing to go all the way. Or is there more to the relationship to you all then sex?

2007-07-09 10:33:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What excuses did they use?

2007-07-09 10:31:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i recently posted a question asking for ideas at the reception other than a dance because my family and friends are into that kinda thing.

all i got for answer were think about your guests and what they want. why does everyone expect to have a huge party? i thought this day was about my fiance and i???

2007-07-09 10:28:56 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

even if she doesn't want to assist in the matter.

2007-07-09 10:28:01 · 16 answers · asked by oprahcsi86 1 in Family

Before we married he was known as a player, is his past catching up with him?

2007-07-09 10:26:49 · 10 answers · asked by Yatta76 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is very funny and charasmatic and that's what i love about him, however, lately I've found out mostly by accident that he has long conversations via phone and text with attractive woman. He says they are just friends and that he only loves me, but this intimacy makes me question his commitment and makes me feel very insecure and jealous. I feel like my new jealousy pushes him away and the last thing I want to do is push him towards these new friendships. I myself have male friends but don't speak to them to the extent he does to his female friends. I don't want to overreact but i find myself questioning his every action and feeling very insecure about myself.
I am a fairly mature girl who is attractive but I feel like i've been punched in the stomach with this new peice of information about my husband.
Help.....?!!?!?

2007-07-09 10:22:28 · 34 answers · asked by boomchickyboom boom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-09 10:16:58 · 12 answers · asked by Monika 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And what is the difference between a nondenominational priest and a judge? How do you go about hiring them to do your wedding? Also, does anyone know how much it would cost for that in New York state? Thanks a bunch for your help!

2007-07-09 10:07:34 · 8 answers · asked by Naughty ♥Angel♥ Mommy2B! 4 in Weddings

Do hindu weddings allow for the mix like this? If so, would it be wrong to change the dress, or would they accept it since it it between christian and hindu? What if the bride doesn't have parents, or they are dead? Aren't they supposed to be a big part of the wedding? Just curious. I really don't know too much about this stuff, but my friend who is christian has a bf who is hindu, and I was wondering if they went back to india to get married how it would go (totoal IF here, just daydreaming and wondering how it would go)

2007-07-09 10:06:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Why aren't there more interracial couples?

2007-07-09 09:59:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-09 09:58:51 · 14 answers · asked by themanwhometkobebryant 1 in Marriage & Divorce

before moving from one relationship to the next...

I am a fairly attractive girl. I have options, but I am not out to hurt anyone. There are people that want to date me, but I feel like I just got out of something and want to chill for a little bit. I let him know that and he doesn't seem to care, he still wants to pursue this...

2007-07-09 09:58:22 · 14 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 09:58:14 · 29 answers · asked by themanwhometkobebryant 1 in Marriage & Divorce