I am young and not ready to have sex. Is it really that important that a guy dates a woman willing to go all the way. Or is there more to the relationship to you all then sex?
2007-07-09 10:33:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
alright its time for the honest answer. Brace yourself. Guys like sex. They like it a lot. Even the good guys. The guys who deny it are not the good guys, they are the cowards or the liars. The ones who demand it are also not the good guys, they are the a-holes, the creeps, the Pittsburgh Steelers. Guys who are honest about when they want sex and how often are wrongly accused of being disrespectful when in fact they are being honest. Find a brave guy who will tell you when he wants it or at least have the courage to make you feel comfortable enough to do it. If not, then he's not the one. Simple as that. Don't ever be forced to do it but don't let a frank honest answer from a good guy steer you away from him.
2007-07-09 10:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF your young you need to really ask your self what you want and not worry about your bf. Its more important to a guy for a woman that is willing to say with him and be there for him not just sexually because eventually it will come to a point like that. But what I mean is mentally, emotionally, girls think that guys only think with their penis. This is not true, we have feelinds just like everyone else does. We just dont show it , and sometimes we do but then its too late.
2007-07-09 17:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will speak on my behalf and I am not the type who will get in a realationship only if she is willing to have sex ....
Infact if we rush too much we wil never last long together anyway as people get bored ....
its more important to me to get to know the person ... grow feeling and be in love so called ....
but if things developed fast I would probably like it then but i know it wont last forever ...
Stay the way you are!!!! and dont push yourself to have sex .... NEVER
2007-07-09 17:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by Chigzy D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is way more to a relationship than sex. Find a guy that respects your viewpoint and will love you for who you are.
2007-07-09 17:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by Nathan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not to the good guys. If it is important to a guy and he is not respecting you as a person, move on.
2007-07-09 17:35:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a guy but i can answer this question... iv'e met alot of girls who had boyfriends they didnt have sex with... so yes you can find one.. gonna be hard though
2007-07-09 17:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by Parachutes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is much more than sex. if that is all your guy wants, it's time to leave him and move on.
2007-07-09 17:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by 14bert14 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date the guy then say "thanks for the evening" and take a taxi home.
2007-07-09 17:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by nalaredneb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are young then don't do it
2007-07-09 18:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by lil'latinoking 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋