I love my guy, but I just have these "warning" signs and I'm wanting to give my guy the benefit of the doubt, but the warning signs just keep poping up. Little things that are said, seen, or done that just are "out of place" if you know what I mean. All I want to do is "check". But I don't want a relationship where I have to "check". Talking to him won't do any good, I feel I'll just be told "its in my head". Does anyone else have this problem?
2007-07-09 10:55:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because your intuition or gut feelings are not telling you what you want to hear. You know that something is wrong, and in the long run it will most likely prove right, but it is not what you emotions want to believe, or accept. As I have stated in previous posts if there is no trust in a relationship, there is not relationship. Honest communication at this point is essential, and I think you will know if it is actually honest communication.
2007-07-09 12:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by Pengy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always listen to my gut & so should you! If your gut is saying "HEY...CAN YOU HEAR ME NOW??", you need to listen & react. You don't need to be in a relationship where you are having this kind of doubt. It is not all in your head. Don't be the last one to know, that sucks!
2007-07-09 11:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by Scorpio13 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The heart and the head will deceive you*..... Your gut never will, its a natural self defense warning you, but most people will ignore it when it is shouting at them*... They don't want to accept it*... They would rather dismiss it and not acknowledge it to themselves*....
2007-07-09 15:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intuition is there for a reason. Don't ignore it.
2007-07-09 11:00:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋