Been seeing this great girl for a few weeks and hit it off right from the start. Problem is im falling fast for her and i wanna know if she sees a lasting relationship with us because sometimes its hard to tell. Is she just having fun or does she want to get serious. So would it be a bad thing or turn off if i asked?
2007-07-09 10:34:52 · 11 answers · asked by chris s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well just tell her that you like her and you care for her and then see waht she says but dont tell her you are falling fo rher because she might be turned off and think the relationship will be awkard so just take it slowly until you are sure she is serious and then you can tell her how you feel
but most likely she is falling for you too so you can ask her how she feels about teh relationship and tell her how you feel because she might feel just like you and then your relationship with her will grow
good luck =]
2007-07-09 10:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by riskybusiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would need your definition of a few weeks is that two weeks or a month.
I think you could hint that you really like her and tell that you want a serious relationship. Ask if she is interested in having a serious relationship in general not just with you. See what she says
If you have been hanging for so long you need to know where its going.
To me it wouldn't be a turn off. If she didn't like you she wouldn't be hanging with you for so long.
Good Luck!
2007-07-09 10:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt make her feel you are putting any pressure on her. Dont say anything and go with the flo. A few weeks really isnt enough time for her to decide if she wants a lasting relationship. Go at her pace and in time im sure youll fiqure out where she stands. If you take the chance by asking her then you could be taking the chance of her ignoring you and then you could end just a friendship.
2007-07-09 10:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by edykns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are falling for her too fast, then you might want to put the brakes on by giving yourself a good dose of reality. You don't know her yet, so what you are falling in love with is a fantasy, not her. If you tell her that you are in love with her already, then you might scare her off.
On the other hand, it probably does not hurt to bring up casually what her future plans are, and she see herself getting serious with anyone in the near future. Just don't put pressure on her to feel anything, and don't act desperate.
2007-07-09 10:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you really want to know, then there is only one way to find out. Just ask her if she sees the two of you becoming serious in the near future.
2007-07-09 10:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by ..... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prob not,,, but the key is to do it with confidence,, ask her what exactly does she want,, a serious relationship or jsut some freinds with benefits,, n tell her where u satnd and what u want,,,,,
i am almost sure she wants a serious relationship,, since u all have been dating for weeks,, so go ahead man, it wont be a problem,
good luck
2007-07-09 10:38:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls love when a guy becomes really serious. Asking her would not be a turn off at all.
2007-07-09 10:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her after a really fun, romantic night together. Be confident and sensitive. Show that you want commitment from her and that you are willing to commit as well. Remind her of how much fun you guys have together, and how much fun you guys could have if you were a couple.
2007-07-09 10:41:44 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her does she want a serious relationship.
2007-07-09 10:39:24 · answer #9 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her cuz it's important for the two of you to be on the same page
2007-07-09 10:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by suthrndiva1488 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋