Family & Relationships - 9 July 2007

I'm worried. What do I do?

2007-07-09 12:51:45 · 44 answers · asked by Jill 1 in Family

how do i get a guy that ignores me to like me. should i ignore him back or talk to him? what should i do?

2007-07-09 12:49:01 · 7 answers · asked by Rachel. 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok here it is; I am currently dating this guy who is 33 & I am 26. He is NOT cute but I do enjoy spending time with him & he treats me like a spoiled princess. He buys me things, takes me places; etc. I COULD see myself having a future with him; I want kids & a family within the next year or so & he would make the perfect husband & dad. One problem though he puts me on the pedastel thinking I can do no wrong & then gets mad/jealous if I want to go out dancing & clubbing with friends--hes extrememly religious & doesnt do that kind of stuff & at time I feel as if he wants me to act as if Im 50--he says he just worries about me.

Problem #2; I am EXTREMELY attracted to his 21 year old brother! Who ALSO likes to flirt back with me; but I cant see a future with him right now since he's not ready to settle down & the brothers are EXTREMELY close; so what do I do; tell bro#1 Im attracted to his brother & cause a family fight or keep it quiet & stay with bro1 since I can see myself happy

2007-07-09 12:48:01 · 15 answers · asked by Melissa B 3 in Singles & Dating

He's a nice man, but he always likes to come over and I do not feel comfortable with a man coming over to my house when I am by myself. He focuses too much on my physical appearance, I always find him staring at my chest or rear end. Plus he is a white and I feel weird having a white man in my house when I am home alone. He always comes over to ask if I would join him for dinner and after I decline the offer he invites himself into my house to eat my dinner. So whats his problem? I am pretty sure he just comes over to eat my curry, but still its getting annoying

2007-07-09 12:47:06 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Serious answers only please. I'd love to hear back from men in the 25-35 range for their perspective.

How do I go about finding WHITE men who are attracted to plus size girls for RELATIONSHIPS, not just sex.
I'm 5'8'', a size 16, 38DDD, obviously very curvy, successful, cofident, and cute. But, I get way more attention from men wanting to be "friends", and not so much from guy who wants to date me.

Please dont write back with www.bbwlover.com or whatever nonsense. Those are allllll sex sites. I'm talking about regular relationships.

Thanks !

2007-07-09 12:42:43 · 7 answers · asked by Jules 2 in Singles & Dating

upon your observation or did she say something funny or out of line.

One I went to when she said what she loved about her groom, on a microphone to all the guests:

"He scrubs the worst part of the toilet for me."

2007-07-09 12:41:10 · 6 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Weddings

To me being hurt is when you are put in many situations and your girlfriend/boyfriend consistently neglects you or does not pay attention to the things that are important to you. Its also when your partner cheats on you. Im just curious to know what other people think when someone says they have been hurt in the past.

2007-07-09 12:41:09 · 3 answers · asked by jason j 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 12:36:05 · 24 answers · asked by Alisha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

please, this is not jocking question.

2007-07-09 12:36:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When you realized that your spouse was the one for you, when you had fallen so incredibly in love, how did you view this person?

2007-07-09 12:34:19 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This boy is going to ask me out tomorrow, my friend told me, when she called me. But I definatley don't like him that way.
I need to tell him I don't like him. But how??? PLZ HELP! I've known him for 3 weeks, and he's a year older than me, and he always follows me around, and hugs me, and puts his arm around me, and today, yes, he touched my butt. I hate him so much! Just please help me! My mom told me to include that I'm not old enough to date, even though she might have been ok with that. Thanks!

2007-07-09 12:34:15 · 21 answers · asked by boom 3 in Singles & Dating

on the bed or in the bathroom.

please help me,this is not jocking Q.

2007-07-09 12:31:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I LIKE MY BEST FRIEND. I'm a guy. I have known her for a little more than 9 months. I dont know if she likes me back but all i no is that i am her best friend that's a boy.Whenever i am on messeneger and she gets on, the first thing she does is talk to me IMEDIENTLY. Is that a clue she likes me?

2007-07-09 12:31:40 · 19 answers · asked by J. Smith 1 in Singles & Dating

We own three pet rats. I don't want them on my new bed because I don't want them to pee on it. They have other places to play and my boyfriend is acting like I'm being unreasonable. Am I?

2007-07-09 12:29:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My teacher let's me get away with anything. Then one day i mess around in the hall and she says please don't mess around in the class it's very hard for me to yell at you. Then she sent me this message

"Once in awhile you meet someone that you really click with. For some reason, you seem to understand me pretty well. I feel like when I look at you, you can almost read my mind - very scary!

Anyway, I felt from the beginning of the year that we connected somehow. Like I said, it is VERY hard to explain. So I probably let you get away with way too much this past year.

I will miss having you in class next year, but not because of the whole teaching thing. You got my stupid sense of humor, and I will miss smirking. It was fun to get to know you - keep being you!"

i have no idea what she means. please tell me what you think she mean.

2007-07-09 12:28:22 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-09 12:26:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does it have to do with men being from mars and women being from venus? What's the battle all about anyway, and when is the movie coming out?

2007-07-09 12:25:20 · 7 answers · asked by Adel 6 in Singles & Dating

I know and respect cultures but this one took the cake.

Ten years ago, I was invited to the wedding and I went alone, and brought a gift of $50 and at the reception I kid you not was one taquito, and a can of pepsi.

I was stunned. Not that these people were poor or anything. Has your gift ever outweighed the wedding?

2007-07-09 12:22:25 · 13 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Weddings

My teacher let's me get away with anything. Then one day i mess around in the hall and she says please don't mess around in the class it's very hard for me to yell at you. Then she sent me this message

"Once in awhile you meet someone that you really click with. For some reason, you seem to understand me pretty well. I feel like when I look at you, you can almost read my mind - very scary!

Anyway, I felt from the beginning of the year that we connected somehow. Like I said, it is VERY hard to explain. So I probably let you get away with way too much this past year.

I will miss having you in class next year, but not because of the whole teaching thing. You got my stupid sense of humor, and I will miss smirking. It was fun to get to know you - keep being you!"

i have no idea what she means

2007-07-09 12:20:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i'm never going to be with him and i never even really was with him but i was so attracted to him that now i'm not attracted to anyone anymore because its not him. i regret that i got intimate with him and have all this pain and longing in my head. ill never see him again and i dont think i would really want to but... cant forget him anyway.

this is stupid, irrational. how do i get over this?

2007-07-09 12:14:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that intelligent, opinionated women post Paris Hiltonesque pictures of themselves, when they know they look nothing of the kind?

2007-07-09 12:12:56 · 15 answers · asked by 1977rocks 2 in Singles & Dating

When it comes to guys being bi / gay, i've been told that its impossible for them to become straight again? Even if they do, they will become bi / gay again? If you know what I mean.

Is it true?

Or was that person lying? lol.

Thanks for your help in advance!

2007-07-09 12:08:18 · 11 answers · asked by Cynz 2 in Singles & Dating

I can't seem to have a good reason. But he'd smoke the reef everyday of the week if he could. He's already done it 3 days a week. He's been smoking a long time. and his last girlfriend dumped him all the time cause of it. and he's known as a stoner in my school. i just think its a wrong way to spend your time. he's even cried cause he couldn't smoke. he refuses to stop and says no one can stop him.
HELP.

2007-07-09 12:03:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In my marriage I have experienced getting yelled at, told to shut up , i've seen things hit and thrown around the house, and I've had things thrown at me. I have been told that based on intimacy in my marriage my husband does not know if he would marry me again. I feel so much inside that my husband does not love me and these things make me feel so bad and worth nonthing. I have asked my husband if he loves me and he says he does. H is reply confuses me because of how he treats me at times, so I don't beleive him when he says he loves me . Since i 'm doubting him i always feel so much axiety around him. This anxiety fmakes me want to ask him everything that he does, like when he's on the computer, or phone calls that he makes . It drives him craz y. My husband says i have no self confidence because of these behaviors, but i feel I don't have confidence because of him. What is going on here? How can I just focus on me and get my self confidence back not to worry about him?

2007-07-09 12:00:30 · 9 answers · asked by ilih2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-09 11:56:03 · 9 answers · asked by ace 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband cheated on me with a young girl and got her pregnant .I left him and moved about 15 hours away he has sinced moved down here to try to work things out for are children .At first i thought we may be able to work out but now it seems i am unsure but here is the even more complicated part i had started seeing this guy before my husband came down here and i really like this guy but i know it is more of just something to do because i know he is in the military and will be leaving next year so do you think i should leave this guy alone or should i leave my husband alone or should i leave them both alone?

2007-07-09 11:52:28 · 15 answers · asked by hcj25 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This one. http://www.myspace.com/iluvjmac

Or This one. http://file017b.bebo.com/6/large/2007/06/30/22/2478748152a4839598492l.jpg


I know they are the same pic but does the black and white or the color one look better?

2007-07-09 11:50:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ugh! do they think Im easy!?
Ugh! do they think Im easy!?
I never had a boyfriend ever, I am a decent good girl and a devouted follower of my religion. Anyways, this guy comes to me and starts flirting and I do the same and then this other guys come and starts to join for no reason and I dont even talk to him. Like, why are they coming after me do they think I am easy cuz all their friends stare at us and smile and giggle and what not. I mean I am a mature girl for my age, am fourteen. I know I need to not be involved with them or flirt with them but the teacher doesnt care! I am fourteen. I think they might think I'm easy-what do you think? Oh yeah and another third guy joins in and my friend (girl) comes and then the teacher breaks us up.

2007-07-09 11:50:16 · 5 answers · asked by ♥dO yoU loVe iT♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister's friend is at my house. She yells at me every time i touch her electronics and if i do than she yells at me. What is a nice way that i can let her know that i won't hurt them and that i just want to play her games. This girl is 2 years younger than me and her games are her life. She has never dated a guy because she's always playing her games. What can i do to let this girl know that i am a nice and caring person and that i will not hurt her games. i have no one to talk to since my bff is grounded for her attitude. so i just want to talk to somebody and when i try to talk to my sister she just says "SHUT UP" and walks off. PLEASE HELP ME!

2007-07-09 11:48:19 · 9 answers · asked by lolitsbecky 2 in Friends

well my bf is away on vacation...n just recently he read a comment a guy left me on myspace sayin that i looked beatifull.....well that guy is only my friend which i haven't seen in a long time, n i don even know where he saw me....nways my bf read that n accused me of cheatin on him wit that guy....
i told him d truth n he didn't believe me .. wat should i do????now he tells me he has 2nd thoughts bout me...should i brake up wit him b4 he brakes up wit me?

2007-07-09 11:46:56 · 10 answers · asked by bgirl stacey!!!! 3 in Singles & Dating