This boy is going to ask me out tomorrow, my friend told me, when she called me. But I definatley don't like him that way.
I need to tell him I don't like him. But how??? PLZ HELP! I've known him for 3 weeks, and he's a year older than me, and he always follows me around, and hugs me, and puts his arm around me, and today, yes, he touched my butt. I hate him so much! Just please help me! My mom told me to include that I'm not old enough to date, even though she might have been ok with that. Thanks!
2007-07-09 12:34:15 · 21 answers · asked by boom 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was hugging him and stuff, because I didn't think it meant anything. I know that sounds really stupid, but he hugs everybody!!!!!!! thnxs for the answers!
2007-07-09 12:54:54 · update #1
I was hugging him and stuff, because I didn't think it meant anything. I know that sounds really stupid, but he hugs everybody!!!!!!! thnxs for the answers!
2007-07-09 12:54:55 · update #2
Hey girl. Trust me, you will go through this crap all your life lol. BUT, let him know asap because it will make it easier on you and him. Tell him that you are not old enough to date yet, and that you aren't ready for any of that right now, plus you only see him as a friend and wouldn't mind hanging out or talking in a group setting, but that is absolutely it. ALSO, let him know that touching your butt made you uncomfortable and to please not be so immature and do it again!! The last part will be kind of difficult to explain to him, but it is harrassment and you DO NOT HAVE TO PUT UP WITH IT. Also, you go girl for being mature enough to know what you want!
2007-07-09 12:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by :-* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he put his hand on your butt and you all are not even going out he has some big balls. I would tell him to back off. Just tell him to his face and not in front of a group of friend, that you do not like him as a boyfriend. To please not touch you, or put his arm around you. It makes you feel uncomfortable. He should respect that. If not, then the next time he does it in a public place make it known you do not like it. Say I have told you not to touch me or put your arms around me. What do I have to do to get you to leave me alone. I know that last part is kinda hard and a little mean but it may take that to get him to stop.
2007-07-09 12:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your into chicks :P. Seriously though just be straight with him without being cruel, in guy thinking not verbally objecting or pulling away etc is like a unspoken way of saying "yeah its alright keep going". So beating around the bush is just going to hurt him more.
Bottom line, Be straight and honest anything less then that will just add to his hurt!
2007-07-09 12:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what you do...Tell him you are already have a boyfriend (if he doesn't know) or just let him down easily...or use ANY exscuse you can think of. If use the "I started my period" exscuse NO guy will want to talk about that and he wont even question you. Anyway, he sounds like a total pervert! Grabby and horny, that's it. Sorry girl but you can do better. Any guy that's all about touching most likely only wants one thing...Sex.
2007-07-09 12:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 11:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to get your knickers in a knot. Simply tell him you're flattered, but you're not really interested and leave it at that.
2007-07-09 12:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you don't like him in that way. If you think about it, guys do that to girls, all the time, but be polite and stand your ground.
2007-07-09 13:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by carmel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like him WHY DO YOU LET HIM HUG YOU, PUT HIS ARM AROUND YOU and TOUCH YOUR BUTT?????
I'd be smacking him and telling him to keep his damn hands OFF.
No wonder he thinks you like him.
2007-07-09 12:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just turn him down lightly just say you don't want to be in a relationship because off all the troubles a relationship brings to you
2007-07-09 12:38:13 · answer #9 · answered by Edward N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you are not looking for a boyfriend right now you are enjoying your freedom but you are flattered by the compliment
2007-07-09 12:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by freckleface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋