He's a nice man, but he always likes to come over and I do not feel comfortable with a man coming over to my house when I am by myself. He focuses too much on my physical appearance, I always find him staring at my chest or rear end. Plus he is a white and I feel weird having a white man in my house when I am home alone. He always comes over to ask if I would join him for dinner and after I decline the offer he invites himself into my house to eat my dinner. So whats his problem? I am pretty sure he just comes over to eat my curry, but still its getting annoying
2007-07-09 12:47:06 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lock your door and don't answer it, even if he knows you're home. He will get the message eventually. You could be more direct, but why should you if you aren't comfortable doing so?
You have a right to your privacy and he has violated your space. If that doesn't stop him and you feel the need to tell him, you can write him a nice note and slide it under his door, just saying that you are a private person and would appreciate more time to yourself. If that still doesn't work, get a restraining order, he's rude and creepy.
2007-07-09 12:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-07-09 21:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful of this man. He may seem nice but you are in grave danger. You don't want to get raped do you because I think this is a possibility. It's not your curry he's after. Haven't you got a friend who can stay with you for a while? Is there someone you can confide in? If you are married for goodness sake tell your husband what is happening. You do realise all your neighbours probably think you are having an affair.
2007-07-09 19:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sandee 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would tell him I have a boyfriend coming over and he is jealous, so could you please not visit so often, because I don't want my boyfriend to get the wrong idea. Thats what I would say. If you don't tell him something soon, I think he will get the wrong idea and think you are really interested in him. Don't let him think he can just come over like that, some nice guys end up being naughty guys. If you get my meaning!!!
2007-07-09 19:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by glr5lch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be firm and tell him that your not interested in him in any other way than as a neighbour, and that you find it uncomfortable when he invites himself in all the time. Make sure you have a friend there at the same time so you feel confident.
If he doesn't get the message, then I think it's time for a chat with the police.
He sounds quite weird, be careful around him.
2007-07-10 14:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by dangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he could start to get posessive towards you! Id confront him & tell him you need him to leave you alone. Not in a horrible way because you have to live next door to him, but make it clear his presense isnt wanted as much in your house. Also make sure someone is there with you incase he gets aggressive about it! You never know when someones bad side is going to show.
2007-07-09 20:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you want to be neighbourly but that you haven't any interest in anything other than that. Sounds like he's fantasing about you and so you just need to be honest and put him in his proper place. If necessary you might want to embellish a little white lie that you are expecting an important call from a male that your interested in, or something similiar.
2007-07-09 19:53:51 · answer #7 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either avoid him or tell him - the only two possible ways. Unless you move house! He sounds like a desperate perv. Or do you have a male friend or brother to come over and 'save' you?! Good luck x
2007-07-10 06:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD QUESTION...Let this man, come, in one last time. Tell him to enjoy eating your curry, like they have never enjoyed eating your curry before. Then, have a shower. Compose yourself, and promise yourself, not to be so shallow again.
2007-07-10 17:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make you next curry from a can of dog food add some laxative and I'm sure he won't be inviting himself over anymore.
2007-07-09 19:59:11 · answer #10 · answered by louise d 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋