Serious answers only please. I'd love to hear back from men in the 25-35 range for their perspective.
How do I go about finding WHITE men who are attracted to plus size girls for RELATIONSHIPS, not just sex.
I'm 5'8'', a size 16, 38DDD, obviously very curvy, successful, cofident, and cute. But, I get way more attention from men wanting to be "friends", and not so much from guy who wants to date me.
Please dont write back with www.bbwlover.com or whatever nonsense. Those are allllll sex sites. I'm talking about regular relationships.
Thanks !
2007-07-09 12:42:43 · 7 answers · asked by Jules 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry, ya'll. I'm not racist. My last boyfriend was black. I just wanted to ask about white guys specifically because I have found a lot of black and latina men who are very comfortable with bigger women, but it seems like white men are not.
I'm sorry to any of you I offended by putting that in there. Apologies!
2007-07-09 12:55:54 · update #1
size 16 isnt that huge, but they are some large cannons u got. It really depends on what sort of body language you are sending. If your wearing clothes that are very revealing its difficult for guys to take you seriously in relationship ways.
Try dressing down a bit and striking up a convo, you will find guys go for girls who dont go over the top with their dressing.
2007-07-09 12:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 09:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can add shallow and clueless to your list of attributes. You are looking for a relationship, a meaningful one and you limit yourself to "WHITE" men. Well, that's just dumb and you won't find Mr. Right by excluding people. Sorry for ya!
2007-07-09 12:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by cuddleyleo2003 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
maybe it is in your approach, you think that is all they are going to want so you don't make your self approachable as more than just a friend? why don't you try asking one of the guys out.
2007-07-09 12:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try the KKK since you specified white in capitals. I am sure there are some ones in there that could be persuaded when you put on a few sheets.
2007-07-09 12:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by Remus L 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
maybe you could send me somethin thorugh email so we can work things up. I like bbws. (dont report abuse..im bein serious)
2007-07-09 12:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
eww ur old
2007-07-09 12:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋