Family & Relationships - 9 July 2007

Im (28) i've been dating this beautiful girl (21) for two years 5 months now and last year she had an affair with this guy. i found that out when she came home from skool and she told me herself i was so hurt i had an ulcer attack because of the stress that took me to hospital for 2 weeks. i found it in me to forgive her though, and we moved on as if nothing happened. now i have been accused of sleeping with some school girl (16) and i told her about it even though i honestly didnt do it and she knows that but she just cant forgive me. she told her parents but i didnt tell them about what she did. i now have 2 choices:
1) I tell her parents about the affair she had last year and ruin her life in that they will stop funding her education and probably disown her and i might too. they said they would if she ever did something of that sort or;
2) I forgive her for not forgiving me and hope and pray that she will forgive me even though i didnt do what i am accused of. what do i do?

2007-07-09 01:15:24 · 11 answers · asked by william c 1 in Singles & Dating

his behaviour and his words shows that he really cares about me and loves me ; I don't know why but I feel that this is not true so what can I do trust him and give him a chance or trust my instinct and refuse him. I don't want him to break my heart so what can I do plz help

2007-07-09 01:13:37 · 5 answers · asked by rozeh 2 in Singles & Dating

Would there be something wrong or anything like that? Why is that? How long would it take to have one? Is there any proper reason why it doesnt happen? details would be good.

2007-07-09 01:10:23 · 15 answers · asked by Skye-dez 2 in Singles & Dating

I always hear that guys should wait till the girls are ready before they have sex with them but inside, do guys feel that the girl doesn't love them enough if they don't have sex with them?

2007-07-09 01:09:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was driving this girl around and she start to smoke a joint in my car, I didn't say anything, but I thought to myself what happens if a cop pulled me over, i don't think this is worth it.

2007-07-09 01:06:50 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yesterday i was painting my house and i finish so i went to took a bath but didn't have a towel so i had to walk thur the livinroom but my two cousin walk in so i had to sit down without a towel and they wouldn't let me go and they took all my clothes and anything i can wrap my self with what should i do

2007-07-09 01:06:14 · 9 answers · asked by kenisha H 1 in Family

will not go on a family vacation with her husband and kid but wants to go to the beach with her single girlfriend? my wife skipped and would not attend our summer family vacation with me and my son but wanted to go away with her single girlfriend...how much of a problem is this and why would she not go after pleading and asking her for 3 months.

2007-07-09 01:04:55 · 19 answers · asked by amayseng 3 in Marriage & Divorce

seeking, ohio shawnee indians re: adopted twin girls of late 1950's. biological mother was last seen at a crooksville, ohio church in 1992. was told that biological family lived in the outlying area of shawnee, ohio. possible work place for biological father was at congo, ohio. this is where he was last seen being hit over the head in the early 1960's. i did see him in a hospital bed sometime after that though. that leads me to believe that he survived the attack on his life. i saw my bio. mother at shawnee, ohio christmas giveaway when i was about eight years old. this was held in an auditorium. i no longer have connection with adopted parents, one of whom has passed away. i and my son need family medical history for inherited epilepsy which only affects native indians, probably my bio. mother. i grew up in fairfield county, lancaster, ohio area. bio. mother would be about 5'2", thin, brown hair. driving a brown chevy car in 92 at crooksville. please help.

2007-07-09 01:04:13 · 3 answers · asked by calligraphy1019 1 in Family

Alright, so there's this gal that i like whom I've told my feeling to last year but she said she just wanna be friends. However, as times goes, I feel that some things have changed and now I feel that she puts more interests.

A few weeks ago, I asked her about joining the publication club that I'm heading and she said she's unsure if she would join. Then I chatted to her again in text and asked again, and she did not reply.

Today, my teacher in charge approached her and asked her something, I think about the club and in class when we were asked to choose the club we'd like to be in, she was a lil confused of what to choose, but then she asked around and she finally chose my publication club. No one else, her friend, chose that.

Is that like forced or what? Because after she chose that club, I saw her friends like teasing her, and when she registered to the teacher, her friend was like telling her that I'm glad.

2007-07-09 01:03:47 · 1 answers · asked by Me A 1 in Singles & Dating

does anyone believe in dreams i broke up with him 4 yrs ago i moved on after him.. does any one know what this might mean?

2007-07-09 01:01:31 · 2 answers · asked by tania 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who has a girl friend. But the girl friend is always getting drunk and is mean to him, even though he DOESN'T DO ANYTHING TO DESERVE THAT KIND OF TREATMENT, and he knows that. I told him that he deserves better, but I want to help him more. What should I do?!

2007-07-09 00:54:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am not sure if I should be worried or not - both of them (her and her best friend) when together are totally crazy... they have fun and do the craziest of things.... and now - they are going on holiday... Her best fried, Alice was out of town - so she called her and asked Alice to meet her in another city for a week - I overheard her sayin 'its gonna be crazy fun, Come on, you know it' and alice said 'okay, I am in'

Now, Sophia Is here for till friday night - then she is flyin to the beach, and alice has just taken the first flight out...

I am a lil worried - cause yest Sophia and I got into a fight cause my ex kissed me and help my hand and all - sophia was not there - and so she is annoyed - tough the plan got made way before this thing with my ex.. Last night Sophia broke up with me and now this trip.... HELP

2007-07-09 00:50:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 9 days late and but my doctor is out of town i pretty much know what is wrong but i want to hear from y'all i took 4 preganacy tests two came back negative and two came back invaild i never been this late before. i just want to konw what u all think?

2007-07-09 00:44:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my girlfriend for 2 months now and she's amazing. Basically we've talked about moving out together in the future - but we want to save up enough money for a deposit on a house first which will take a while.

Her parents have said I can move in with her to a spare room at their house in the meantime but I'm not so keen on the idea and my girlfriend doesn't understand why. I want to move out with her... but I'm not so sure about with her family... in September 2007!

My Dad is elderly and has problems health wise after a few strokes and heart attacks. My Mum is disabled with an unknown condition and my brother is a slow learner. I know I'll move out eventually but I just feel torn between so many things at the moment and I'm not sure what to do. My girlfriend gets upset that we talk about moving out together but when we have the opportunity I go cold on the moving in with her family' idea. I'm a lil afraid my family will think I'm abandoning them too for her family!

2007-07-09 00:42:12 · 9 answers · asked by Finding_Scotty 2 in Family

2007-07-09 00:40:50 · 13 answers · asked by candie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

how many of the marriages that occured on 7/7/7 do you think will work out?

did you attend a wedding on saturday?

2007-07-09 00:37:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I knew a guy, Mark, since I was 13 years old, platonically. Fast forward 20 years later, I am married and Mike just happens to go to the same pool that my husband and I go to. I introduced them to each other, but Mark seemed a little reserved about talking to my husband. Now when Mark sees me in the pool, he comes up to me (whether husband is there or not) to chat....about anything...restaurants, pool water temperature, kids, etc. I see it as very harmless, but my husband says that Mark has disrespected him and that I wouldn't understand because I am a woman. I asked for specific examples (b/c I just don't see the disrespect). He said Mark should've made eye contact w/ him and acknowledged his presence. I explained that Mark doesn't know him and I know Mark can be aloof at times. My husband asked me to cut all ties with this guy. Is this healthy jealousy??? I want to be fair!!! This guy means nothing to me, but that's not the point.....

2007-07-09 00:36:32 · 12 answers · asked by bonbon0974 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just wondering!i love white men!

2007-07-09 00:34:06 · 8 answers · asked by liy000 1 in Singles & Dating

Well,im in student exchange program in aussie for 4 month.so mw and this girl are in one skul.i called her “g”.both of us are in 12th grade.her personality is the best and her look is damn good.i find it was hard to get her,but im keep tryin,slowly her heart melt down.until one day,she broke up with his bf,I don’t know why,some friend told me it is bcause of me.after that of course I have a big big challenge.so we’re a really gud friend and she knew I want her and I know she is into me.we act like a couple,but we’re not a couple yet.Till,one day,I was so busy that I forgot to call her for 3 days,and she find out I was there with a girl who try to did a lil flirting with me.She is so angry ,and cry.i felt so guilty.****** guilty.do ya think she supposed to be mad at me?

2007-07-09 00:33:18 · 1 answers · asked by PARTTIMEROCKER 2 in Singles & Dating

He is married and i didn't know this at first.I was drawn to him the moment i saw him. We stare at eachother alot from across the room and there have been times when i have caught him staring at me when i wasn't really paying any attention to him first.He has asked me questions related to work and when he has he laughed kind of nervously. And theres been times when i thought he wanted to say something to me but he hesitated. whats up with him. I understand i'll never have him but is he attracted to me?He is like 15 years older and we are both adults

2007-07-09 00:26:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my boyfriend mainly because of his disrepect and lack of self control when he's angry. We were both each others first sexual partners. I was with him from my freshman to senior year in high school. Since we broke up he's begged and cried for me to come back, and in March he confessed of an affair he had with another girl right after I lost my virginity. They were intimate more than once and she did things for him, from what i hear they acted like boyfriend and girlfriend so I think it was more than just a sexual thing. I felt very betrayed but even after all this I still have the same feelings for him and he also does. I cheated as well but it was nothing intimate. Since then I've had two boyfriends and he's had 0. He talks to a couple of girls but is still single. Now that I've finally considered lookin past what happened n making it work, i've found that he doesnt seem to be "beggin" like he was before which makes me think maybe i should say **** it.

2007-07-09 00:25:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so im engaged and am getting married in 18 weeks, the thing is ive started talking to someone else online, he is awesome and we just have so much in common, i think im falling for him!!! i know its wrong but i just cant help it!! everytime i talk 2 him he melts my heart

2007-07-09 00:15:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Just curious.

2007-07-09 00:12:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-09 00:10:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

u see i'm living in malaysia so technically we;re not that white... okey.. but my friend is soo white.. genetic i guess.. so thats not the prob.. we'll she white,smart, and very pretty... thats not wats bugging me its her attitude.. she uses her preety-ness to get the attention from all the guys... and its just really obvious that is wants attention... but she likes this one spevific guy also... but she dont want to tell him... i'm thinking if she tells him n the couple.. then all the other guys wouldnt want her attention.... eeeee.....
so i triend telling the guy myself.. that my freind likes him.. but he is BLURRR....
he dont believe me....



wat should i do?? her attitude is getting worst... everyday...
plz help

2007-07-09 00:10:51 · 5 answers · asked by A.D 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this young attractive girl who wears extremely short skirts to church and always sits in my row. And she's not careful about keeping her legs together. And I think she lets it ride up on purpose. I'm afraid the points I make for going to church is being outweighed by the evil thoughts I'm having during the service.

2007-07-09 00:06:57 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I fell in love with a married man who left his wife 4 months ago for the 2nd time. He is 51 years with 3 grown up children in their 20's. I have 2 grown up children & have been on my own for 2 yrs from the last relationship. He's a catholic & Italian which means the whole family is involved. He has sisters who all divorced and encorage him to leave her as she has been abusive throughout the marriage. They have had counselling & it hasn't worked. However recently he decided to meet his wife to talk things through as he said he didn't want to start a relationship with me while he felt confused about his wife & wanted to see if she would make it work. He says this then says that I am everything that he is looking for in a woman. I have not had any sexual contact with him as I feel that this is for two people who are going to be together long term. My gut feeling is that his marriage will once again fail & he will want to be with me but I can't help but feel upset, bewildered & in limbo.

2007-07-09 00:03:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating