He is married and i didn't know this at first.I was drawn to him the moment i saw him. We stare at eachother alot from across the room and there have been times when i have caught him staring at me when i wasn't really paying any attention to him first.He has asked me questions related to work and when he has he laughed kind of nervously. And theres been times when i thought he wanted to say something to me but he hesitated. whats up with him. I understand i'll never have him but is he attracted to me?He is like 15 years older and we are both adults
2007-07-09 00:26:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is a high chance he just likes the idea of flirting and feeling attractive.
He's married and 15 years older. There is a high chance there are children involved - and you need to stay away from that situation.
Don't let the guy's attention get to your head. If nothing else, it could cause problems in the office for you, with you being off the worse since he is married.
2007-07-09 00:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by Pandamay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He could possibly be attracted to you, or you are the only one with an attraction and just reading into his normal behavior as something more because YOU want it to be something more... Either way~ this is a very bad situation you are possibly considering getting yourself into to.
You need to focus attention AWAY from him and find someone SINGLE of your very own. If this goes farther , first of all know you will ALWAYS be his "second best" for whatever length of time he keeps you around, He doesn't and won't "love" you or even care about you...you will serve 1 purpose to him and one only (I think we al know what that is) and in the end (once you've wasted who knows how much time) when you finally realize that he will never leave his family and everything else I mentioned..you end up hurt, and because you are co-workers..you will probably end up losing your job too. No one likes a home wrecker hun...and not only will you end up hurt, think of the wreckage you will cause to his family. The pain that will be caused to the wife and his children (if he has any).. He's a dog and you certainly don't want any part of this... Just as when you get married and have a family it would kill you and ruin your family if some inconsiderate heartless woman came along and tempted your husband in such a way... Leave it alone, and if you don't well, can't say you "never knew" and karma is real and will come back to you, and if you have this affair I hope it comes back to you once you've found the man of your dreams...the one you can't breath without
2007-07-12 11:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by busymum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are experiencing Yuppie Love. It's a sexual attraction people who work together often mistake for 'love'. Work is sexy, you get dressed up and accomplish things as a team. You aren't worrying about mundane things like household chores.
Plus, if this old goat is 15 years older than you and plays those 'office' games, then chances are you won't be his first, or his last. Office Geezers are the lowest form of life when it comes to chasing young tail. And chances are he'll squeel to his buddies and you'll soon become very 'popular' with all the old geezers. Who needs it.
2007-07-09 00:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by Fancy That 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Keep your distance, and keep it professional. No sexual liaisons at work if you love your job and hope to stay there for the long term. Even if you are going to leave soon, sleeping with a married man or having an affair of any sort, will leave you feeling really guilty.
That guilt is really, really not worth it.
2007-07-09 00:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by bronzedgal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is 15 years older but why is he acting like a child?he feels good with your attention but tell him you are never getting involved with a married guy
2007-07-09 00:31:41 · answer #5 · answered by ajal 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone he is married . Married men are off limits . Do you want his wife to find out you have been flirting and then take your head off ? do you want to lose your job because of flirting ? Just leave it alone dear . You are playing with fire .
2007-07-09 00:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he's attracted to you.
2007-07-09 00:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by wind m 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Some things are best left to...the imagination". ie: Leave it there, and move on.
2007-07-09 00:33:37 · answer #8 · answered by Carol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm i answered without seeing the "married" part. LEAVE HIM ALONE
2007-07-09 00:30:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋