ok so im engaged and am getting married in 18 weeks, the thing is ive started talking to someone else online, he is awesome and we just have so much in common, i think im falling for him!!! i know its wrong but i just cant help it!! everytime i talk 2 him he melts my heart
2007-07-09 00:15:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think its wedding nerves
2007-07-09 00:25:40 · update #1
You are playing with fire you fantasize and are excited about the thought of love with a stranger but I can guarantee that if you met this man your fantasy would come down with a bump.
Take time to look within yourself to find out if you really want to get married to your fiancee. And tell him the truth when you find it.
Why you chatting with strangers anyhow? what is missing from your relationship? I don't think you are ready for marriage personally. I feel for your partner you owe him the truth
2007-07-09 00:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by angelrose0105 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to know someone that you chat with online. They can be phoney as a they want. The only way to know what they are really like is to spend time one on one because that is when the true personality will come out.
You may just be getting scared, or you may not be sure of getting married. If you are not sure, stop the wedding now, before you make the children that you will eventually have miserable by fighting and possibly putting them through a horrible divorce.
Don;t meet this online dude by youself either. that is very dangerous. Even killers sound nice when they are trying to win your trust.
2007-07-09 00:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im amazed...do you know how many people have this happen?
How many people leave thier loved ones becuase of STRANGERS?
Im all for internet dating (when youre SINGLE!) but come on!! think a bit first.... some guy youve never met melts your heart?????
Sounds to me that you never really loved your fiance or you wouldnt have looked twice at another person (internet or not)
Breaking off the wedding now will save you alot of money and heartache..
2007-07-09 00:19:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know that if you are feeling like this then maybe the man you are with is not the one you need. you could easily meet a guy that you like anywhere face to face and like him other than online. before you fall in love with this other man make sure you meet him to get a background check and things like that, but he probably isnt what he is saying he is so the man you are with is probably the real one and you should the these weird feelings away.
2007-07-09 00:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should put off your wedding..
if you interested in this other guy than maybe your boyfriend isn't the guy you should be getting married too..
think about that marriage SHOULD be for life... do you really want to spend the REST OF YOUR LIFE with your boyfriend???
2007-07-09 00:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's far from being wedding nerves.
Yeah, so what the hell are you doing??????
Seems like you're not sure of yourself. I think it's best to call off your wedding.
2007-07-09 01:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by wind m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People create who they want to be online. First meet the guy before you do anything rash. Also if you dont, you might wonder about it.
2007-07-09 00:26:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick the one u love more
2007-07-09 00:32:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... shame on u {}
2007-07-09 00:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by who ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋