I always hear that guys should wait till the girls are ready before they have sex with them but inside, do guys feel that the girl doesn't love them enough if they don't have sex with them?
2007-07-09 01:09:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no not at all, if guys love you and know you love them they will wait for you, some guys are just idiots who just want sex
2007-07-09 01:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For one, guys should always wait, even if it means getting over physical urges.
I don't think that sex equates to love, as its more of an expression of it. However, I do feel that waiting is a smarter and overall more rational decision, especially if the girl in the relationship isn't ready. No one under any circumstances should feel pressured into sex.
2007-07-09 08:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends. if they dont mention sex and dont have it, the not neccesarily bc it could just mean she isnt lusting for him,but does love him. or that he is waiting for her to make the first move.
but if he mentions it or comes onto her but she rejects him, then she probably doesnt love him. unless she got a problem which she should let him know about
2007-07-09 08:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by chuckguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...what's the point in being called boyfriend and girlfriend if they don't share any intimacy? It's not marriage and there aren't any common possessions to divide or share as a result of the coupling; what's the point??? Is it just to keep the other person away from all other men and women???
2007-07-09 08:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, after a while yes. I'm not sure you can call yourself a girlfriend if you're not satisfying him in some way. I would also wonder about why you don't want it.
2007-07-09 10:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by so 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I guess they think that way; but then, for the wrong reasons and for misinterpreting what love is only for their own selfishness.
2007-07-09 09:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by wind m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forget that guys don't need to be in love to have sex, they are just in heat all of the time:)
2007-07-09 08:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
For me, NOT AT ALL. It shows me that they have values. I'm still a virgin myself...
Granted, after marriage I'd like to experience it...lol.
2007-07-09 08:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋