Is that forced or what?

Question

Alright, so there's this gal that i like whom I've told my feeling to last year but she said she just wanna be friends. However, as times goes, I feel that some things have changed and now I feel that she puts more interests.

A few weeks ago, I asked her about joining the publication club that I'm heading and she said she's unsure if she would join. Then I chatted to her again in text and asked again, and she did not reply.

Today, my teacher in charge approached her and asked her something, I think about the club and in class when we were asked to choose the club we'd like to be in, she was a lil confused of what to choose, but then she asked around and she finally chose my publication club. No one else, her friend, chose that.

Is that like forced or what? Because after she chose that club, I saw her friends like teasing her, and when she registered to the teacher, her friend was like telling her that I'm glad.

Answer 1

Technically, no, but in her mind, could be yes. But here's something to consider.... IT DOESN'T MATTER! What matters is you failing yourself not talking to this lady right. It isn't just "Wow I think your cute, smart, and would love to be with you" Its deeper then that, I mean if you were hot stuff you could say anything, but if your not, BE REAL! And the only way you can do that is if you understand your world a little bit better. Lets just say if your not confident about you, you don't deserve to even be talking to another human being, better yet "liking" one. So if your confident about you, your direction, your beliefs, ideals, or atleast confident enough to talk about what you don't know, this is a golden oppurtiunity for you. Understand this big peice of wisdom, and feel free to speck it to her. Friends can become great lovers, but lovers rarly become great friends. This is one of the biggest love fallicies in our culture is this belieft that friends shouldn't be lovers. Its BS, thats why we have a divorce rate higher then or success rate.