It's really nothing to worry about. I think the statistics showed that less than half the women in the study reported having an orgasm from sexual intercourse. I'm one of them. I can only orgasm from direct clitoris simulation from either a hand, vibrator, etc.
One thing you may want to do to try and orgasm is get a small vibrator, like the magic bullet. Then try having sex and either you or him old it against your clit or if he's on top, the pressure of his body could hold it in place for you.
Good luck, hope that helped.
2007-07-09 01:20:38
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answered by Bats 5
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I believe that you are a women! and im telling you as a women not many women can have an orgasm during sex! it usually takes a talented man to give you oral sex to have you reach your climax! only 10% of women orgasm during sex statistically! i happen to be one of those 10 women! but unfortunatelly you are not. there is nothing wrong with you! give it time maybe you will run into a man who actually does the work for you in the future! good luck!
2007-07-09 08:15:58
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answered by Life....it blows! 3
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Some people just can't c*m from sex. It's normal. You need to get really really really aroused before having sex if you want an orgasm.. Try watching porn or lots and lots of foreplay.
Try thinking of a sex fantasy while having sex - e.g. being done against a wall by a muscley sexy male stripper and you have to be quick before your bf comes to find you... Haha just a suggestion..
2007-07-09 08:18:26
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answered by jeska102 1
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Ummm...well. I wouldn't say you weren't doing it right, no doubt you would be if you'd been doing it plenty of times as you so say. I think its more likely you aren't satisfying yourself. Are you thinking more about how you are affecting the other person during sex? Usually experimenting with new things can get you more "excited". Be selfish a little. But don't go OTT, ie. me me me! :)
2007-07-09 08:18:39
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answered by Anonymous
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It just means that the people you've been with haven't found out what turns you on enough. It'll happen, eventually. As for the idiot who suggested that all sex leads to STD's, he doesn't know enough about sex to even comment: ignore him...
2007-07-09 08:17:21
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answered by Anonymous
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i don't think something is wrong, maybe it just doesn't turn you on or the person! it depends on the person and how turned on you are to determine how long it would take to have one! you will have one some day
2007-07-09 08:16:24
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answered by cheerpunk2005 2
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You are not in love. Lust is not all it is cracked up to be. Hope you haven't caught a STD. Better go get that checked right away.
2007-07-09 08:15:32
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answered by Alea S 7
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if u r a male its not normal but if u,re a female its normal 4 some women
2007-07-09 08:21:22
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answered by sarolla 2
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been there. for me it ment that I was not with the right guy. but when I found my true love, it really happened. maybe you're just not with the right person.
2007-07-09 08:17:59
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answered by suzi 2
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find another guy that actually cares if you do orgasm. If that fails try the alphabet.
2007-07-09 08:17:26
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answered by brian m 2
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