Family & Relationships - 9 July 2007

If you have a girlfriend or you're married and you have intercorse with another person but you wear protection, does that still mean you've cheated? The reason I ask is due to the fact that you're wearing a condom, there's really no contact between the 2 people.

2007-07-09 07:31:03 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-09 07:30:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do women have fantasies and if so, what are they? Being a male and having male friends I know the kind of fantasies males have and they are generally more rough and aggressive...what kind of things do women fantasize about?

2007-07-09 07:29:16 · 20 answers · asked by Cupcakes Moosey! 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been hearing a lot of different opinions on this subject and there are still a lot of blank spots in my mind. i myself am not a lesbian and im not trying to get an argument i just want to hear people's opinions from both points of view.

2007-07-09 07:29:04 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my husband have been married 11 months and we don't have sex. We had a child before we got married and he's 3 now but our sex life used to be wonderful we would have sex 2-3 times a day. It was wonderful. Then I got pregnant with my son and started producing milk and he kind of got grossed out about it so my whole pregnancy we didn't have sex what so ever. Then we do it once a month if I was lucky. And then we got married and didn't even have sex on our wedding night! I ask him is it me do you not find me attractive but he says he does. And that the problem is that we have both put on more weight then we liked and he says that we are too fat to have sex, so we have been married 11 months and he still hasn't done anything about losing weight but I have lost about 45 pounds. So what's the deal, with him why doesn't he want to loose weight so we can have regular sex again? I am so frustrated with this. How can I talk to him about this?

2007-07-09 07:28:32 · 11 answers · asked by Melanie N 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do i stop guys from staring at me and or touching me. I dont wear revealing clothing and i dont talk to them so i dont know why they do it, HOW DO I MAKE THEM STOP.
And i already talked to the manager and the police.

2007-07-09 07:24:56 · 3 answers · asked by Riley 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 07:23:08 · 25 answers · asked by shaie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

29yrs old. 16 year relationship. 3 kids. not married. he is the father of all three children. does he deserve a chance? i love this man.

2007-07-09 07:21:37 · 23 answers · asked by 30 going on 40 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what is the easiest way to migrate to either canada ot US? some friends say, "get married to a canadian citizen or to a US citizen. ... but i dont know any cnadain or american.... and i want to marry only for love!!!!!

2007-07-09 07:20:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay heres the deal. we are very young, im 19 he is 20. we have been together since we were 15. he has been with one other woman before me, and he is my only partner. we have been toying around with the idea of a threesome but have never agreed to it. the other day he told me that im free to be with another man as long as he doest find out. he told me that he is afraid that once were older and have children that i would regret only having him as a partner. i in turn feel the same way, i dont want him to regret not "exploring" so i too told him not to let me find out. we did set a deadline though, we didnt have a wedding but went through the courts. so we plan on a wedding next year in july, that would be the deadline. we have a few rules like no strangers, no romance, no where where we usually are ie. bed, car, fav restuarunt... anyway is this a good idea. i know it sounds a bit crazy but im torn. i mean part of me thinks it could work the other... im scared.

2007-07-09 07:19:51 · 24 answers · asked by crabybuttcute 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-09 07:19:36 · 42 answers · asked by suederay 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been married for 12 years and he's been stressed and had an anxiety attack a few months ago. He really went off the deep end and left 2 weeks ago. He's home again but I don't know what to do. He has an appointment with a psychiatrist Wed. He won't say I love you or kiss me. I've been bending over backwards so he can rest when he comes home and isn't stressed out. He tells the kids when they have a problem to take it up with the cook or tell the waitress. I begged him the last time we had sex and it was almost a week ago. He thinks it may be mental and that's why he wants to go to the psyciatrist. He says he feels numb and tingly inside and gets pissed off easy. How should I handle this? What should I do?

2007-07-09 07:19:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think? I'm sick of stupid guys why can't they be serious?

Do nice girls finish last?
-To every girl who is looking for true love.

-To every girl who is herself no matter what.

-To every girl who dresses cute, not skanky.

-To every girl who wants to be called beautiful, not hot.

-To every girl who will spend her whole day looking for the perfect birthday present for you.

-To every girl who gets her heart broken because he chose the whore instead.

-To every girl who is nice to everyone no matter whom they are.

-To every girl who would die to have a decent boyfriend.

-To every girl who won’t settle for the jerk.

-To every girl who would like just once to be treated like a princess.

-To every girl who cries at night because of another heartbreak.

-To every girl who won’t get down on her knees and open her mouth just to get a boyfriend.

-To every girl who just wants to holds hands.

-To every girl who kisses him with meaning.

-To every girl who just wishes he cared.

-To every girl who would want a guy to just once give their jacket up when they are cold.

-To every girl who just wants him to call.

- To every girl who wastes her day waiting by the phone.

-To every girl who just wants to cuddle.

-To every girl who just wants to sleep (no sex) with him.

-To every girl who is scared to put her heart out there again because she has been hurt so many times.

-To every girl who shows how much she cares and gets nothing back.

-To every girl who thought maybe this could be the one.

-To every girl who believes in her dreams.

-To every girl who would do anything so she could achieve them.

-To every girl who laughs at stupid stuff and actually thinks it is funny.

-To every girl who is just looking for that one and only, but having a rough time along the way.

-To every girl who has been cheated on because she’s not a skanky whore who gives it up to any guy.

-To every girl who doesn’t want a guy who just plays with her emotions, but actually cares about how she feels.


-To every girl who wants words backed up with actions.

- To every girl who fell for all the lies only to find themselves alone in the end.

-To every girl who gave her heart away only to have it shoved back in her face.

2007-07-09 07:19:21 · 9 answers · asked by Petra 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a shy guy and I've thought about trying online dating but never done it because people seem to think its for desperate losers or nerds. What do you think? What would you think of a couple if they told you they met online? Is that weird? How do you feel about online dating?

Are people on online dating sites normal? Or do they all suffer from some common neurosis?

2007-07-09 07:14:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for 4 months and I really like him a lot and he told me he likes me and even said I love you to me. But now he is acting kinda weird. He usually calls me every 2 days and sometimes I would text him in between and we used to hang out a lot but now he never calls me much and when I call him he never stays on the phone for more than a minute. I don't understand. Its like he never wants to hang out anymore and when I tried to tell him whats wrong he got all mad and said that he was busy and that he only calls me when something is going on and that I should call more too but I text him and call more than he does. Then he kept saying thats its not me and nothing is wrong. But something is definetly up! I don't get it. I was thinking of just letting him go.

2007-07-09 07:14:22 · 6 answers · asked by Mel 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother-in-law (age 47) lives with his folks. He was included on our cousin's wedding invite as if he were a little kid, AND they used the WRONG FIRST NAME! This has been one of several affronts committed by this couple. No one in the family was invited to be in the wedding, which is a first, and to not get a FIRST COUSIN's name right is just RUDE, don't you think? I think someone needs to speak to the cousin (the groom); my bro-in-law is hurt. Money is NOT an issue with this wedding. Bride is 41; groom is 36. Bride told groom "no cousins in the wedding" and didn't include the teen cousins who call this groom "Uncle."

Will give 10pts for best answer that helps us address this issue constructively. Thanks.

2007-07-09 07:13:03 · 23 answers · asked by tiggyman41 3 in Weddings

I'm not gunna go out partying I'll be very serious student. But how is it.

2007-07-09 07:12:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

her husband was abusive towards her and divorce is now final option, we are unsure of how this can be done legally (muslim way) being based in UK

2007-07-09 07:11:44 · 5 answers · asked by KULFI 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have way too many relationships where the other person is no good. And to make matters worse I continuely go back to them no matter how I felt when we separated, or how upsetI was I always brought them back into my life.

2007-07-09 07:11:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, so as some people know - this guy has been messing with my head now for the past few weeks... he said he was going to call me Tuesday when we had plans and never called. Sent me texts on Saturday. Sent me MySpace message on Sunday. Today he keeps sending me e-mails asking me how I am and what I did this past week. I have responded politely to these e-mails, and now he hasn't stopped sending me e-mails... I feel like he is trying to take advantage of my kindness but he swears he's being sincere and is trying to apologize now -- I don't believe him and I shouldn't - right? He has left me no explination why he ignored me this past week at all... nothing... but I am supposed to be happy he's coming around now? I don't think so! What do you think?

2007-07-09 07:09:46 · 5 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

i've been burned very hard by my 2 relationships, both with bipolar women. why is this happening. how can i avoid it.

2007-07-09 06:58:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so im 16.
last week i went camping with my brother and some of his friends wich are my friends too.
well one of my brothers friends i have liked for a long time and i just found out he really likes me but is worried my brother wouldnt like us dating
well we ended up sleeping by each other and when everyone else was sleeping we started making out and after a couple minutes of it i got on top of him and was like dry humping him and he took my bra off
but thats all that came off we both kept our pants on but do you think this was too far i mean this was my first kiss and im glad it was with someone that i really care about and all but idk if i took it too far

2007-07-09 06:57:01 · 14 answers · asked by girl 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 06:54:48 · 15 answers · asked by sweetpea 2 in Weddings

Do you think it's wrong for your boyfriend or partner ect. to talk about sex or ask another woman about thier masturbating habits? Or things such as wether or not they'd ever had an orgasm?

Even if you are not in a relationship wouldn't this hurt you?
It did when I heard my boyfriend asked my best friend :/

Men don't seem to find any problem with it...

2007-07-09 06:53:29 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-07-09 06:53:28 · 36 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 06:48:48 · 22 answers · asked by Kaila H 2 in Singles & Dating

i have straight long brunette hair (bown to my belly button), i have brown eyes, tan skin, i have full lips but they are not huge. i am 5'4", am skinny and have a big butt!!!? i have a pretty crazy sense of humor. i am 15.

2007-07-09 06:47:25 · 17 answers · asked by jasmine 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so ma sister that is 30 and her husband their 2 kids {ages 2 n 3} and her husbands brother {19},, ma brother {19} ma aunt {40 sometin} cousin {18} are all goin to vegas and i wanna go but ma dad dont trust me doin NOTHIN!! lol my aunt is responsible and ma brother is very proctive over me so i dont see y ma parents wouldnt let me go ma dad said i could go if he did but he aint cuz he said he dont got enough money but i told him i would save up $200 and pay ma way?!?!?!?! would ya let me go if you was ma parents LoL

2007-07-09 06:46:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-09 06:44:25 · 12 answers · asked by AL ASPIRATED 1 in Weddings

however he has never paid maintenance too me or my other three siblings. I know im 22 now, my brother 21, sister 19 and youngest 16. Thing is he ranaway to Pakistan and remarried, and hasnt returned to this country since. He has a house here and rents it out, that rent goes to him over in pakistan where he is enjoying a luxurious life. Recently 2 days ago his son from his new marriage came to the uk for the first time with his mums uncle.
Is there a way we could do something as the reason he left the country was simply because he didnt want to pay maintenance. Now his new son whom is 9 has come here. Surely there must be something we can do?

i rang my dad about a year ago and he asked me for money, i was extremely upset as he`s meant to be my dad and look after me. He left us with nothing, we were in a council house but our mother has worked so hard, and brought four off us up alone. Its not the money , well it is kind off its just that he cant get away with it. I just don`t know

2007-07-09 06:44:13 · 6 answers · asked by maryam h 1 in Family