We have been dating for 4 months and I really like him a lot and he told me he likes me and even said I love you to me. But now he is acting kinda weird. He usually calls me every 2 days and sometimes I would text him in between and we used to hang out a lot but now he never calls me much and when I call him he never stays on the phone for more than a minute. I don't understand. Its like he never wants to hang out anymore and when I tried to tell him whats wrong he got all mad and said that he was busy and that he only calls me when something is going on and that I should call more too but I text him and call more than he does. Then he kept saying thats its not me and nothing is wrong. But something is definetly up! I don't get it. I was thinking of just letting him go.
2007-07-09 07:14:22 · 6 answers · asked by Mel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like some of the stuff I went through... I was with him for over a year... if this stuff is happening to you only after 4 months, something is going on.
Well, my ex ended up neglecting me (like it seems like your boyfriend is doing) and cheating on me. So I dumped him (which I should've done a long time ago) because I finally realized that I deserved better. It's sad how I had to wait till he cheated on me to end it. But you learn and you grow.
I don't want to scare you... but this is what I noticed:
- He stopped calling me.
- He started making excuses for his behavior.
- He always invited his friend to hang out with us... so we never got alone time unless I begged him...
You know in your gut feeling when something is wrong. You can see the signs. DO NOT ignore these signs... do not ignore what's in front of you. Don't keep making excuses for him when you know something is up.
I had to find out myself that he was cheating on me.
So... I just wanted to pass down my words of wisdom and experience. Good luck.
And remember... God does not take something away from you without giving you something better.
2007-07-09 07:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. He doesn't love you4months and to say ILY Blah!.... 2nd him not talking to you often and calling etc maybe he's with another girl or can be around certain girls.... But don't expect every guy wanting to talk and blab on the phone alot. Us guys don't like it... 3rd. It can be he is just too busy unlikely he is but my advice if you feel is not working don't bother saving it move on and don't stress this.
2007-07-09 07:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by Djuarez83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you said it - he never calls you much - and he doesn't stay on the line very long when you call him.
Either he's awfully busy or he's "awfully busy."
I'd say the relationship has run its course.
Move on and find someone with more time for you.
2007-07-09 07:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that he needs to talk to you- if the person youre with cant open up then maybe its not worth it, you shouldnt have to waste your time...there probably is something up but he just doesnt want to talk about it
good luck
2007-07-09 07:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-07-09 07:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Tyrone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if sum bull shiit like ta\hat makes you wanna end it then end it cos it must not care for him much at all
2007-07-09 07:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋