ok so im 16.
last week i went camping with my brother and some of his friends wich are my friends too.
well one of my brothers friends i have liked for a long time and i just found out he really likes me but is worried my brother wouldnt like us dating
well we ended up sleeping by each other and when everyone else was sleeping we started making out and after a couple minutes of it i got on top of him and was like dry humping him and he took my bra off
but thats all that came off we both kept our pants on but do you think this was too far i mean this was my first kiss and im glad it was with someone that i really care about and all but idk if i took it too far
2007-07-09 06:57:01 · 14 answers · asked by girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only you can answer that question. If you are comfortable with how far it went then it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Go with what you feel. It is your standards. Not mine. Not the person's that answered before me. Not the person's that answered after me.
Unless of course he is like 25. Then there is an issue with that.
2007-07-09 07:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by Tedo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're uncomfortable and having to ask if it was too far, maybe you did take it too far. Maybe you guys should have restricted it to making out, but yeah. Next time, just try to keep it a little slower because he is a guy afterall and God knows what he thinks the second kiss is gonna be like. So just calm it down a bit, and don't beat yourself up about it either. You made a small mistake and now you know how to make sure it doesn't happen again. Best of luck with you and this guy!
2007-07-09 07:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok that may of gone a little too far, but I will admit that got a litle horny there. I wouldn't try that again until you're older. The making out part is ok, not the dry humps.
2007-07-09 07:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say as it was your first kiss you probably did go a little too far... Don't beat yourself up about it though. It's easy to get lost in a moment of passion. Just next time, try and control those hormones a bit. ;)
Hope everything works out between you and this guy. :)
2007-07-09 07:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by StarlightRedemption 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you did. You went to second base on a first kiss. Too far, in my opinion. And this wasn't even after a date... You know him as your brother's friend, which probably isn't on too much of a personal level.
2007-07-09 06:59:59 · answer #5 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm sure that he didn't think it was too far, but to me it sounds a wee bit desperate on your part. If you're feeling guilty about it then it was probably going too far. Only you know how far too far is for you.
2007-07-09 07:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by Special K 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you just asked this question...I really think you wen't WAY too far for a first kiss...to me you seem easy and I'm sure thats what he was thinking too. thats why he took it so far. try and stay away from guys if this is what your gonna do. you don't want to get pregnant this early hun
2007-07-09 07:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by Petra 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh okay now its a lil more clearer and well maybe u did take it a lil too far but if u did care about him it doesn't really matter
2007-07-09 07:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you took it too far...i can understand the makin out part but with u jus findin out that he likes you then it was 2 far...unless u && him r ready for somethin like that
2007-07-09 07:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you took it too far. how can you really care about someone who you're not dating and who you only just found out had a crush on you? are you stupid?
2007-07-09 07:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by Wallflower 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋