Family & Relationships - 9 July 2007

She recently told me she thought he was cute, and I recently found out he had the hots for another girl and ended up in couseling with his wife. I've noticed her checking him out at family sporting events. My wife tends to be a people watcher and says she does not have the hots for him. Should I be concerned she has an interest? Is attraction OK as long as its contained? I don't want to be paranoid and keep her in a plastic bubble. Your thoughts?

2007-07-09 04:20:29 · 7 answers · asked by Jake 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hey guys
please answer!
I am in love with this guy who I work with and when I asked him if he had a GF he said "yes" and "no" and that it was a long story, we talk and the first day I met him we couldn't stop smiling and we still do that, when he told me that he might have a GF I got really sad and I kind of backed out on him and I am planning to pull myself away from him, am I doing the right thing? I am in in love and I mean it, I have never felt like this before and I believe in love at first sight and that is how I feel with him, when he's around I can't stop smiling but I was ready to cry when he told me about the question that I asked, and later that day when I was leaving from work he said "hi" and I said"bye" really quietly while I was sad and ready to cry and then when I got home I cried.........and I haven't seen him for a day because he didn't work yesterday at the same time as I did, and tomorrow I am going to see him,should I continue to talk to him or pull myslef away?

2007-07-09 04:19:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been bf/gf for 3 days now, and we had dated a week and a half before then. We have known eachother and had a thing for eachother for 5 years before THAT. Heh anyway, she leaves for an internship thing tomorrow and tonight is our last night together. I need an idea for a date. Something that is real romantic. Our first date as bf/gf we stargazed for hours on top of my car at a park, we held hands, i had my arm around her, and she rested her head on my shoulder. I want something romantic like that again. I am pretty sure she wanted me to kiss me the last two dates we have had, but i havent yet.. I HAVE to tonight tho...

2007-07-09 04:18:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 04:17:15 · 5 answers · asked by crazy.jossgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like more than 10 years? How old were you and how old was he?

2007-07-09 04:16:37 · 20 answers · asked by Biker Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

I spent many hours preparing for this wedding by learning the new music, meeting with the soloist and violinist on 2 separate occasions, and driving a total of 320 miles round trip for the rehearsal and the wedding. I feel as if I was asked to play for the wedding as a means of cutting corners so they could spent money on the more elaborate aspects of a wedding. The bride and groom gave wedding gifts to the wedding party and their parents, but I suspect she didn't even pay her violinist nor her friend for singing. We all three did a beautiful job at her wedding and with all the work we did for planning and making her wedding beautiful musically, we were slighted. Because of this recent event, I am no longer willing to play for weddings. Am I being overly sensitive regarding this matter, or because I was a family member at the wedding I should have assumed this was a free service?

2007-07-09 04:16:23 · 11 answers · asked by pianist/3rd grade teacher 1 in Weddings

What are some of the good things of wearing either or? I know in the summer its very rare to see females wear pantyhose. So when is the best time that females wear them?

2007-07-09 04:15:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 04:14:40 · 15 answers · asked by C. T 1 in Family

Ok so I've been with my wife for 7 years, 1 daughter 3 years old and things are rough at the moment. Relationship has not been easy, I work abraod alot and i'm not very often at the house.
Xmas 2006 my wife started talking to 'F' who became a really good ear for my wifes problems so much so that they had a Internet Affaire that led to her 'watching' him over the internet

Ok, i understood that my actions over the last years havent helped and we have tried to talk and communicate our way through the problems, apparently this affaire helped her and it made me realise what i can do to improve our situation. I understand why it happened, but when we talk about it she keeps explaining that nothing physical happened so its not as bad as it seems but she doesnt want to explain her feelings.

The problem is now she wants a "Trial Seperation" to think about how she really feels about me (and I think i know what that means!)

What do you guys think? Do i give her space?

2007-07-09 04:12:42 · 11 answers · asked by Explosive 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know I am only 16 and he is 18 but I think about marrying my guy every day, that is how much I love him...I dont want to get married right now but after college, I just want him to be the one I spend the rest of my life with...I think about marriage even though I know it is not a good time...Is that so bad...

2007-07-09 04:11:31 · 14 answers · asked by ~Lost N' Love~ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-09 04:11:19 · 1 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Singles & Dating

This might sound silly but I really need your opinion.

Yesterday my boyfriend of 2 years and I went to my best friends kids 3rd birthday party. So i picked up my baby cousin who is 4 so she can play. When he bought my friends kid his gift, he also picked up something for my cousin. Its the doodling pad with magnetic pen that when you swipe the lever it erases it. Well when he was showing her how works he wrote CHR. I asked what that meant and he said that the C is my 1st name and H is for my last name, but he wouldn't tell me what the R stood for, which is his last initial. Do you think he's trying to hint something? I know that sounds stupid but there's been other hints. Ok, like for example, he told my best friend that he wants me to be his wife, that i'll be perfect for him. But he knows she tells me everything, so why would he tell her? And he's been talking alot about our future. Am I wishful thinking or do you think he's gonna pop the question soon?

2007-07-09 04:10:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am engaged to my fiance who is such a dashing prince and i know he is truly sent from heaven. we are so in love and as Christians we are supposed to not have sex until we get married. I try so hard and so far we are winning the battle of the flesh but sometimes the feeling get so strong. It feels like such an emotional torture. we do not live together but we live on the same road so we spend a lot of time together. I know god has the perfect plan for us and sex outside marriage is not part of it. i guess i just need some encouragements from other people who have gone through this successfully.

2007-07-09 04:08:45 · 38 answers · asked by Jesuslovesmeyesiknow 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-09 04:07:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Especially if both couples are working outside. Are you favor with this kind of situation???

2007-07-09 04:04:44 · 20 answers · asked by lovely heart 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm not saying that I'm fat or anything, im just sayin that guys need to start looking at girls who actually eat and have a some figure. i'm not saying if your naturally petite you should get offended. This a note to the guys, so don't get all mad.

God!

What's the deal?

2007-07-09 04:03:52 · 16 answers · asked by minichick 1 in Singles & Dating

Am I right or overreacting..My sister and her boyfriend took my son (17) out for the 4th of July to a picnic and when they came back he couldn't even see straight or stand up.
I told her how upset I was the next morning and she (I thought)
wouldn,t let it happen again,

But it did, even worse and granted no one forced pills or drink down his throat . I asked her to be responsible and not let him or do it with him...now she even taught him how to abuse cold medicin .
Her argument is what was I like at 17. but she dosen't really know him or his history and argues that he would have found somewhere else to party with anyway.
He only knows about 8 people in this state and I think he would not have done it if it wasn't made avalible to him by his aunt who he has really only known a couple weeks.

Am I right at being really really REAL pi $$ ed at her?

2007-07-09 04:03:06 · 10 answers · asked by Rickdark1 6 in Family

My boyfriend have broken up about 11 times. We do it as an impulse sometimes when we're mad or something. Then a few hours later of next five minutes we'll get back together. Now we laugh about it so just wondering is that normal? or does it look like we're not taking each other seriously? We have so many problems with eachother but we just can't seem to let go of the way we feel I guess. The most we've been apart was about a week. Throughout the week we would just look at eachother from across the hall way at school or stare at eachother with frowns. Not talking to him for a day breaks my heart it was like gasping for air that my lungs woudln't take in. I couldn't breathe then we got back together and everything was okay again. I was happy all over again. What the hell is wrong with me??

2007-07-09 04:01:53 · 11 answers · asked by Jane 2 in Singles & Dating

i am kinda shy i want to go to parties and stuff i dont know what to do iam in the chicago land area i had to go to cousling for this becasue it s been depressing me

2007-07-09 04:01:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Can someone tell me why men think that all women love to feel pain during sex. I know there are some people who love pain but not all the time painful sex is good. You could be damaging the woman and not know it (cervical cancer- find out how it occur). I mean can some one tell me what thrill do you get when the woman is feeling such a discomfort.

2007-07-09 04:00:15 · 8 answers · asked by kab 1 in Singles & Dating

what makes a woman desirable? describe your coveted woman....

2007-07-09 03:58:24 · 2 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Singles & Dating

who was that ?

2007-07-09 03:58:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 03:57:53 · 3 answers · asked by Jennifer K 1 in Weddings

My wife and I have been together for 18 years and have 2 teenage children. We have had a turbulent marriage and she has had numerous affairs. I have never been unfaithful. I have always forgiven her but it gets more difficult after each affair.

We have now decided that we should separate and we want to keep things amicable. We have to sell our house before we can separate so we are both still living together but not sleeping together.

She has started seeing someone else while she is still living with me. I know that she can do what she likes when we separate but this feels cruel. We both care for each other deeply and I get very upset at times, like when I think about her with him, and when she stays the night with him. She can't/won't move in with him.

I have asked her if she can put him on hold until after we separate but she doesn't want to.

I don't know how I should be feeling and I don't know what to do. Can you please give me some advice?

Thank you

2007-07-09 03:54:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

am i being paranoid?
Question Details: im pregnant with triplets at the moment and my hormones are all over the place.

i want to get back with my ex but things are kinda strained. so neway hes away to orkney, and im like really paranoid hes with someone else.

i did ask him the other day if he was seeing someone else and he said no, hes never lied to me before but im sure you know how it is girls , intuition is kicking me in the butt.

im worried im being really paranoid and i mean it might just be the hormones but i cant shake the feeling, and i know that its not really my business if he is with someone else or not because well , after all hes my ex, but still, id be gutted , without going deep into the situation!.

do you think its the hormones ? or should i listen to instinct?

2007-07-09 03:53:55 · 12 answers · asked by spongebobs biggest fan 5 in Singles & Dating

ok i used 2 go out with this guy and we broke up after 3 days!he says bc we cant see each at all bc he lives 2 hours away.so know hes saying he would get back with me again....and im like ok now what?(i still have feelings 4 him)

2007-07-09 03:50:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Because it as happened to my friend :)

2007-07-09 03:49:02 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs and make love 10 to 12 times a month its very satisfying and enough for both of us but my best friend said that amount a month is way below average is she right?

2007-07-09 03:47:23 · 28 answers · asked by vicky d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

.....makes u so overprotective? Its kinda cute at first but afterwards its just annoying.

2007-07-09 03:46:08 · 23 answers · asked by Kristy 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband sometimes has random women hit on him. It usually does not bother me, but sometimes when these women are throwing themselves at him, I tend to get upset. He brushes it off and says it's not a big deal, there's nothing to worry about. But recently there has been a female that he worked with for a few weeks that keeps texting and calling him. He says she's just a friend but as a woman I can tell she wants more. How would you handle this situation? I trust my husband but still there is always that "what if" in the back of my mind.

2007-07-09 03:44:31 · 29 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Marriage & Divorce