hey guys
please answer!
I am in love with this guy who I work with and when I asked him if he had a GF he said "yes" and "no" and that it was a long story, we talk and the first day I met him we couldn't stop smiling and we still do that, when he told me that he might have a GF I got really sad and I kind of backed out on him and I am planning to pull myself away from him, am I doing the right thing? I am in in love and I mean it, I have never felt like this before and I believe in love at first sight and that is how I feel with him, when he's around I can't stop smiling but I was ready to cry when he told me about the question that I asked, and later that day when I was leaving from work he said "hi" and I said"bye" really quietly while I was sad and ready to cry and then when I got home I cried.........and I haven't seen him for a day because he didn't work yesterday at the same time as I did, and tomorrow I am going to see him,should I continue to talk to him or pull myslef away?
2007-07-09 04:19:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ya know what, just go for it. When you asked him about having a GF and he said "Well, yes and no , its a long story" then things must not be to great. And besides, its just his GF, not his wife...HUGE difference!! Chances are he probably feels the same way as you do, what have you got to lose by persuing it? I say go for it, you only live once and I dont know about you but I would much rather give it a shot and see where it goes than just sit around and wonder "what if."
2007-07-09 04:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear, I am sorry for the sadness that love had caused you, the Yes & No answer is an interesting one, before you close the door ask him to explain himself and carry on business as usual, this has taken a toll on you but hang in there, true love is hard to come by and worth fighting for, pursue the matter and after all things are clear make a decision, three of four times the hardest choice is usually the right one.
He was honest and the smile goes from certify to actual attraction, so you never know unless and until you know.. Good Luck
2007-07-09 11:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by KaysoCles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he might be "intrested"in someone.doesnt mean that its his gf.maybe he was just starting to get to know the girl when he met you.maybe getting to know you has caused him to change his mind about the other girl.give him a few days and see what happens.i would suggest you get to know him before you can say that you are in love.you cant judge him by the looks or what he is like at work.everyone has a different side to them outside the workplace.please dont rush into anything with any one before really knowing what they are like.cheer up and be yourself.dont let him see that he has gotten you feeling this way about him.someguys take advantage of that.good luck and if things dont work out............then he wasnt the one for you ! i wish you luck and cheer up.
2007-07-09 11:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by fishin for answer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I* think if you are in love that you shouldn't give it up. From the way he answered your question it seems that he may not have a great relationship with his current GF. If this is the case, give it time. Never give up on love, your time will come. As of now, just act normally around him. i wouldn't pull away completely cuz you don't want to lose him forever. Good Luck!
2007-07-09 11:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take it easy. When you are so serious, you make mistakes. Why to get so sad that you have to concentrate so much on hi and bye ?
You don't have to let things disturb you. Be happy, keep smiling, cheer up and think of things constructively.
You don't have to lose your balance unnecessarily. Be there, let things roll at their own pace. He should and will positively show his interest in you.
[Don't take his words so seriously that you have to cry later]
2007-07-09 11:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly have these feelings for this guy, you probably need to tell him.
Tell him you feel like the two of you have a connection and wanted to know if he felt it too. I don't know what his answer will be, but at least you'll finally know if you have any sort of a chance with him.
I think in your case it is worth the risk. Just tell him how you feel.
Good luck!
2007-07-09 11:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by T the D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't talk to a guy that can't make up his damn mind if he has a girlfriend or not. I feel sorry for the girl that thinks she's his girlfriend.Be careful. You don't want to become the girl on the side.
2007-07-09 11:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he’s not sure if he as a girlfriend or not, how do you expect him to be when you two hook up should he meet someone else? My advice is to back way the hell off. Trust me. You don’t want to play where you work.
2007-07-09 11:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by Steve F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well he said yes and no so first try to reveal the truth .does he really have a gf or they broke up or he have a crush on someone and then you can make your decision
all the best
love finds its way
2007-07-09 11:25:07 · answer #9 · answered by catrina a 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He might be talking about you being his gf in the future.Lots of guys do that so maybe he is talking about you.
2007-07-09 11:23:27 · answer #10 · answered by Hotmom1216 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋