should i get back with him?

Question

ok i used 2 go out with this guy and we broke up after 3 days!he says bc we cant see each at all bc he lives 2 hours away.so know hes saying he would get back with me again....and im like ok now what?(i still have feelings 4 him)

we talked alot b4 we got 2gehher.we were like best friends then we went out...4 3 days.

Answer 1

Give it another shot, you have nothing to lose.

Answer 2

I know what you're feeling, do you feel like you can never stop loving him? Do you sometimes cry? Do you think that he's the only one for you? He probably wants to come back to you to break up again, I say you should just be friends for a while and when the time is right and you feel surtain that it is the right time go out. Just don't rush things. Take it slow by talking over the phone when you have a chance, or seeing each other every other weekend.

Answer 3

My boyfriend lives 45 minutes away half the year and 4 hours away the other half. We've been together almost two years. You can make it work. It doesn't sound like he's too willing to do that, but maybe he just got scared the first time. Give him another shot. If he gets cold feet again, move on.

Answer 4

Generally if a guy really does like you and want to spend time, then he will not break up after such a short time using the excuse of living too far away. Sorry you still have feelings for him, but sounds like he does not deserve your feelings. You will find better - promise !!

Answer 5

I don't think you should but everyone knows what they really have to do let's see if the relationship was good then yes you should get back with him because if you love each other you can find time to see each other and 2 hours isn't that far.

Answer 6

Well if you have feelings for him you have to play a little rough with some love games.First let him call you never call him because if you don't call him he will miss you and want to call you back to back.Next when he calls act busy and hang up even if your not busy.Then he will feel like your too busy and guys hate that and it will show if he really wants to be with you or has someone and is just trying to get two girls.Trust me it always works I am a match maker.

Answer 7

3 days, well if the 2 hours wasnt worth it to him the first time what makes it better this time. Your not that emotionally invested in this relatinship enough to move for him and for him to move for you- I say no, get out now before you get too deep, if he wont even drive to see you then think of what else he wont feel like doing for you later down the road. basides, if he really liked you he would have done anything he could to be near you. my advise, tell him he had his chance, and move on.

Answer 8

It was only 3 days. He probably just got nervous over the distance. He now realized that he does like you and wants to try. After such a short time I think it's safe to try again.He hasn't done anything that bad...

Answer 9

If the reason why he broke up with you was because of distance then what you can do id try to spend as much time with him as you can.Try to make it fun each and everytime then you should be fine. Also the phone is one good tool.Call him and chat with him you know.Make him want to see you.

Answer 10

it dependz on whether or not ur willing to date some1 that you kant see on a regular basis. if your feelings are deep enough to make it through the times apart, then you should give it a try. but only if ur willing ot tough it out. because if ur not... you may juz end up gettin more emotionally attached and then if it doesnt work... you might be more hurt then when you started. you juz have to weigh ur options and see if its really worth it.

Answer 11

Wow, 3 days and your feelings for him are that life altering? If you broke up over something so small, what cha gone do when life really comes at you?