am i being paranoid?
Question Details: im pregnant with triplets at the moment and my hormones are all over the place.
i want to get back with my ex but things are kinda strained. so neway hes away to orkney, and im like really paranoid hes with someone else.
i did ask him the other day if he was seeing someone else and he said no, hes never lied to me before but im sure you know how it is girls , intuition is kicking me in the butt.
im worried im being really paranoid and i mean it might just be the hormones but i cant shake the feeling, and i know that its not really my business if he is with someone else or not because well , after all hes my ex, but still, id be gutted , without going deep into the situation!.
do you think its the hormones ? or should i listen to instinct?
2007-07-09 03:53:55 · 12 answers · asked by spongebobs biggest fan 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hiya again
yeah he is the father of the babies
2007-07-09 03:59:42 · update #1
Aw hun! Congrats on the Triplets! Wow! Proper amazing.
I would say that the hormones will be interfering with instinct at the moment anyway, so just concentrate on yourself and if it is right for you to be with him, it will happen. Just do your own thing...stay friendly with him...look after you and your babies then see what happens later on....
(Wow - triplets!!)
:-)
2007-07-09 03:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he has never lied to you before, then he hopefully wouldn't start now. Also if you are exes, he wouldn't have anything to lost by telling you he was with someone else.
Don't think you are paranoid, but maybe the hormones are kicking in? BTW, is he the father of the babies? If he is, you do have kind of a reason to want to know what he is up to.
2007-07-09 03:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by louloubelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? It could be either fact or paranoia, but it is MOST important that you try REALLY hard to drop it for now and focus on you and your babies. I know from past experience that it doesn't help to be pregnant when you sense things aren't as they seem, but it isn't important right now. If he IS with someone, eventually it will come out. If he has never lied to you, then you have NO reason to mistrust him now. Drop it if you can. Quit stressing, before you end up with a REAL problem for yourself or your children. This stress is NOT good, trust me. Yes, your hormones ARE really whacked right now too, so things seem 100x worse to you than they may really be! I hope this helps you. Good luck with everything!
2007-07-09 04:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by Kitchy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said so yourself, it's none of your business if he's seeing someone else or not.
Don't think about it too much. If he'd want to get back together, he will come to you. If not, you need to move on. But don't sit around waiting. You're having triplets soon, you need to make a better life for you and those babies.
2007-07-09 04:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by Moo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel it is just you miss him cause he is far away and you want him near so just stay calm and be cool.I am going through somewhat the same phase.All you need to do is something to keep your mind focused off of him although it won't be easy but keep your mind off the hormones and stay busy.
2007-07-09 03:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by Hotmom1216 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would trust my instincts on this one. I mean it could be hormones but until you know for sure don't get back with him. Good luck and congrats on the babies.
2007-07-09 03:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by Ariel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to instinct. It's almost never wrong, extra hormones or not. You deserve to be with someone who is faithful and treats you with respect, so if your ex is involved with someone else, it's best to move on now.
2007-07-09 04:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by benleegirl73 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As he is your ex AND your instinct is kicking in, chances are that your instinct is right. He probably IS seeing someone else and he has every right to as he has no ties to you. If he is, it's also really none of your business.
2007-07-09 03:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ive never been pregnant myself yet but i do think maybe your hormones and still even if it wasnt you could be wrong...if you have asked him and he has said no theres not really much else you can do...could ask his friends? just slip it into conversation but either way dont worry...
2007-07-09 03:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women's intuition is incredible
And correct most of the time too
I hope in your case it isn't though
2007-07-09 03:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by Ask_Elvis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋