Waht's the deal with guys and skinny little chicks?

Question

I'm not saying that I'm fat or anything, im just sayin that guys need to start looking at girls who actually eat and have a some figure. i'm not saying if your naturally petite you should get offended. This a note to the guys, so don't get all mad.

God!

What's the deal?

Answer 1

I don't like "skinny little chicks." They're too bony for me. I prefer some shape. Really fat grosses me out though. Above 150-160 at 5-10 is too much for me.

Answer 2

I'd have to agree with you. I'm not personally attracted to such women unless, as you mentioned, she's naturally rather petite.

As far as "what's the deal," you've got me. Can't figure it out myself, though I suspect it's just a cultural thing that will pass. If you take a look at Renaissance art you'll note the women tend to be quite "plump" shall we say. That's because at that time in history a larger woman was seen as being "healthy" (e.g. she got plenty to eat which meant she was well off). We're at the opposite end of the spectrum now and I suspect that eventually we'll swing back the other way at some point. Could be years, decades or centuries though.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Personally, I don't like the anorexic look. I like a woman with some meat on her bones. Persoanlity id the most important ingredient, but of course it is the appearances that catches your eye in the first place. If two women approached me and one was 5'9" 100 lbs dressed in a skimpy dress and the other was 5'6" 140 lbs dressed in an oxford shirt and jeans, I'd take the second one. I am also attracted to the face.

Answer 4

Just because girls are super skinny, doesnt mean they dont eat. I am a 1 in the pants and I am soo desprete to get some weight. i look at myself and i feel disgusted. And guys, ugh get over it. Just because girls are super skinny doesnt mean they are more willing do date or anything else. Every girl is the same no matter what way you look at it. Guys just want a girl super skinny, and that is so stupid. The most skinny attractive girl can be the bitchiest, and the bigger one(not fat) can be soo nice. Or the other way around. But either or..guys hould just look for girls who are super skinny, they should look for one that they like, and care for.

Answer 5

Depends on the guy. Personally, I'll take any girl if she's got a pretty face and a great personality.

Here's how I approximated what I'm looking for:

1. A pretty face (75% of first impression, 10% of overall)
2. A nice a** (15% of first impression, 10% of overall)
3. Nice rest of body (5% of first impression, 5% of overall)
4. A great personality (5% of first impression, 75% of overall)

Notice there are two categories: first impression (short run) and overall (long run).

Obviously, this is just an approximation I came up with. Personality includes: non-smoker, caring, honest, fun-loving, intelligent, and down-to-earth

Answer 6

I agree, when the hell are guys gonna realize that we enjoy eating too and don't want to spend all day at the gym. I'm not fat but not a stick either.

Answer 7

I don't know. Me personally, I like some meat on the frame of the women. If a girl is 100 pounds with no curves she looks like a man. Maybe they like a small girl because it makes them feel like more of a man?

Answer 8

I've always been naturally thin and there r a lot of guys that don't like it, most guys do prefer curves. Don't let all the magazines and celebrities fool u.

Answer 9

I dont want to offend anyone either - we all are what we are. but i have noticed a LOT of girls and women who's butt / hips aint no bigger than an 8 or 10 year old kid! I dont see where thats sexually attractive.

Answer 10

"...im just sayin that guys need to start looking at girls who actually eat..."

Who died and made you the physical-attraction-gestapo? So you've suddenly decided who guys "need" to start looking at? What ever happened to "personal preference", "choice", and "free will"? Control-issues much?