Family & Relationships - 9 July 2007

Because her cousin is my brother's wife wich makes my brother's wife my sister-in-law, wich makes her cousin my cousin in-law (my cousin by marriage). So my sister-in-law's cousin who I wan't to marry is already related to me by marriage. What do I do. It will sound kinda wierd because then my sister-in-law's aunt who is by brother's aunt-in-law will be my brother-in-law.

2007-07-09 11:46:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been married for three years and I still don't know what it is my husband really wants from me. I try so hard tofigure it out that it is literally driving me crazy. At times I feel loved and at times I feel like he hates me...What am I to do???

2007-07-09 11:44:14 · 19 answers · asked by nevaeh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He works 2nd shift and I work during the day. So I never get to see him. I have a very high sex drive, and whenever I want it, I have to BEG him for it! Sometimes I have to wonder if he is cheating on me. Whenever we do have sex, he always wants it doggie style.

He could easily get away with it since I'm not home from 7:30am-5:30 pm. He is also bi so he could have a boyfriend instead of another girlfriend! What do you think?

(Oh yeah, It's not low testosterone levels, he was tested for it last month because he is losing his hair at 20 years old)

2007-07-09 11:43:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is this weird or WHAT????? 10 POints for decent mature answer?
the girl i live with is really starting to freak me out...its as if everything i do she has to mimic and im finding it a bit suffocating....i moved in to her house about 4 months ago...anyway for the first time in 6 months had a date and because she did not have a date she literally went on the internet and found any guy like a mad rush, there have been many a times i have not had a date and been on my own and because this one time i had a date its like she had to prove she could get one too and she is 30! Now she has decided she want to change careers and try what i do for a living and she is even hell bent on working for the same company?? Im 26 so i dont know why she feels the need to be this way,, why do you think she is behaving like this??? Do you think she has issue should i speak to her about it how do approach the situation has this ever happened to anyone else???

2007-07-09 11:42:48 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After a day looking after my grand daughter,an Italian meal treat from my daughter and a nice bottle of red when I got home I'm off to bed. Can you please keep the witty and humerous answers continuing in my absence.
Thank you in anticipation.

2007-07-09 11:41:58 · 22 answers · asked by jayemess 4 in Family

Why do so many guys like women wih fake breasts, fake orange tan, fake nails and fake blonde hair? Does anyone know the psychological reasons behind male attraction to ths type of woman?
Why does this particular group of features, real or fake, attract men? What does this type represent to them?

2007-07-09 11:41:37 · 15 answers · asked by Nat R 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my fiance' for almost 2 years now, but the whole time I've still been married. I was never able to afford a divorce and my ex wouldn't pay for it... even though he was the one who ruined our marriage.

Anyway, can I get married while my divorce is pending? It will be official in Septmeber, but I am sick of waiting to marry my fiance'.

2007-07-09 11:39:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok shame on me but I went ahead and emailed my husband pretending to be some other woman. I made it a short flirty email on purpose hoping he would ignore it since it was obviously sexy and not just some innocent hi hello how r u? But, he did actually reply. We've been together for 7 years, married for 3 and have a beautiful baby girl. He always claims he is good to me, would never do anything behind my back and would never cheat. So I was pretty hurt that he is actually so easily tempted. I don't really know what to think to be honest. He will be going away soon for bootcamp and training for the us coast guard. I was in the Air Force so I know exactly the kinds of things that go on. I don't really think I can trust him. I don't think he would go out looking for trouble but if it came to him.... is every man a cheater? does every man flirt to other women? I mean this is my husband you know? I never thought he would be talking to other women in a sexy way. is any man different?

2007-07-09 11:37:05 · 28 answers · asked by bella 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating him a year.The baby is over a year and he took a paternity test to see if he was the father of his ex-girlfriend's son. The test says he is. He says he wants nothing to do with her and he still wants me in his life. I will see if I can still continue my relationship with him but there are no guarentees. I need advice from women and men who have been in a similar situation...

2007-07-09 11:36:24 · 6 answers · asked by Whitney C 2 in Singles & Dating

Saturday was my birthday.So on sunday one of my guy friends (who I had not seem in years) came to visit his mother and came to church and he brought a chain with an I love you pendant.I showed it to my boyfriend immediately and he seemed fine with it.

Later in the day he told me to give up the chain or give him up. My friend knows that I have a boyfriend,so I don't see why he is so upset with just a friendly gift.

I love my boyfriend but I am not going to give back a gift.Guys please tell me why he is so upset and girls what would you do.

It is not weird that the pendant says I love you.All my friends (even girls) says that to me I am easy to love.

2007-07-09 11:34:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend says me and hubby should try sex "toys" cause their a lot of fun and i told her that i wouldnt be into that and i know my husband wouldnt be either and she said we are a weird couple cause most married people use them..Is she right? We have been happily married 16 yrs and i wouldnt feel comfortable and i know my husband wouldnt either besides i dont need a "toy" to satisfy me..So like i ask is my friend right?

2007-07-09 11:33:27 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-09 11:31:19 · 12 answers · asked by P.Jay 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy. I see him almost every day, and how he acts around other people is what I have been looking for. His sister said that I should tell him in person,but i'm to shy. I don't really ever talk to him, but once when I did, he was really nice and joked around. I can see myself talking to him, but telling him?!?!?!?!? I tried writing a letter, but I decided not to give it to him. He doesn't have an email. I hate talking to people on the phone. What should I do?

2007-07-09 11:30:21 · 6 answers · asked by Jesus freak! 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a single Mom who filed for child support for my 14yr. old daughter 3 months ago. She has never recieved support and I haven't seen her Dad in 8yrs. I don't know where he lives. CSE, in our state, found his last known address. We were then scheduled to take DNA tests seperatley. We took ours, then two months later I found out he didn't show for his and all correspondence was sent back to CSE. They said he probably didn't live there anymore and they couldn't do anything without a current address. So now it's up to me. I don't even know where to start. Any advice?

2007-07-09 11:27:33 · 8 answers · asked by trulve 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to say all of the right things to this guy. I want my body langauge to agree! But at the same time I don't want him to know that I'm interested until he lets it be known he is and is available. so...how do I flirt? I'm a natural flirt, but how do I get him to notice me and want to flirt with me without coming on too hard?

2007-07-09 11:24:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting really annoyed with the constant stuttering I have now. I started stuttering a lot this year, but not that much last year. What could be the problem?

In school this year, many of my classmates made fun of me every single day, so I didn't enjoy school that much anymore. I also wanted to move to a different school sometimes. I didn't have as many friends as I did before anymore. When I try to become friends with some people, they told me to "SHUT UP!" or "GO AWAY!"

The school year before that, things were much better because I had much more friends.

Also, there are times in class when I suddenly can't say a word at all, so they make fun of me. They all make fun of me when I stutter, so I just decided to keep my mouth shut as much as I can.

And I don't have the courage to actually speak a teacher about it because I'm afraid of losing my reputation. Also, I don't want to tell my parents about it.

What can I do about all this? By the way, I'm in middle school right now.

2007-07-09 11:23:44 · 2 answers · asked by AL 3 in Friends

i have been talking to a guy online for 6 months....and i love him alot and he tells me he loves me too everyday we talk for hours together and are really good friends too.....but yesterday he asked me to send him my pic and i told him i will send him my pic as soon as he tells me his nickname.. and he said u go first and i told him to go first and then he said if i don't send him the pic first then he won't talk to me and i got really mad at how can he even think about that...then i sent him the pic and was mad and told him how can he even think about leaving me and he said he was just kidding (while in hte msg he wrote he was serious) then he said he was emotionally blackmailing me....i got so mad when i read that. then i told him that i still thought he was serious and now he is mad that i didn't believe him and i don't know who's fault it is but i m kind of blaming myself for it but then i think if he can stay without talking ot me then why can't i stay without talking to him too

2007-07-09 11:21:44 · 16 answers · asked by DeSIKHalsa 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 11:18:34 · 6 answers · asked by x_sofia_x 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married next year, however I've alredy been married once before. I don't expect my family / extended family to buy me a wedding gift because they've really already done that. My fiance and I want to have a honeymoon registry, so friends and family etc. on his side will receive honeymoon registry details. What should I do with my family? Should I include the registry and write a little hand written letter saying that I don't expect anything? that their presence is my present?
Do you have any suggestions on what I could write? Do?

2007-07-09 11:18:05 · 7 answers · asked by Snoopy 3 in Weddings

my mom wont leave me alone.she wont let me have any freedom,she tells embarissing stories about me to everyone,and she constantly worries about my weight and tells me i am probably not eating enough.(i am fine.im 13 and i weigh 109).and tells everyone every time something personal happens to me.
and my dad is worse.he pretends to be weird people and hugs me in public.and he tries to act cool in front of my friends.

and they are so overprotective!they barely let me leave the house.
what do i do?

2007-07-09 11:17:51 · 26 answers · asked by nobody 3 in Family

are they're any other guys who don't like to? and why not? I go down on him,ANY TIME HE WANTS. I just want the same thing in return

2007-07-09 11:17:49 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't mean like want me to be with him more. I mean how do I arouse him in a way?

2007-07-09 11:14:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if u fall crazy in love with someone who
then breaks your heart can you love again another person with the same passion and completely let go of your true love?
some say true love only comes once..
if so then what is true love?
and how does one know when in love..
because if u can define it, then its not love anymore
but a comparison to the literature, films and music..

2007-07-09 11:10:43 · 11 answers · asked by x_sofia_x 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do you do things you don't mean? Why do you say girls are beautiful when they're not and say you'll call when you won't?

2007-07-09 11:10:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am totally crushing on this guy and i no that he likes me back.
i invited him to go to the river to hang out and he said that he has to work but he will try to find time and he will ask his parents.
i am friends with his ex girlfriend and she said that she would call him to see what is up.
she called me back to say that he was definatly gonna ask his parents if he could come.
y didnt he say that to me?

2007-07-09 11:09:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my bf are still Vs. in Jan. i turn 18 and i really want to have sex with him and i know he wants to have it with me... i have read stuff about 'it' so i know the stuff i need know but... i need to talk with some one and my friends just sat to 'go for it' and my mom always says 'wait untill you are married ' i need your help!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-09 11:08:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one married life broken ,should a man go for a second marriage ,what are the chances of sucesfull and what will be the acceptance level?

2007-07-09 11:06:35 · 18 answers · asked by vinaychoubey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I lied to a boy about everything, and he now really likes me, I feel so fake.. What do I do?

2007-07-09 11:06:22 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

read last questions i wrote incase know one knows what i am talking about. im hurt because we were being together like if we were going to be together again and there was times when i asked her stuff about things i found out. she just lied to me for the past month. and well it hurts because i feel like its my fault. she lost it and she told me that shes very sorry. totaly regrets it. we both want to be with each other again but not now. we are both focusing on school and thtas fine. but im miserabe because i really want to forget about it and be happy again. i know we are both going to start over again. but its hard to trust her now and believe her. and its really hard to accept wat happen. so i need help on how to gget over it and still be hapy again with her. ive been so depressed. its really hard and i cry everyday. im trying to understand her also she,told me that she though of me when it happen and she was so confused at that moment.she told me that she wouldnt lose it untilmarrig

2007-07-09 11:01:25 · 2 answers · asked by cky_alex89 1 in Singles & Dating

If you don't believe in God, what is the point of getting married? you can still be happy without being married, can't you?

whats your view on marriage?

2007-07-09 10:59:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings