anyone got a clue about sex???????????????????//?

Question

me and my bf are still Vs. in Jan. i turn 18 and i really want to have sex with him and i know he wants to have it with me... i have read stuff about 'it' so i know the stuff i need know but... i need to talk with some one and my friends just sat to 'go for it' and my mom always says 'wait untill you are married ' i need your help!!!!!!!!!!

p.s. we have trid to 'do it' before and we alway chicken out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Wait until you are married I know you don't want to hear this but if you are planning on having sex with this guy are you planning on marring him if yes then why can't you guys wait so you don't regret this one precious thing if you know you are never going to marry him then obviously don't do it with him = self explanatory

Answer 2

Find a time and place where you don't have to look over your shoulder. Don't rush in, get nicely warmed up first. Go slowly. Use protection. You're young, expect it to take two or three tries to get good, but since he's young he should be able to manage that :)

Waiting until you are married is a dumb idea. Sex is the glue that creates love and love is the glue that creates sex. You need to get both going and sustain it past the initial hormonal rush of a relationship to find out whether you are long term compatible.

Once you have got past the hang ups about sex, it gets to be more fun and an integral part of a relationship.

Answer 3

This is a tough one. Most parents never want to acknowledge that their child want to have sex or are having sex.

And people never have a clue about sex until they really grow up and understand that sex is part of a relationship and not an end goal onto itself.

What do you say? -because it's your body and your life.

With sex, things become riskier but if you feel ready to handle the possible down side of it, then why not? And yes, it's worth it.

Answer 4

Well, what feels right to you? Do you think you should wait for marriage? If you and your boyfriend really care about one another and you've seriously thought it through, then you should just go for it. You are after all almost 18. You can make this decision. Just remember that if you decide to have sex that you must use protection. Also, you have to be prepared for anything. Sometimes condoms fail. If you were to get pregnant are you ready to raise a child? Also, as strongly as you feel about your boyfriend, sex introduces emotions that you didn't even know that you had. It is a big responsibility. Best of luck.

Answer 5

In my opinion, I would say wait until you're married, or atleast until you know you love this person. You are still very young, and my biggest regret was having sex before marriage. You also have to be aware of the responsibilities of having sex. Usually you don't have sex once, you have it continually. This means spending money on condoms, birth control, or God forbid a baby. And you don't want to throw your future away like that. I say wait.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

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Answer 8

well of course he wants sex, he is 18,, here is the thing, ask yourself this question then ask him, ( I am sure he would say he will marry you)

" What would you do if you get pregnant,, there is no guarantee birth control is going to work it isn't 100%"

so are you ready to become a parent? or make the descision to have a abortion?

if you can sit down and ask yourself this with a good straight answer,,

your mother says wait till you are married because she knows Birth control is not 100%

Answer 9

Actually there is a joke about two virgins trying to make love. Lots of romance and foreplay will make it easier, but the first time is a hurdle to get past. Good loving is a learned skill. Get a book... Joy of Sex is good.

Answer 10

Make sure you use protection...first and foremost. I'm assuming that foreplay has been involved, so that is extremely important so you can enjoy it. It will be uncomfortable the first few times, but if he pays attention to pleasing you, you will begin to understand what it's all about and look out! lol

Take care. :-)