one married life broken ,should a man go for a second marriage ,what are the chances of sucesfull and what will be the acceptance level?
2007-07-09 11:06:35 · 18 answers · asked by vinaychoubey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Very good chances for a second successful marriage. No jokes there are many cases where first marriage was flop but second marriage became great success,that's my personal experience too. Why should I give any one wrong advice when I know some relations if fail doesn't mean that new relations will not work out,rather second relations result into an ultimate relationship of life till the last breath you take.
2007-07-09 18:40:03 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Of course you can go for a second marriage. But before stepping in make an independent analysis of the reasons that lead to the parting of your first marriage. Your personal evaluations will be one sided to justify your actions. Therefore take the role of a detached observer. Then before going into the second relationship discuss the matter with your would be and tell her all reasons that lead to the failure of first marriage.
Second thing is you have to understand that marriage is not the union of two bodies or two persons but the union of two personalities. Personalities are unique and differs from one to another in various ways. Therefore the "power of accommodation" has a great relevance in the marriage life. If one of them become arrogant and stagnant there starts the problem. Both must have self respect and the mind to respect the other. Conservative concept of one ruling over the other, or pushing ones ideas and dispositions on the other is no more existing. Marriage is a promise to walk along the life by giving and taking. Go ahead my brother not to repeat the history. Wish you a nice time.
2007-07-10 06:38:23 · answer #2 · answered by Surettan S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a good chance of a successful marriage the 2nd time around. You have to recognize the mistakes you made the first time---did you pick someone completely not suited for you? Did you have unreasonable expectations from marriage? Take into consideration why your first marriage did not work, dont make the same mistakes again.
2nd marriages are so common these days, I would say you would be accepted.
2007-07-09 18:36:23 · answer #3 · answered by skyward 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a chance of sucess in the second marriage. But do look at the reason why the first one failed. And try not to make the same mistakes that were made in the first marriage. Don't five up hope just because the marriage failed the first time. Good luck
2007-07-09 18:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by bubbajess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what makes you happy. My parents were separated for 3 years (never divorced) and got back together and have been together ever since (that was about 18 years ago). The situation isn't the exact same, but the point is that just because a marriage didn't work one time doesn't mean it won't work another time.
2007-07-09 18:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by JC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your first marriage ended in divorce does not make you a failure.
And it doesn't mean that the second marriage would fail either.
Just don't jump into the singles pool with both feet and marry the first one you meet. Take your time, get to know the other person.
2007-07-09 18:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first analyse the circumstances for separation with cool mind and try to find out where the fault lies. if it was from yur side try to improve urself and marry the other. and moreover u can appologise and propose again to the first wife and try to make it happy. marraige is not a chils play atleast in india. its togetherness and if u want to get success in life u should learn how to honour the feelings of other partner
2007-07-09 22:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by bhups 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have read that approx 76% of 2nd marriages end in divorce within 5 yrs...I don't know how true this is, as I read in another article it was 60% fail...
I think if you both work at marriage any odds can be beat!
2007-07-09 18:19:17 · answer #8 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should only get married again for the right reason such as love. if you truly love this person it can be great. my first marriage was a total mistake to young ect, second is still going 29 years this year so it can work with the right person.
2007-07-09 18:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you have to get a divorce,before you even think about getting married. When you have had time to yourself and decided that you would like to find your soulmate then do it, Life is what you make of it, you have choices in life and no one can tell you the path to take its your choice, however you will find happiness if you choose.
2007-07-09 18:11:13 · answer #10 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋