I want to say all of the right things to this guy. I want my body langauge to agree! But at the same time I don't want him to know that I'm interested until he lets it be known he is and is available. so...how do I flirt? I'm a natural flirt, but how do I get him to notice me and want to flirt with me without coming on too hard?
2007-07-09 11:24:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best way to flirt descreetly is to ask questions. ask about his life/interests. from there..you can either act like he's fascinating... or play around with him by tellin him everything he likes is "lame" (as a joke of course)... frequent conversation can let a guy kno that you are interested in him. also...(this one works all the time) pick non-existant hairballs of his clothes like they bother you. dont say anything...just do it and pretend to drop them on the floor like its nothing. it makes them think you care about their appearance.
2007-07-09 11:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by **CHRIST*a rock that is higher** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a natural flirt, then would a stone face meeting fit your taste? ... Do not say you are a natural flirt. You are somewhat presenting a negative view of yourself. Be a natural interested person if you really want to meet someone ... cheeeerrrrrsssss!!!!!
2007-07-09 11:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by lionking_stallion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF????????
>> I don't want him to know that I'm interested until he lets it be known he is and is available.<<
Why not?? Your delicate EGO??
Boo hoo. Poor you.
Dont play games . . . SERIOUSLY.
Because we are ALL sick and F--KIN' tired of you girls and your BS "flirting" which doesn't really mean anything or get you ANYWHERE . . . . espcially if you are trying so desperately hard to hide the fact that you LIKE the guy.
WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU TRYING TO PROVE???
>> How do I flirt? I'm a natural flirt .<<
Just listen to yourself. That's the most rediculous thing I heard a woman say this MONTH.
GROW UP.
NOW.
:)
2007-07-09 11:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Use different things, give him mixed signals so to say. Letting him think you like him one day and think he is alright the next day will drive him crazy and make him have to find out! Ex. Look right into his eyes some days and tell him something nice and another day just brush him off as if you are busy. Good luck!
2007-07-09 11:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt in moderation. That way it won't seem as you're interested in everyone. Also try special flirtatious gestures to only him.
2007-07-09 11:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well usually, people that "like me" and dont know me start off by messaging me or writing on my wall with friendly messages such as "Hey thanks for the add, how are you? What's up? I know you because im mutual friends with blah blah blah" and i never find it creepy, i always think it's nice that people want to be friends with me. then after that, they'll flirt and what not. Creepy would be "hey sexy, ur hot blah blah blah"
2016-03-15 01:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a tease. Act hard to get. That catches alot of guys attention.
2007-07-09 11:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by tata 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it constantly. Toss in some real conversation in-between the compliments.
2007-07-09 11:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well use a mix of "hardcore" and "light" flirts
like sometimes come up and say hi. . . maybe look at him alot. . . .and sometimes you could do something like tell him hes cute. . . . .just mix it up i guess
2007-07-09 11:29:05 · answer #9 · answered by The Eternal Warrior? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
flirting = compliments. notice small things... smile alot... laugh @ all his jokes, even the stupid 1s... lean in slightly when he talks... twirl hair... maby blush and look away some times.... get in close... etc. work it girl!
2007-07-09 11:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by Sami S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋