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Question

I lied to a boy about everything, and he now really likes me, I feel so fake.. What do I do?

Answer 1

that is kinda bad.... you honestly wont feel any better unless u tell him the truth... just 2 days ago i swear the same thing happened to me...i was lying to this guy about EVERYTHING (except who i was) and he really liked me then i told him the truth and now hes not talking to me at all... yea i know probably not the best advise but you never know until you try. if you tell him the truth theres always a chance that he'll like the real u as well and everything will be ok... like i said u'll never know until u try

GOOD LUCK!

Answer 2

Yes, if you want to ever grow up into a mature, balanced adult, you had better tell him. Unfortunately, guys in real life are not like those in the movies - realistically, he will be pissed, think you are a flake, and not talk with you a lot. You have to be able to deal with this. Make sure you talk with any other people that have a false image of you so they don't hear things second hand about you. The worst thing that will happen is your reputation will take a hit, as people, escpecially those in love with a girl that probably doesn't exist anywhere in the world, like to talk. However, this will remind you of why not to lie, and you can grow from the whole mess.

That's the worst - best case, he forgives you and the two of you spend time together learning who you both truly are. Hollywood ending, but they happen every now and then.

If you ego is smarting over all this, just remember- a guy who can't forgive you for being human is not worth getting worked up over - if he can't understand you now, he's not likely to put any more effort into it down the road.

Good luck and try to always be true to yourself and others - it's a whole lot less messy!

Answer 3

You could create new lies to conceal the original ones so that the truth never leaks out.

On the other hand, you could explain, today, that you said those things because you really wanted him to like you. He should be able to understand this as a compliment and even be flattered.

If what you lied about is something that he cannot understand or forgive, your common sense should tell you he probably would have found out anyway. You'll know correcting the lie was the right thing to do.

When you tell a difficult truth it really does feel good. I say that and I don't even have religion.

Answer 4

you need to take a risk and tell him the truth about everything. Because if you start a relationship with him on lies and he finds out he's going to end the relationship anyway. So take the risk now, when you are just starting to talk, all he can do is walk away, instead of keeping up the lies and telling him later, because when he walks away then he'll break your heart. You can not build a relationship on lies. it will never ever work. good luck, and remember to always tell the truth

Answer 5

that depends on what you lied about really--if they were lies that could hurt him or lies that you told that will make him not like you when he finds out --then you have a reason to be feeling bad---if you told things that can be easily handled and the truth can be told-then that's what i would do --either way the only way to make things right is to tell him the truth and tell him it wont happen again--if you were just leading him on and he really likes you--don't you think he will still like you if you tell him the truth--or is it that you don't like him and don't care if he likes you or not? regardless--just tell him the truth and he can make up his own mind if he wants to still have something to do with you--hope this helps a little and good luck!

Answer 6

Well, you better tell him the truth and tell him you are sorry. It's not worth it to be dishonest, because even if things work out, this will be his second impression of you. I hate feeling fake, don't you? Even though you may lose him, you will feel so much better if you tell him the truth. Ever see Aladdin? Well, if it's been a while, go back and watch it. Perfect example of why it's better to be honest.

Answer 7

why did you lie to him about everything? I would say just not talk to him. And if you really like this guy, tell him the truth. Tell him why you lied and if he still likes you, then go for it. But why did you lie? You don't have to lie for a guy to like you. If he likes you, he likes you because of your personality, not what you've done in life. Hope this helps peace

Answer 8

Lying is bad. I guess now it really just depends on what you lied to him about. If you lied about yourself then here's the deal. If you're hot or at least cute enough, you can be honest with him about lying and he's gonna be so hung up on your "assets" that he'll forget about it soon. Maybe he'll like the real you even better. If you're not hot then there's still hope, always fess up. Communication is really important here.

Answer 9

You know that's like that famous irrelevant question of all men
Have in a jolly tone..It goes something like this..

BOY:So tell me about yourself...?
GIRL:YEAH, I can say whatever I want to, If I like you I will make it sound that much better..
..Ah-Ah...Not by lying,but rather stretching the truth..!
Now if we have no interest then I will make it sound that much worse,bland or boring...Tootles

Knowing a solid truth..A real man knows exactly what and who you are..............

Answer 10

Come clean and laugh say I didn't realize I was going to like you so much or I wouldn't have lied. Then he'll realize you dig him and will be to overjoyed about that to be mad that you lied.