I LIKE MY BEST FRIEND. I'm a guy. I have known her for a little more than 9 months. I dont know if she likes me back but all i no is that i am her best friend that's a boy.Whenever i am on messeneger and she gets on, the first thing she does is talk to me IMEDIENTLY. Is that a clue she likes me?
2007-07-09 12:31:40 · 19 answers · asked by J. Smith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It might be a clue. You'd get a better clue if you told her you had a crush on her.
2007-07-09 12:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look for clues!!! Don't try to find out. You're wasting your breath. You need to discuss with her about your relationship. If you don't think this is just some sort of short termed crush, but a real, relationship-type feeling, then you must discuss your feelings with her.
I always like to take it slow at first to see how I feel. You need to tell her how you feel and if she refuses, try to make the best friend thing go on. One day, she might realize "What was I thinking?" and she might not; I'll be blunt. Life ain't always a fairytale. But you MUST tell her your feelings if they are long termed. You'll feel guilty if you don't.
Good luck! I'm sure if she's your best friend, she'll understand and accept your honesty.
STOP LOOKING FOR CLUES! Stop dodging. Just tell her. Who knows what might happen.
2007-07-09 19:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by My Name Doesn't Fit Here 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look it is not a clue that she likes you, you are a very good friend of hers that is a guy and she probably will give you one of those lines like " just like you like a brother or you're like a brother to me" you are that guy that she will talk to when she has guy issues and confide in you for protection and support. until she expresses more interest in you like get mad when you are talking to a girl or talk to you about the possibilities of starting a relationship you really can't go off on she logs in when you do. Good luck
2007-07-09 19:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know she might like u im in the same situation but im a girl lol i have known this guy sence the first day of school to know so about almost a year and we became really good friends so yea but hey if u want we can talk cuz i have a situation and i need to here from a guy lol
2007-07-09 19:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by companykid101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, you will become some detective when you're older if you just look for clues. The only way you are going to find out is to ask.
2007-07-09 19:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by Gumby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not really enough to go on, but it sounds promicing. Do you give her hugs and stuff? If she is emotianally depending on you then yeah thats a good sign also.
Dont stress, just let things flow. More often then not it will just happen (weather you initiate it or not)
2007-07-09 19:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to tell whether she messages u because she likes you, or because you are bestfriends. The problem is, going out with your bestfriend can lead to problems/ a broken friendship if things don't work out. I don't know if you're willing to take that risk. Good luck with whatever you decide.
2007-07-09 19:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm there should be more things to tell you if she is into you, like the way she looks at you, how she reacts when she is around you and all that... its hard if you are best friends because one can get attached to her or his best friend and get the signs all wrong :s so be careful on your plans and if you feel that she is attracted to you go for it. try to win her over acting like a guy who wants to date her not the guy who wants to be her friend.
2007-07-09 19:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by Cobrarette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah
you should just tell her how you feel because she cant hate you for liking her and she may even feel the same way! just take a chance...good luck!
2007-07-09 19:34:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not neccessarly, but it could be, why don't u ask her face 2 face n see what her eyes say
2007-07-09 19:38:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋