What are the things one should do if you have decided to take a break from your partner??

Question

I and my partner decided to have a break from each other since yesterday because we have been having problems with our relationship.since last month we have been constantly arguing because of issues such as respect and trust.i have been going out with him for two years but know the fights have been worse and i recently slapped him durin a heated argument of which he slapped me back.so we hav decided to take a break from each other..and conclude wen 1 is ready to talk simply call the other.how shud i handle this break and how and when is best to get bak together??should we negotiate on some issues (like i feel he treats me differently around his friends(with no respect))or should i just move on with my life without him?

Answer 1

Frist off stay off making that last descion, geeze.... and concentrate on why your with him, contrate really as much as you can on you! And understand this stuff see most if all fights come down to "butting heads" on a issue, weather money, fidelity, religion, whaterver, its about making yourself feel.... respected? acknowledged? Treated Fairly? About being understood! So if you guys can do these things for each other its comes down to two possiablilities. One you started a relationship off based on romance as oppose to being good friends, and now are havn't a darn hard time liking each other, even thou you can "love" each other. So now here your both are, no real friends in the relationship, to strangers that thought they love each other, trying to like each other when it sounds like all you've got are reasons to not like each other and move on. Never good, hopfully its like the other and you guys were good friends and have lost your bond somewhere and need to spend some more time getting to know each other agian. Next time realize friends can become great lovers, but lovers becoming friends, lol good luck!

Answer 2

I really understand you right now because I am kinda in the same situation. First if a relationship has come to the point where you two have to hit each other than there's no love in that. Love shouldn't hurt. My boyfriend and I wanted to do that but decided against it. I think that to take a break is the same as breaking up. If you love someone and want to be with them, you stick in there and work things out.

Answer 3

You collect a slap! If he could hit you regardless of the fact that you hit him first he doesn't deserve to be with you. I mean every relationship has its ups and downs some more downs than others but this can turn into physical abuse. Dont take it lightly. No matter how heated things get he should of respected you and at least walk off. Its your choice but if it was up to me that phone of his would've never ring. Move on and find another, someone who would respect you at all times and who cares for you.

Answer 4

Get on with your life, without him. Men shouldn't hit women. No matter if you hit them first. It's wrong that anyone should hit anyone, but it's worse for a man to hit a women. He should feel proud that he is with you, when around his friends or not. If you're arguing alot then I think your relationship has run it's course. It's hard but you'll get over him. I'm sure you can find someone better.

Answer 5

sounds like to me both parties have some growing to do. I would suggest that you move on and you may quite possibly find that he is not the one for you and that is why the sudden friction. Best of luck to you.

Answer 6

Well in the Bible, it says " Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." So if that man had the nerve to hit you,then I would leave him in a heart-beat,and find a guy that is good that YOU like.

Answer 7

sounds like you already moved on when you two slapped each other .

Answer 8

During the break, ask yourself if you want to live without him or not.

Answer 9

move to another country!