Is your husband lazy? tell me about it?

Answer 1

yes he doesn't take out the trash he sleeps all day on Sundays n bitches when i make him wash the cars on Saturday he said he is to tired after working two jobs and on the weekends he likes to rest! can u believe that "rest"! i would like to rest my foot in his ***!LOL

Answer 2

My husband can be lazy during the weekend. He really doesn't do much as far as the chores and the kids. But I understand cause he works hard during the week and is on his feet out in the sun for 8 hours at a time dealing with unruly defiant teenagers at school. But when he is on vacation he does take care of the kids and makes dinner so I really can't complain.

Answer 3

Every job at home has been tasked to the husband and wife...regardless of size or difficulty..THEY decide how that work will be divided...

that does NOT mean that they cannot help one another...

I clean the kitchen (she cooks) that is DAILY, I iron my own clothes (military), I cook my meals when I am hungry, My wife AND I wash and fold our clothes together, we both vacuum, we both detail the inside of the car...these are things we LIKE to do together..because it is OUR time to BE together and work together. I work..but so does she...and DO NOT underestimate the value of being a GOOD mother and how much more is involved with taking care of them rather than what everyone of us has seen from some mothers who could really care less. So stay at home moms work just as hard as those who work in the workforce...difference is...that the moms who work at home do it for the love of their kids and those at work...only make money for their respective companies...sorry ladies..those jobs have the money to pay you..but you make them MUCH more than you get....

that said...Dads are better than fathers...we do a lot that fathers do NOT...we take the kids when mom has LOST IT..we go on the nature walks, we play sports with the kids, we clean up the rooms with them...we make time for the things that MATTER THE most..AND YES SOMETIMES THAT MEANS a little bit of a grace period with a USC game..BUT...we will mow and edge and get the oil change on the car that morning prior to kick off...so we STILL keep the priorities in order...

enough with the lazy husband bit....how did YOU not SEE that when you dated him?? Was he ALWAYS gung ho as a single guy? that would have raised a red flag if I were a girl (as far as his activity level)...

was the kitchen clean THEN? WHY WOULD IT BE now? If he was clean then..he will be now..

Ladies,.I applaud ALL that you have done...but don't judge men on YOUR schedule of events or your tasks completed. do..remember...WE STILL CHOOSE TO BE WITH YOU when you complain about things we haven't accomplished yet that day..(after coming home from our regular job)...that may not sound like much...but we also hope that you choose to have us around ....taking care of kids (contrary to popular belief and I will hear from all single moms) WAS MEANT to happen between mom and dad!!!

AND for the most of us men...we still DO change diapers and give the kids baths...and YOU DON'T always SEE what we do...many times we DON'T tell you what we have done for you...we know you are observant and we don't have to...so cut us some slack...not all of us are the lazy, uneducated jackasses you see on TV..

Answer 4

My husband's not usually not lazy, but some weekends he will totally zone out in front of the tv. Other weekends he'll be busy around the house doing all kinds of projects - like a world wind. He does the laundry, the lawn, and pays the bills along with other tasks like dealing with rodents etc., trash. Sometimes he'll sweep, mop, or wash dishes, but not usually.

Answer 5

My boyfriend loves to be lazy, and read or play online poker.....lots!! But he helps out when he's asked to, and has slowly realized that he doesn't live in his mother's house anymore. This takes alot of energy, but keep at him.

Whatever the deal is with his laziness, just remind him that he's part of a team. Act like his partner, not his mother. This is a bad habit we all have sometimes, and it works against us.

Answer 6

My husband is not lazy at all. He runs like 8 miles a day on his lunch break, works all day and comes home and does more than his share. I am soooo lucky!

Answer 7

He's not lazy at all. Hardworker, does housework, take responsibility, etc. I used to nag and micromanage him incessantly when we first moved in together, but I've learned that this is not only disrespectful (he's a grown man, afterall), but it's really quite ridiculous to expect another individual to do things my way on my schedule all the time.

Answer 8

He's not Lazy but when it comes to our home and our children...its like he wants nothing to do with them And I often feel that he's lazy when he's with us but when he works he is a very hard worker and does everything very well. Its just he refuses to do anything with the house or kids and when he's home he's usually sleeping....men are confusing

Answer 9

No my husband isnt lazy,he works 2 jobs so i dont expect too much from him when he gets home.

Answer 10

He was. Now he's my ex-husband. Actually, he's still lazy. (Jobless, living at home with mom and dad, doesn't help them around the house, doesn't pay child support. Basically a waste of skin.)

However, before we divorced, he was jobless, living with me, did nothing around the house....which is why I divorced him.

Answer 11

I admit it, I sometimes leave my socks and shoes in the living room. At least I mow the lawn. I do wash clothes, but I am too lazy to fold them.