A. Feeling like you must stay together because you are married, regardless of personal will and preference
or
B. Feeling like you can leave any time you want (even though you are married) but you stay out of choice.
2007-07-09 09:14:02 · 9 answers · asked by danashelchan 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Staying out of choice (B) is the opposite of commitment.
Commitment (n): A pledge to do. Something pledged, especially an engagement by contract.
All the choice comes prior to the commitment; you make a choice to commit, and after that the choice is over and done with. You have exercised your personal will and preference at that point, and come to a decision. Staying married thereafter implies a commitment to that decision.
I am happily married and I have been married for 21 years. I like to think I know something about commitment.
2007-07-09 09:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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Staying out of choices means that you want to stay there and desire to stay there.
Staying because you must because you are married leads to you cheating in a year or two. Human needs have to be fulfilled!
2007-07-09 16:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ker Plunk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to stay together its marriage you have you're ups and downs if in an argument begins just walk away come back in an hour and sit down with you're partner for life and talk. life is to short make the best of it.
2007-07-09 16:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by EKO1964 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
B. Free will and the "null option" is stronger. Otherwise you are a slave without a choice.
2007-07-09 16:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by Someone somewhere doing something 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
B. B/c you want to out of your own free will
2007-07-09 17:20:22 · answer #5 · answered by King H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
b all day every day, that why i laugh at all these women that wont even let their man talk to a woman on here, they are one good opprotunity away from divorce
2007-07-09 16:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by eyesinthedrk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You stay because you truly want to!
2007-07-09 16:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by kimberly n 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ill go with A
2007-07-09 16:20:26 · answer #8 · answered by mmedina96 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B. you have to really want to be there.
2007-07-09 16:28:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋