Ok, this is kinda long so bear with me.
So I have this one friend (who's a girl) and we've been friends for like a year or two. I never really saw her as a girlfriend, but the past few months, everytime I see her I start liking her more. So one day I decided to tell her that I like (bad mistake) and she told me that she didn't see me that way and only has a friend. At first i was kinda mad and for like a month I kinda dissed her when she wanted to hang out. But i got over it and we would hang out again. But now i still can't convince myself to just "be friends" and I only want to date her now, but i know she wouldn't be feelin it. And the mood between us has been a tiny bit different since i told her how i felt. But she always wants to hang out and i feel like its a waste of time if i can feel the "friend" relationship fading and all i really want to do is go out w/ her. So should i keep trying w/ her and maybe she'll come around or should i just stop with all this nonsense.
2007-07-09 09:41:17 · 13 answers · asked by TheHeftyLefty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've told her how you feel, you got rejected. You're in the friend zone, and you're not going to get out of it, especially if she knows you like her and hasn't chosen to act on it. Don't wait around for her, cause she's not going to come around. I will use my boyfriend as an example. He pursued this girl before he met me for almost 2 years, and she even told him she wasn't interested, but he still hung around hoping sh ewould come around. but,she never did. I am happily dating him now. So, dont wait around for her, cause she's not going to come around. You've been put in the friend zone and you ain't coming out, especially if she said she was not interested in you when you told her you liked her
2007-07-09 09:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by wolfgirl1987 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one. If theres one thing i've found its that girls go for the guys who are the closest to them (the whole best friend/boyfriend thing) so just work on being her friend for now. You should also understand how bad her feelings will be hurt if you say no to being er friend because then she will feel like your friendship was fake all that ime and you were just trying to be friends so that you could date her which can be really hurtful if she thought of you as a good friend (trust me i know). i would just be her friend but dont hold out too much hope that she will date you if its meant to be then it will be and if not then keep her as a friend because she could use her girl connections to hook you up with some cutie friends of hers
2007-07-09 09:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me telling the girl that you like her was not a mistake, Girls like it when guys tell them they like you, it gives them better convidence. And dont even think about stopping the friendship with this girl. Call her and ask her to go out as friends but show her that you can be a good boyfriend. If you and her stay friend she will probally give u a kiss, like if one of her dates stands her up or something like that, you be there for her and she will thank you and she will see the guy you really are.
2007-07-09 09:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i went through the same thing like him more than a friend and he said he only wanted to be friends i kept trying to be cool about it but i didnt want to be his friend i wanted more....so i stopped talking to him for a lil while and i called him and i still felt that way so i just stopped all contact and u know what til this day i still feel the same way..........but what u do is ur decision u can get advice but u r going to do what u want.best wishes....
2007-07-09 09:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by Lilshorty69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you hang out with her without feeling weird? I'm guessing that you can't.
If you have feelings for her, but she doesn't feel the same way, it is nobody's fault; however, you should not torture yourself that way. You will never get over her while you are hanging out together.
I would just find new friends to hang out with.
2007-07-09 09:46:35 · answer #5 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 11:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by henze 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth hurts but she might just not like you like a boyfriend way. but then theres that chance that she'll come around. she's probably just shy about her feelings. give it time and ride it out. good things will happen.
2007-07-09 09:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happened to one of my friends...he got really jealous and pissed off but still hung out with her because he still felt he had a chance
needless to say this girl became MY girlfriend and he never did have a chance...like ever...my advice would be not to waste your time because he was in agony...I'm talking real agony for not being able to be with her..it's not worth your time bro, trust me
2007-07-09 09:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by buffalodude1988 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think its good that you told her or you would just feel awkward. but i think you should give it some time and if she dont came around you should date someone else. i think she will realize that you are a good guy and that she likes you but didn't realize it. i also think if she dont like you then its her loss. you should like a great guy but mabey you deserve a diffrent gurl. well good luck and email me to tell me how thinks go plz!!
2007-07-09 09:50:44 · answer #9 · answered by ☃☠ღshortie④②⓪babiiღ☠☃ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if that was me i would try again but not to soon give her more time ever think she likes someone else but if u really like keep telling but be careful not inoy her
2007-07-09 09:50:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋