I have a great friend. Ive been his friend for about three years or so now and I have lately found out some drastic things he has been doing. He has once put a knife in his arm and occasionally cuts down his arm but tells no one why. We are best friends and it hurts me to know he is doing this.
HOW CAN I HELP?!
I am there for him, I want to talk to him about it but I need the relliance of my other friend who keeps bailing on me to talk about it. I feel as though Im the only one taking this seriously and I want to know how to help him but I doubt talking to my other friends will help.
Thanks so much.
2007-07-09 09:48:35 · 12 answers · asked by summer_boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
some people are just like that, its just a stage in his life and he will eventually grow out of it, just watch to make sure he don't cut to deep and let him know that it is consurning you that he is cutting himself like that. also is he emo gothic or anything like that if so, don't worry.
2007-07-09 09:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by eclipsefreak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If You Are His Best Friends You Will Immeadiately Get Him Pshycological Help Instead Of Asking Yahoo Answers Seriously That Is Not safe And One day You May Be Too Late So Please For His sake Get Him Help
2007-07-09 09:52:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell someone about this. Another thing is that sometime when we find something is important, we take a look around and no one is there standing with us, but if you think that it is important enough then you have to take a breath and stand tall. Even when no one else will help.
2007-07-09 09:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wear a sweater and long pants at all times. Also tape the openings. This way you won't be able to cut yourself. Even if you tried it wouldn't be able to penetrate your clothes. Just a tip.
2016-05-21 22:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your friend how you feel about what he's doind to himself. Tell him why it hurts you, how much you care for him, and tell him that you'll be their for him through every step of the way. You r a good friend to care about him and I wish you the best!
2007-07-09 09:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by a1beachbug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, you need to talk to someone like a psychologist or his parents because cutting is very dangerous.
2007-07-09 09:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him as a friend, try to talk over and discuss why he is doing that.
Help him out of this man...
2007-07-09 09:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by Jim C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents about this. He has a very serious problem and needs professional help. My college roommate did that and it got so bad that we had to call the ambulance and they had her committed to the psych ward.
2007-07-09 09:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by burghgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem with a friend tell your parents and tell them to talk to his with you then you all tlk to him at once it works he just needs a real sit down with ppl that care about him tell him to stop
2007-07-09 09:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by lauren d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring him to the hospital.He needs to see a psychiatrist, to be able to find out & deal with why he's doing this.
2007-07-09 09:57:19 · answer #10 · answered by Klingon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋