What does it mean when your boyfriend says he wants to move back home?

Question

My boyfriend (father of my 7 month old son) says after our apt. lease is up Oct. 31, 2007 he thinks it's better that he moves back home. He says he's not happy at home and he's tired of fussing all the time. I asked him what does this mean for us and he said that we need to live seperate to see if this is what we want (i guess see if we want to still be together.) I don't know how we're supposed to do that if we don't see what else is out there. That seems like we need to see other people to see if we want to still be with each other. I think he's cheating again anyway but I don't know. I found some girl texting him asking why she haven't talked to him in a week and I don't know what to do. I am so scared to ask if he's messing with her bc i really don't want to know the answer. I don't want to be a single parent and I don't want him to be w/anyone else and I don't want to be with another man. Please tell me what to do about this. I am going crazy... :(

Answer 1

Unfortunately it is so easy for a him to say I don't want this anymore I am moving back. He has seen the responsibilities of being a parent and having a family and he is not interested anymore. It sounds like he has other plans. You can't foce anyone the be with you. You can however force him to pay child support. Let him move out and concentrate on what you can do for yourself and your child. Whatever you do make sure he assumes his responsibilities towards his child and pays child support.

Answer 2

Honestly, you are in a better position to "know what it means" then people on the internet who never met your boyfriend. If you think that he is cheating on you, then usually your gut is right.

Answer 3

sounds like he dont love you. he is giving you hints and just dont want to listen to them. so get ready to be on your own. its time to move on you will find someone better that will want to take care you and your child. grow up and face it...he is not going to change.