they're always bossing me around and i feel like i have no control. i cant go and talk to my friends on the computer until ive done EVERYTHING. theyre control freak parents. they even put a password on the laptop, they have parental control on it so i cant go on past nine. I'M 14!! my mums a complete mental case, for filming (because im an extra in a tv series) they said one day i needed this jacket so i brought it and didnt have to use it, noone on set even saw it or even knew i had it. today i cant find it, but my mum's being completely unreasonable and is MAKING me find it, its a cheap jacket from a charity shop, i never (ever) wear it and i really dont need it! thats just one example. my mum, dad, and grandad are more bothered with hearing the telly than hearing about my day. my dad cba doing anything, my grandads a complainer and my mums got a headache all the time and is always complaining and nagging. how do i tell them to lay off me, i cant take any more, i get really wound up
2007-07-09
08:44:38
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i never mentioned about money. i've got over 1,500 quid in my bank account and i ahve no access to it. im aware theyre trying to save it for me but i ned to LIVE! im earning money for my extra job in a tv series and i cant touch any money at all!
also i must admit i am a chocaholic and, even thought im a size 6 they think that having a little choc will make me fat! ive never been on a diet and im not even allowed to buy chocolate with my dismal amount opf pocket money i get (occasionally) they dont encourage me, i cant remember the last time one of them hugged me or i hugged one of them. probably something like last christmas. im always annoyed at them. i never answer back, ive had a strict upbringing, i never hit them and am never violent (there was a social services problem, my dad used to beat me) i get really wound up at my mums constant nagging and end up just wanting to scream, or walk out
2007-07-09
08:50:19 ·
update #1
the only comfort i get it from my friends and my music. somehow, for reasons beyojnd my comrehension my parents dont appreciate fallout boy, lordi and my chem and i cant go on hte computer to talk until ive done everything (1/2 hour violin practise, homework, etc) im not allowed to text or call anyone on my mobile other than my parents for an emergency. they keep a tab of the money i use. im not allowed to use the house phone. i live nowhere near anywhere with any decent shops so i cant walk out for a day and shop. i'd be in big trouble anyway. they expect me to pay for my own hair appointments even thought i only get pocket money. i even ahve to put birthday money and christmas money in the bank, never to be seen again until im at uni. how do i cope, how can i get the message across that i hate my life, i hate them and i hate the way they nag and complain. im not depressive or suicidal or anything, i just want more freedom. the social worker had a chat with them and they aint changed
2007-07-09
08:56:00 ·
update #2