Last night I was sitting at a bar with some friends and one of my guy friends was alittle upset because one of my female friends always goes for jerks AKA bad boys. These are the men who cheat, lie, dont want a commiment and treat you like a slut. He just did understand why we fall for the bad boys
(HE's A GOOD GUY)...I popped off and said "Sometimes it is easier because you don't expect much and your feeling dont get hurt. With GOOD guys you expect the world and it hurts when they show you anything less." Do you think I was right?
2007-07-09 08:14:50 · 5 answers · asked by aprilntex 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what im saying is...if these bad boys are up front with you and they are saying no relationship...I want to come a go as I please...
OH and by the way IM dating a nice guy
2007-07-09 08:32:46 · update #1
Women go for bad boys and jerks because that what turns them on. Nice guys are boring, while bad boys are exciting and dangerous and constantly keep a woman off balance.
Your "guy friend" should stop trying to figure out why and just accept what is. What he needs to do is be a jerk and treat women like crap, and he can take advantage of how most women naturally are. If he acts the jerk, then the women he's complaining about will want him, and he won't have to complain anymore. He should become what the women want him to be.
2007-07-09 08:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by eviltruitt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not getting hurt by bad boy types? That's pretty funny. Next I bet you'll tell me that everyone can train their pets to balance checkbooks and file taxes...
The bad boy types are the ones girls get hurt by because they can't change him from a bad guy to a decent one that desires a committed relationship like they wanted to. The nice guys tend to be overlooked even though they are the ones girls would rather be with... Or is it the fact that some of the girls would rather be with the meaner guys since they always seem to date them...
But no, I can't say I agree with you. Good guys are easier, but you just seem a bit too lazy to find them or you're complacent and satisfied with the bad boy type...
2007-07-09 08:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm Not bad- never thought of it like that. Im always 4 the bad boy ... this is y I am in my 30s n single LOL.
2007-07-09 08:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aprilntex, Shhh hon don"t tell everybody. ha ha no seriously I"m a white knight kinda guy and it is my duty, no my privilage to serve my lady. But I am 47 so I reckon I am just an old relic !
2007-07-09 08:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
2007-07-09 08:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋