ive been with my husband for 6 yrs married for 3....we decided to take a "break"....he is 23 i am 21...he still wants to party and go out and well i do as well but i rather spend my time with my family...oh we have a 3yr old...so i'm soooooo sad and depressed i cant eat, i cant sleep....i throw up withought eating i feel like i'm making my self sick.....in 2 days i lost 5 pounds....i know that i will be okay during this seperation but its sooooo hard...i cant be at home alone becuase i just cry and depress myself........i have thoought about suicide but i have to be strong for my son....wat can i do 2 get over this?
2007-07-09 06:13:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm so sorry honey. First of all this may sound silly but you need to go have a night-out onthe town (not getting drunk, or sleeping w/ a bunch of guy's) just goos, clean, fun.
clear your mind of all the stress, and be strong for you and your little boy. From the way you talked I'm assuming you suggested the "break". most of the time these work. Your hubby will realize just how much you do to improve his life (hence the reason you are his better half..lol), and also how much distance between you makes him miss you.
I hope your hubby has enough sense to know that this truely hurts you and becomes a better man because of it.
Just stay strong and raise your baby. he will see that the seperation is a mistake, but don't just let him come back without proving anything...make him work for it honey...you CAN be an independant woman..you son't need him to survive.
2007-07-09 06:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by CJ&Drewsmomma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby I know where you're coming from, I'm in the same boat, except a little more along than you. Relax. Things will get better for you. I'd call up some friends to chat and go have a coffee or something. Call up your family and draw strength from them. And suicide? come on, get real, you've got everything to live for, like your child. If you need to, go to the doctor and get on mediction to help you cope w/ your depression. They can help if you let them. Good luck. Email me if you need someone to talk to. I'll listen.
2007-07-09 06:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by prouddaddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Snap out of it! You married far too young. Neither one of you had any adult life experiences so you can't whine now about the separation. You have a child that depends on you so do whatever needs to be done for the child first. Concentrate on what you need to do to grow up and think about someone other than yourself.
2007-07-09 06:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to find a better way to deal with this go out make some friends but make sure you and your husband stay close. become frinds with him that could help your relationship but you have to start taking care of yourself becouse at the rate you are going now is not healthy for you or your son.
2007-07-09 06:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you, it's him.
A "break"?? From marriage??
He's out with another girl. Sorry to be blunt, but that's what he's doing.
When your son came along, your HUSBAND should have changed. Apparently he didn't.
Give him an ultimatum: either he focuses on you and the son, or he moves out and pays child support.
And if argues or critizcizes you - THAT's your answer.
2007-07-09 06:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him tell him how you really feel. If he then wants out get a devorce. Separations don't normally make things better.
2007-07-09 06:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by zeppelin412 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋