that you hate the person for being such an idiot and you hate yourself for loving them?
diga me.
Gracias.
2007-07-09 06:34:26 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Gracias thisbrit. Tu repuesta era muy bella.
Pero no puedo encontrar un repuesta major aun. De todos modos, gracias.
Y Gracias a todos.
2007-07-09 06:55:17 · update #1
Well, this happens to us most of the times when we were young people. At this age, we don't know what actually the love is. But let me explain you some thing.
Love, as a word, comes from three original Greek words:
Philia, which is related to the inclination or attraction to someone or something. Like "philosophy" what is literally "love to the wisdom".
Agape, what is love based in principles. This is the brotherhood love, divine love, or in general spiritual matters.
Finally, Eros, which refers to the sexual inclination, or erothical attraction, that only is related with de hormones and not with de mind. This is the "love" which drives us crazies, and before you've thinking to love somebody, you come to hate him, or hate her. Do you understand the difference? Of course, in this respect, I don't have the absolute truth, but I believe this serve to you.
2007-07-09 09:44:53 · answer #1 · answered by Aytoy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I feel that way right now. I love my husband so much that I almost hate him for being the person that he is. I also hate myself for allowing myself to get to that point. A lot of people say that once you end the bad relationship and move on to a person that will treat you like you a queen, you'll soon realize that you weren't in love like you thought you were.
2007-07-09 13:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marinosa,
Debe pensar en los razones por su amor. Es para hacerle acercarse? o para hacer celosa otra persona?
Es el un tonto - mudo o, por sea caso, un borachero? Parece que Ud debe averiguar los motivos suyos, y re-calibrar su corazon. Es fragil, y falta de madurez.
Dele (a Ud) un favor - abondonarle. Hay otros mejores en el mundo.
Disculpame - falta de practicar mi espanol y haya errores.
2007-07-09 13:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by thisbrit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had such strong feelings for someone that I acted like an idiot and hated myself for it. Looking back, I can't understand why I was so "taken" with him; he definitely wasn't worth it.
2007-07-09 13:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by happygirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he amado alguien en el manera. I was heart broken after wards. In some respects I loved him mor ethan myslef, which is stupid. That's why I felt like I hated him and in some ways myself. But I'd like to move on from that.
2007-07-12 08:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Freshmen year i feel in love with my total opposite. I mean this guy was 19 yet he was 4'5 with spiky blond hair. I loved him so much that when ever he would be idot i would just shake my head and say that is my man.
2007-07-09 13:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes at the time till I dumped him and realized how much better off I was without him
2007-07-09 15:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by llexiann30 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, i would never hate a person who once i loved, i always try to keep in mind the greatest moments, I live and let live.. the life continues every moment, if you keep bad feelings you are going to destroy not only your beutiful life but also his... tkss.... write to my... my little friend....marlinagui@hotmail.com.
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2007-07-09 14:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. That doesn't make any sense. If you truly loved someone it would be practically impossible to hate them to the extent to which you are implying.
2007-07-09 13:38:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Then I got away from him and I realized that I was so much happier and I didn't love him nearly as much as I thought I did.
2007-07-09 13:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋