I was with somebody for 6 years up until a year ago. I've been single since. I've a nice face and bubbly personality but i weigh 11 and half stone (160pds). Is this why i'm still single? Honestly, am i too overweight to attract male attention?
2007-07-09 03:19:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry - forgot to say i'm 5ft 7in height.
2007-07-09 03:26:06 · update #1
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2007-07-09 03:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Suzy
I am 5.4 and have been 8 stone and 13 stone. At the moment I am 10 stone. Like you I have a pretty face and bubbly personality. I have never been short of men. I feel better when I am slimmer, ie more choice of clothes and easier to get around but thats it. No more no less. Be yourself and be happy, your life and you deserve to be happy ok. xx
2007-07-09 11:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a 40year old BBW I can tell you that weight has nothing to do with it. I have been with a wonderful man (27years old)for 5 years now and I am still being hit on my men from every age bracket. Have some more confidence in you beauty and it will shine out for others to see.
2007-07-09 11:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by nykate_winslow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I think a lot of males would like you for your personality and your looks. I don't know your height, but 160 is not that high for many women who have partners. If you were with someone for 6 years, you obviously attracted your former partner.
2007-07-09 10:28:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some males only go for overweight women.
11 + stone can be reduced to 9+ stone if you do it in stages.
In 3 months reduce to 10 + stone in another 3 months reduce to 9+ stone.
2007-07-09 10:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jewel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sad now a days, but it's true. Men and women look at the outside appearance before anything. Society feels that if they can't look good on the outside-they must not feel good (about themselves) on the inside. If you are happy with your weight-that's great...Be confident with yourelf and show that confidence to the world. But, if your not happy with your weight, exercise and eat a little healthier. That's what it should be all about - Health.
2007-07-09 10:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by Ericka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it with large ladies and low self-esteem? Different pipo like different pipo. Look around and you will find lots of fat women in relationships, why not you.
The reason you are single is not only because you havent yet met the right person, but also because you look down upon yourself. Chin up, girlfriend, enjoy yourself, love will find you.
Lots of men I know, love big ladies. Am slim myself but almost all my friend are big and in relationships
2007-07-09 10:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by Kayjay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 5'7 you are not over weight. but sounds to me like you are single because of you. gf you need to have confidence and love yourself. men love a woman who is comfortable in her own skin. i know from experience i was a size 18 when i got with jeff 8 yrs ago, im now a 13, he got with me cause he loved my smile. and he is hott and also one of the good ones. you are also in the healing process the rest is on you now. get out there girl you will find the one. or have fun trying,
2007-07-09 10:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by ah197277 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry i think i have misread the question 5'7" and 11 stone... where exactly are you overweight.. i would say all the curves are in all the right places and bet they are very nice too.. he obviously likes the twigs of this world u r better off without him or any other **** who is giving you diet advice
2007-07-09 11:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by silverfoxcb7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it. If anything, guys are less likely to approach thin, gorgeous girls because they (the guys) are intimidated. Furthermore, 160 pounds isn't really big. And, I don't mean this as an insult, but it's also important to realize that most guys are not highly discriminating.
2007-07-09 10:26:05 · answer #10 · answered by Handsome Chuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of coase not. you just need to be eating healthy. I an 154 pounds and im really not fat. i no plenty of women that are happily in a relationship and are over 200 pounds. just keep looking for the one that will love all ov you. even your little imperfectons. besides if someone mentions that your overweight it just say "hey, theres more to love"
2007-07-09 10:27:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋