I really care about my boyfriend its just when I got into arguments or disagreements with him I question if I love him or not. Is it normal to feel that way and question the way that you feel? Or am I always suppose to be sure that I love him and not question it? I think that I do because I've never done anything for anyway like I've done for him. I am faithfull and give him the best of me. Its just sometimes when I feel mistreated I question weither I love him or am in love with him. Maybe I just got use to the fact I care so much and I've been with him so long am I just use to him or what?
2007-07-09 03:41:05 · 11 answers · asked by Jane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he mistreats you the whole relationship then you need to get rid of him. Don't ever settle for a guy who will treat you bad.
Also...when you get in an argument it shouldn't make you question whether or not you love him but I understand why it would. You are mad at him so you are thinking everything that is possible to think that is negative.
Like I said before though, if he has always mistreated you then get rid of him. No one deserves to be mistreated, especially by the person they care about the most.
2007-07-09 03:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by Flip-Flop Crazy Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a feeling, so as with all feelings... feel it with your heart. Ask if its true and dont lie to yourself.
Some have said that love is when you care and feel for that other person as much as you do for yourself or more.
Though, one sided love is not beneficial and will, eventually self destruct. Only thing is how much effort is gonna get blown away when it does..
Disagreements in relationships are only natural, but then theres always the phrase "Kiss and make up"
2007-07-09 10:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg..i have been down this road, and i still am. See, I see that mostly when hes mad at me or Im a away from him is the time I think i love him most. But then when hes with you more often, I feel like I just like him alot. There is no true way a telling if you truly love him or not, only you can for surley settle that.
2007-07-09 10:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by HeyMs.DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arguing is a part of everyones relationship.You love him if you argue and feel the same feeling you felt when you met him thats love.Love is this tingling feeling in your heart telling you to do wrong when you should do right but you do it anyway cause you care for that person too much.
2007-07-09 10:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by Hotmom1216 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal for you to question if you love him or not..believe me its just a phase because your mad at him..but it looks like you really are serious about him..Last advice...try not to question if you love him or not, even though I've said before that its normal..you'll feel a lot better..its based from experience(with my GF)...I hope I've helped you..Good Luck
2007-07-09 10:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by anubis01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to question it, then it is not love. If those things frustrate you now, they would be worse and more devistating after marriage. You are not in love -- you are just comfortable. If he is mistreating you - even emotionally, you need to get out.
2007-07-09 10:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant just instantly love someone when you are in love you will know it without even questioning yourself
2007-07-09 10:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you feel it in your gut and you never want to let that person out of your life you can tell them anything and you want to do every thing with them.
that is love
2007-07-11 15:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a figment of imagination used when u find sum1 u can tolerate for long periods of time
2007-07-09 10:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
love is like jesus, you only belive in it cause people tell you to
2007-07-09 10:46:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋