Family & Relationships - 9 April 2007

Im looking to have a song for mother/son 1st dance in spanish and english please help!

2007-04-09 06:58:10 · 6 answers · asked by CR 2 in Weddings

Oh come on! There's always one who is better looking.

2007-04-09 06:57:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-09 06:56:43 · 12 answers · asked by kcicek3005 3 in Singles & Dating

My Brother Has Bipolar Depression And My Mom Always Spends Time With Him And I Understand That He IS the Middle Child I Am The Youngest My Parents R Divorced And I Have Seen So Many Things Like My Dad Getting Real Mad At My Sister And loosing Control And Now That My Brother Is Depressed My Mom Barley Pays Attention To Me I Know It Sounds Like I Am High Mattinence But My Mom Barley Says I Love You Anymore And It Is Hurting Me And So I Have Told My Mom Many Times I am Sad About This Kinda Atuff But She Just Tells Me I Am A Little Too Needy I Am Scared I Am Hurting Her When I Say This But She Is Hurting ME More Than She Thinks How Do I Tell Her I Want Her To Pay Attention To Me In A Way That Wont Make Her Think I Am Not To High Mattinence And That wont Make Me Feel Bad In The End?

2007-04-09 06:56:01 · 12 answers · asked by Girlie babe>3 1 in Family

I have been with my boyfriend for two months now. I have been best friends with him for a year. He is Mexican and I am a white, American girl. He speaks Spanish, I speak both Spanish and English. My family however doesn't, and therefore they disapprove. They do not even know him, yet do not like him because he doesn't speak English. He also has a child from when he was in his late teens, and they do not like that either. Yes, I know that is a very difficult situation, but that doesn't change the way I love him. The reasons that they do not like him are very superficial. He loves me and I love him. He treats me well and I don't understand how they can be so hateful towards me about this. I know they love me, but they told me that I have made a "piss poor" choice and that I will be ruining my life if I decide to continue with him. They told me I should just "drop" him and move on. They said I am being selfish, I might as well just be on drugs and they will never approve.

2007-04-09 06:54:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how long after signing divorce papers does it take for it to be finalised

2007-04-09 06:54:35 · 14 answers · asked by teresa_1980_2005 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-09 06:54:18 · 22 answers · asked by KrisMcD 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-09 06:53:34 · 6 answers · asked by blindedbyred 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 26 years old and I think she's about 21-24. We work for different companies in the same building, but i haven't had an oppurtunity to talk to her. (feeling like a 5th grader just thinking about it so please save the immature responses)

2007-04-09 06:52:15 · 20 answers · asked by JBNH007 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance' and I have been knowing each other for four years. When we first met we were friends for about 3 months and then decided to start a relationship. Well, it didn't work. Two years later we met again and decided to give it another try. I'm a virgin and he's not. But he hasn't been sexual active in 5 years. Well, it's been a whole year now that we've been together and we are to marry in two months. We have never had sex, because he says that he respects me so much, that he wants to wait until we're married to be intimate. He also said that he prayed to God for someone like me and that he would have to make a sacrifice himself if what he wanted was me. "I hope you understand that". When we are together we hug, kiss, and play around but we've never crossed the line, and I very much so respect him for that. I don't think that he would ever cheat on me. But, you know when you are a virgin and your mate's not and he's willing to wait... it's like is this really true? Should I worry?

2007-04-09 06:52:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife wants to be the boss in our house. She wants to try to decide by herself without consulting me. Moreover, she doesnt tell me where will she go, also the time of her return. If I am mad, she shows that she is more angry than I am. I want to avoid conflict, but it seems its too much.I feel pain all the time, but I dont understand her attitude. What should I do?

2007-04-09 06:50:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my main fear is my man cheating on my with a light skin black girl i am a light skin hispanic with straight hair by the way... do i sound racist??? the thing that scares me is the hair and they are dominant?? why do u think it scares me ?? and him cheating on me with other races doesnt?? please dont get mad i just wanna get over my fear

2007-04-09 06:48:47 · 31 answers · asked by veronica 1 in Weddings

2007-04-09 06:44:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend & my husband worked together and were good friends. Then my husband left that office and they continued to talk daily sometimes mornings & evenings but I didnt know a thing about it nor did my friends husband. My friends husband saw her cell phone bill and thought something was going on and questioned her about it. After questioning both and going through all his stuff I realised that nothing was going on. They were just talking. Now I'm finding it so difficult to be friends with her. Before this she was my best friend and I truly enjoyed her friendship. The reason she gives for not telling me about her daily chats with my husband is that I am "overly possessive" of my husband.
We have many common friends and were very close before all this happened. Now if I stop talking to her it will be noticed. And although I hate what she did, it's very hard for me to let go of her friendship.

2007-04-09 06:40:16 · 12 answers · asked by Ginger 1 in Family

what do u do if u hate smoke but ur parents smoke around u and wen u tell em to stop they don't i'm affraid i have become a second hand smoker and my mom never listens to me she says watever she wants she get watever she wants to do she does so wat should i do ?????????? can amyone please help me

2007-04-09 06:38:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My entire family is addicted to perscription pain medications. My father, my two aunts, my cousin, my grandfather. They take large amounts of Soma (up to 6 at a time), Xanax (2-5 at a time), and Hydrocodone (3-7). They are all drug addicts, each one takes a different amount of the above within each range, but those are the three. Recently my father and grandfather have run out they are having hallucinations, terrible ones, with seizures as well. They call me and tell me people are after them while I am at school, when I get there there is no one. They believe they're captains of navy ships. I no longer live with them so I can no longer protect them. My father recently got in trouble with the law and he has a court date soon (next month) I bailed him out, so I don't know how involved I can get with the police.

The abuse has been going on for years.

What should I do? I am a college student and have never taken any prescription medication, nor do I do drugs, and am an A+ student.

2007-04-09 06:37:39 · 4 answers · asked by Block n Moo 2 in Family

I was just wondering because im a mexican-american and i am really attracted to black guys but my cousins think that is weird... is there anything weird about that?

2007-04-09 06:36:39 · 15 answers · asked by Miss Cucumber Melon 1 in Singles & Dating

He lies about just about anything he thinks may upset me. But what he doesnt realize is, when I find out, (which i always do...) I am way more upset. How do I get it thru his head that he must be truthful with me or I will never be able to trust him... therefore cannot be with him

I am so in love with this man.. We are about to get married... we have a baby on the way.. I really don't want to leave him.. It's not a choice to me. I don't believe he is cheating on me, but if I did have concerns, why would I believe anything he says?

Any women or men out there that can give me advice on what I should do? I have confronted him so many times with lies that he is telling me, and he always says I try to be truthful and it's hard... He says that he is afraid i won't love him anymore... this is when we are talking about things of his past.. Which I understand is his past, but I want to know all of him, not just the good stuff he thinks i should know...

ADVICE? :-\

2007-04-09 06:36:36 · 20 answers · asked by ishyboo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

heres the situation, ive known this girl form south africa for about 2 years, she worked in England with me for a year and we realy clicked 2gether. I really liked her but i wasn't sure whether she liked me although there were signs. Well the other day on the phone she admitted that she did really like me heaps but din't no how to approach when she was in England. We speak heaps and i really feel for her but im not sure what to do because she lives so far away. I wouldn't be that bothered but we just really click. Any suggestions please

2007-04-09 06:35:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend drove a girl to the store to visit her frds who working thier. That was a while ago and i said that i didn't like her to him and he knew that. It was about few months ago. No he went on a " date" well not really but he went food shopping with 4 of his frds and lata went back to one of their house and watch a movie, now when i called him cause i was on my break from wrk and he said were he was and who he was with. Now my question is should i trust him again, he kinda did this to me b4 and now he doing it again. Should i just take it like he's going out with his frds or should i take it like hes trying to go on a date but doesn't want to do it 2 close 2gether and have it spread apart so he might think i'll 4get about the previous one.

So confused

2007-04-09 06:35:06 · 1 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

I've known my boyfriend for 8 yrs.. But we've only been together for 2 months.... So he pretty much knows everything about me.. Let's just say I was permiscuous in High School and he is starting to trip over it and he is also having trust issues.. He's been cheated on and he knows that I've cheated in my past relatioships...I am in love with this guy and I would never cheat on him.. I tell him this over and over... But it still seems to be a problem.. Is it going to take time for him to trust me?? How can I be understanding..? but then at the same time I've NEVER gave him a reason to not trust me.. So it's driving me crazy when he tell me stuff.. I've never had such a strong feeling for anyone in my life I love him alot and I would never hurt him.... It hurts me when he dosen't trust me because I'm not doing anything wrong! What can I say or do to help him get over the past and start trusting me??

2007-04-09 06:33:34 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's fantastic, beautiful, succesful, has her own business and home but wants me to convert to Islam before we get married.

2007-04-09 06:33:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

married friend cheated on partner, left her, went back for kids, has now cheated again......doesnt know what to do, i dont know what to say, after the 1st time, i said he'd do it again when someone else came along. doesnt seem to be putting much effort into making marraige work, just moved back in as far as i can tell to be with his kids and not go through a messy divorce...what happens in these situation?

2007-04-09 06:30:16 · 19 answers · asked by Supergirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been together for 6 years, engaged 3. We share a 3 year old child. 3 months ago I found out he was having a long distance telephone relationship with another female that was going on for 10 months, when I found out. He ended that. Last week I found out he has been talking online with someone else for about a month, only 2 months after he got caught for the 1st infidelity. I have been so fed up with his lies and now I can't trust him. I told him it was over for the first time, I gave him a chance the first time he got caught it was worse then. He went out and got my name tatooed on his arm to prove his love for me. He has not had intercourse, but I know it does not excuse his actions. I am hurt- but I do love him, we have invested 6 years into this relationship. What should I do. Please comments from men encouraged.

2007-04-09 06:25:12 · 20 answers · asked by Sally2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

has anyone done that?

2007-04-09 06:21:50 · 26 answers · asked by jj 2 in Singles & Dating

im in college single and want to know were to meet hot latina girls

2007-04-09 06:18:52 · 9 answers · asked by Kris O 1 in Singles & Dating

In a 6mo period - you end your 28 year marriage finally after 2yrs of waiting, you hurt your back, lost your job and now have to move out of the house because it's going to ex - even though it is of your own free will,you meet and fall head over heals for a great gal but your two children (grown and on their own) are having issues not only with the way their Mother left them too, but that you have someone new in your life and it seems to be moving fast. Now the girlfriend says to you that your depression and uncertainty about absoutely everything were making her insecure & unhappy in the relationship so she feels she needs time to regroup herself and give you some space to work on things, but that once things were more resolved in your own life, she wanted to try again and see if there were still a chance for a future - If this were you - would you go back to her and give her a chance or would you simply cope and never speak to her again feeling abandoned in your time of need?

2007-04-09 06:13:19 · 18 answers · asked by martiek7 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So I met this girl and went out with her for a few days, i later found out that she on a break with her bf who by the way is a dick to her and everybody says he's hidious. Anyway, He was the one who wanted the break, i got to kiss her but the very next day they got back together, she says shes confused, and i know she's just obsessed and used to the same guy, they've been together for 2 years, and i also know that girl is crazy about me, she likes me a LOT and i mean a LOT, but the obsession for that guy has her tied up, and i would fight for her, but i dont really know how to fight something like that and i really don't want to lose her because she's a great girl and deserves a lot better, i really love spending time with her and just hugging her and kissing her. how can i win her over that obsession, is it possible? or should just stay away from her and get over it and let that guy keep treating her bad?

2007-04-09 06:11:42 · 1 answers · asked by jextreme_22 2 in Singles & Dating

I'll be honest, I was blinded by his car. I loved it! But by our first phone convo, I was sprung off of HIM and not his ride.

2007-04-09 06:09:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together for two years now and we have a child together and are getting married this year. Lately he has an attitude with me over nothing. And says sometimes he feels hate for me but others says he loves me. I don't know what to do to change this, he wasn't always like this. Just for about 3 months now. Anyone been through this before? Why? What is wrong? I have tried talking to him and get nowhere.

2007-04-09 06:07:41 · 6 answers · asked by tls 3 in Marriage & Divorce